Why do Civilian Women hate Strippers so much and show hostility towards Strip Cl

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• BigTuna1

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  11 years ago

  Secret if I wanted it to last
  
  Wave it like a banner if she was a one and dune
• Dougster

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  11 years ago

  @Payer11: I guess the civie women just didn't understand that your stripper mother need to make a living so she could feed your sorry ass somehow.
• VeryBigDawg

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  11 years ago

  If dating girl dealing-with-customers (waitress, hostess, hotel, etc.) then it is OK. And they love to get nasty at the club! Wish I had buck for every waitress I took to SC after her night shift to get the action started. Professional gal (doctor, lawyer, dentist, etc.) is MEGA no-go, and if you do then you just fucked up a meal ticket for life.
  
  If married then it becomes way to get guys hot, and becomes foreplay. There are some clubs in Atlanta that have lots of couples on weekends. It gets daddy's dick hard for mommy!
• Papi_Chulo

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  11 years ago

  as KittyKate mentioned in another thread w.r.t. dancers and their regulars – women tend to be territorial and naturally competitive w/ each other.
  
  As I stated in another thread – men and women just have different views when it comes to sex; for the most part.
  
  As I stated in my other post; I heard a comedian say once:
  
  “Women look for the ONE man to satisfy ALL her needs – and men look for ALL women to satisfy their ONE need”
  
  Another popular saying is:
  
  “Men use LOVE to get SEX – and women use SEX to get LOVE”
  
  Men and women have different needs – for a woman sex is often not the #1 priority where for men it often is.
  
  So men go to SCs to get their *immediate* sex needs met – but for most women sex is not as immediate or big of a need so they cannot comprehend not wanting/needing to have that need met often and immediately.
  
• jester214

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  11 years ago

  The topic is a huge generalization.
• dallas702

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  11 years ago

  Probably not so "huge" a generalization. I did have a girlfriend (decades ago) who was curious about strippers and very kind (if a little condescending) when she spoke to dancers at a club I took her to. Other "civi" women I have known were very hostile about "those whores" if the subject of SCs every came up. Several women I have known lump Hooters waitresses in with strippers.
  
  Jealous, likely. Insecure about their own bodies - also possible. Staking out a position to "protect" her own reputation - very likely.
• lopaw

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  11 years ago

  I agree that it's a huge generalization, especially in today's world. When my co workers & I invite some of our straight (or maybe bi-curious) female coworkers to the SC most come along and have fun. The bigger factor apparently is age, not gender. When we've asked the older women (& the older guys for that matter too) they weren't interested and turned their noses up at the very idea. But the younger gals were on board with it.
• kittykate

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  11 years ago

  I think some civilian ladies hate strippers because they only know about the stereotypes. Chicks who have been to a few clubs usually realize that most clubs aren't filthy brothels with junkie hookers stumbling around begging for $5 blow jobs with crabs crawling out if their dirty g-string. When I started stripping my vanilla friends were seriously sketched out. They thought I was going to get gang banged and assigned to a pimp. After they came in to see me they realized that strip clubs aren't all that bad....
• DandyDan

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  11 years ago

  I wouldn't say they all do, but I made the mistake of talking about them once with one of my young female coworkers and all she could say about it was it was all a bunch of exploitation. I told her that working our job together was a bunch of exploitation, but naturally, she didn't see any truth in that. I think she was just jealous of the fact there are girls who like to show off their bodies, which isn't surprising considering this is the one genuine fat girl at work. The odd thing about her is she is supposedly a lesbian and you would think she, of all the ladies at work, would be the most into it, but I suppose not all lesbian ladies are like lopaw.
• ilbbaicnl

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  11 years ago

  Seems like there are many members here who say strippers are not women to marry or even date for reasons other than to get a piece. Is it any surprise that non-strippers want to distance themselves from being the target of those attitudes?
• HowdyPilgrims

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  11 years ago

  Why would you even be discussing the subject with middle aged civi women?
• DandyDan

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  11 years ago

  I don't know why you would discuss strip clubs with middle aged civi women, but I have seen some at some of the places I go. Granted they aren't the most attractive ladies, but the few I have seen are no less inhibited than the 20-something ladies I typically see. I've even seen these barely legal girls pull these older ladies up onstage at one of my regular clubs and strip them naked and it's like they are taking their own mother's clothes off.
• SlickSpic

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  11 years ago

  Why do women hate other women, period?
• rockstar666

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  11 years ago

  @ilbbaicnl - My ATF is also a friend but I would never date a stripper with the intention of a LTR because they are all flakes, including my ATF.
  
  They can't keep appointments, they can't handle money, are usually chemically dependent and if they're fucking me they are likely fucking other people too, including my ATF. Which is fine for a FWB thing which is what we are, but not so good for a truly serious relationship where she has free access to your money.
  
  Yes I'm using a broad brush but this has been my experience.
• Estafador

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  11 years ago

  Somebody's gotta date a stripper. Strippers need love too.
• sclvr5005

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  11 years ago

  Why not discuss strip clubs with middle aged civi women? If they are up for it why not? Its not like you are trying to date them or anything. If an older lady wanted to check out a club and asked me I would take her. It would be like hanging out with a buddy at the club.
• BagBoyJames

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  11 years ago

  Amen esta bro.....thats y i date dem nasty extra lovin bitches.....James is a bad Ass
• inno123

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  11 years ago

  Whenever a woman says 'what is it with guys and...' they presume we won't have an answer and then act surprised when we do.
• SuperDude

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  11 years ago

  Many women believe that sex is the only real card they have to play. Granting or withholding sex is a means to an end--marriage, favors, presents or male submissiveness. Strippers, escorts or just wild young girls are a threat to civilian women's ability to control men. If I can get sex anywhere and anytime, legally, why do I have to listen to BS from one woman who wants to control me through withholding. The struggle for power continues.
• SlickSpic

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  11 years ago

  Superdude, great remarks. Historically, women only had their charm and sensuality to gain power and influence, a la Cleopatra and Josephine. In the Art of Seduction and Laws of Power, Robert Greene details this.
• Dougster

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  11 years ago

  IME it is generally the average or worse looking civies that are the most hostile to it. Good looking ones seem to find it amusing, intriguing, or something they admit they would consider. I think most who have posted in this thread are correct (especially SuperDude) as to the reasons why.
• zipman68

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  11 years ago

  True dat Esta. We may joke about KA-ray-ZEE shit but we shouldn't forget that strippers are human and deserve everything we all deserve like love. Love keeps us from going crazy (except when it drives us crazy).
• Clackport

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  11 years ago

  "Good looking ones seem to find it amusing, intriguing, or something they admit they would consider".
  
  I'm gonna have to strongly disagree with that statement unless you're talking to escorts or someone who's already working in the sex industry in some capacity.
• ilbbaicnl

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  11 years ago

  Who was it the Mayas who use to play a game resembling soccer, with the losers being executed? Although most are more subtle, all human societies are like this. We may not literally die for pointless games, but we sacrifice our happiness for them. The "I win if I own another person sexually" game snuffs out the happiness of many.