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2 years ago
That's true actually
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2 years ago
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CJKent_bandThe truth hurts, but if you accept it, it will set you free
So this is why the nice guys with no money, education, talent, or looks get the strippers to fuck them. Hell I wish I'd known this before I blew my money....
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2 years ago
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TiburonEvery woman's local ATM while in da club? How else they paying for their Boob jobs?
Just an observation. I spent a good amount of time looking at escorts on Tryst today for cities I'm likely traveling to this year. So, I'm confident I can find a very good looking dancer for 500 for OTC. But very often in that range looking at escorts on Tryst there are a few things to keep in mind.
1. Most require verification. Strippers usually only require a wallet.
2. Many escorts in that range on Tryst are downright fat. Or not very attractive. Not all. Perhaps not most. But many. And having done escorts before, what you see in the ad and what you see at the door can be different by a few years or more.
3. I feel like it's too easy. The conquest is exhilarating. Strippers can say no but most escorts obviously do not.
While there is an ease of a quick fix with escorts, I feel like for me they are an "add on" to my overall sex pursuit. Strippers are central to it
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2 years ago
Well here's an update. It's kinda grey.
We went out last night and decided to get a room for a few hours and it was good, solid civvie sex with no money involved.
We went out for drinks after and she said she needed a man in her life and she's like to keep seeing me. Then she said among the reasons she needs a man is it's hard to make it alone as an older single mom financially. We talked around that a bit. But nothing specific. But she made it clear she's not looking to be a prostitute unlike half the other girls in the club. It was all I could do not to ask for their names lol.
But just in case she was serious, I said let's keep talking and see how it goes.
She's not danced really in her life and hasn't bartended in strip clubs regularly.
So it's grey. But I'm leaning toward answering my question as dancer not civvie.
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2 years ago
If you have a small pecker, put a cucumber in your pants.
Seriously, I think some new guys I've met have been confused about how they look and shy away from VIPs. But most of the time the dancers are more concerned about your size and girth...of your wallet.
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2 years ago
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TiburonEvery woman's local ATM while in da club? How else they paying for their Boob jobs?
So do you have to show your face pic for the sugar daddy sites? I guess she will want one anyway so scratch that. I'd go with Stripper then escorts. AMP would be a distant 3rd but I read around here guys are getting tongues in asses all the time and I'm not sure about that
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2 years ago
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TFPAdventures of Assjobman
I just reread this thread after reading Ricks last comment. I don't think I've ever felt sick anger as many of you guys do toward women. And I've been fucked over by dancers many times (all my fault for not spotting it and growing pains in the hobby). But I don't get the hatred and def feels like some strip club money needs to be spend on a therapist
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2 years ago
I never let girls in my treehouse in first grade either. But back then they terrified me.
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2 years ago
@shadowcat #13 and the other 50% you read here? Only 25% of that is useful
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2 years ago
The nose hair advice is brilliant. Getting them entangled doing DATY OTC with the dancer with the 70s bush is tough to explain to the EMTs
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2 years ago
I think of I ever met a dancer named Seven I would extend my hand and say, "Hello nice to meet you my name is Three and a half but girthy.
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2 years ago
There is now cologne you can buy that is called "ROB Repellant". Try that
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2 years ago
Hotel or behind the dumpster outside the club.
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2 years ago
If she has a tramp stamp that says OTC I'd say you are good to go
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2 years ago
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drewcareypnwnot the real drew carey, but I play him at strip clubs...
I once had a buddy who was a Christian rock musician tell me he liked this one woman he was dating because of her spirituality and his PSE with her. I asked him if they'd had sex yet he said not yet. Lying bastard
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2 years ago
Well this is getting in the realm of civvie dating which folks here stent as interested in so like I said I should take that off line I guess. But if I'm interested in a woman in a serious way or possibly so or just exploring it, I'm not cashing in my chips for pussy on the first damn date lol. More importantly, she needed to get home to the kids that night so it was impractical.
Bartenders in clubs, and she's no exception, get hit on and offered money for sex just like dancers. Not rushing it is a useful strategy in the civvie context even if that's all you want. But she's cool and I might want to explore a bit more with her.
Like I said, I'm sure I will fuck it up and offer money for a blow job from one of the dancers who I didn't know was her cousin lol
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2 years ago
So all INTJs are psycho lol
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2 years ago
The text app I use is great. PFH is wonderful "Pussy for Hire"
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2 years ago
And if dancers get upset with that approach remind them that you learned it from them in their own place of employment. No hard feeling. I will buy the blue Audi instead. And so will she
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2 years ago
Isn't this just much simpler for Christmas sake? I want something and she wants something. If those wants don't align then we are both moving on to some other part of the marketplace. Take emotions out of it. It's a transaction, a business
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2 years ago
No no I kinda like her I'm not going to bed her immediately. For women, everything is foreplay
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2 years ago
Also, it's been so long since I've had civvie sex. Does it work the same as with strippers? I mean when that little thing that hangs down between my legs rises up does it still go into that opening she has between her legs?
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2 years ago
Lol Rick. She wouldn't let me pay! Lol.
It's hard to get out of strip club mode with civvies. I'm sure I will fuck it up when we have sex. I will probably give her a hard 90 seconds, throw $200 on the bed, walk to the car and think I somehow got a good deal lol.
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2 years ago
I just assume the best in people until proven otherwise. But I always protect my ass just in case
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2 years ago
I think all this is yet to be determined so you proceed slow