kittykate

Last sex buddy I had never bought me dinner, a drink or anything. The first time we meet, he came to my place, watched half a movie and then we fucked for hours. Since I worked nights, he's usually swing by for sex about twice a week. Maybe 3 times. It was always after work. He'd only spend the night if he'd been drinking. We did this for a little over 2 years...? One time he did bring me Taco Bell. Does that count as dinner? So not all ladies need to be wined and dined. Some just want to have a good time with as little drama as possible. Might be good to keep a slightly open mind about the opposite sex.... You might find something fun! Actually I take that all back. Go to the strip clubs. Buy dances. The only girls worth messing with are strippers. ; )

I think some civilian ladies hate strippers because they only know about the stereotypes. Chicks who have been to a few clubs usually realize that most clubs aren't filthy brothels with junkie hookers stumbling around begging for $5 blow jobs with crabs crawling out if their dirty g-string. When I started stripping my vanilla friends were seriously sketched out. They thought I was going to get gang banged and assigned to a pimp. After they came in to see me they realized that strip clubs aren't all that bad....

I like the $10 dance, usually. I think I discussed this in another posting and people got mad. But they are easy to sell and are usually shorter songs. For some reason, it's harder to sell 2 $20 dances than 5 $10 dances. I don't know why. But guys always think they are getting a great deal with the $10 dance. And that makes my job easier!!

Do you ever date women closer to your age, or is that not your thing? I get it, if its not. Do you like the no strings aspect of paying for sex? Or would you prefer a GF or a friends with benefits situation?

I know. I'm kinda weird. I like cocky freaks, I guess. I think because I have to be so bossy and controlling at work, it's fun to be on the other side of things in my personal life. It's possible that I try to overcompensate because of my job, too. I go to fairly extreme lengths to please the men I date, possibly because I do feel a little bad that I sell my body, for a living (I don't feel guilty about what I do, but I do worry that my work might make others uncomfortable--which is why I don't do serious relationships, as states above.) Maybe my tastes will change when I get out of the industry.