Dancer angry I stopped seeing her as much? Possibly psycho?
I saw a dancer weekly for a month. She didnt offer much extras but i kept seeing her as dances were still fun and she was nice.I stopped seeing her after 4 weeks. Cause I wanted to do other things and got really bored. I came to see her 2 months later and she was super pissed. Saying i had the nerve to text her im coming.
This is where it gets crazy. I told her i didnt feel like coming, cuz i had too many addictions eating up my time and money.
She stomped her foot down, raised her head up, almost yelling “Like what!”
I told her it was watches. She started talking watches with me. Then later during the convo I was telling her yeah these addictions are just eating up my money. Which is true. I spent a lot. Then this was too crazy. She gave me a crazy staredown. I was too scared to look at her. I was looking straight ahead. For 20 seconds straight, she was crazily staring and glaring at me. I was too scared to make direct eye contact. Then her regular whale came so she walked away telling me to get a dance with her friend.
She didnt hug me or anything when I saw her in the beginning either. I thought as a strip club client, you should be free to come and go as you please cause its a paid relationship. But this dancer was extremely pissed.
Shes some kind of narcissist, borderline, bipolar or something. Many times she does silent treatment over text.
A few weeks later I told her I would be coming on the weekend. She was doing silent treatment, so i said some insulting things to her, told her were not gonna get anymore dances now.
Then she threatened to have my ass beat next time she sees me. That somebody would be waiting for me. Wtf! Now I probably have to go to tje club when shes not there and run away as soon as she shows up. I mean, if I saw her I would say hello from afar, laugh at her and then quickly run away.
The whole situation is laughable but also scary. I’m convinced she’s some sort of psychopath or something. Isn’t it odd for a woman to threaten to have your ass beat? I would assume that’s something a highschool aged kid trying to be gangster would say. Plus its not like i publicly embarrassed or insulted her. It was over text.
I regret not looking at her during the crazy staredown. But i have no idea. I wonder if she would have attacked me if i looked at her. And based on her threat im kind of convinced she wanted to beat me during that staredown. She thinks i was seeing her less cuz i was seeing escorts and pornstars.
Isnt that something only a girlfriend type of girl would care about? Why would a stripper care if im seeing pornstars or seeing her less? She might get less money, but this person was super angry even when I came back to give her more money! She practically wanted to beat me down.
She also asks me who my favorite dancers are, and my second favorite, then seems to get angry and asks all kinds of questions about what the other dancers look like.
This is all very interesting. It’s scary, but it’s interesting because I think she might be an actual psychopath. Theyre like less than 1% of the population. I want to see her more to study her more. But things are getting kind of dangerous. She basically doesnt want to see me ever since I started seeing her less. So I have to figure something out.
Should I beg her not to beat my ass or something? Tell her I want a different punishment?
She also has some charges for stealing phones via fraud. So basically, stealing charges plus very violent. I dont know if she has some gangster lined up to beat me up.
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She's treating you like that because she thinks she can. She thinks you're a pussy, which I'm guessing you've given her good cause to believe. In her world a guy is either a man or a twat to be rolled and it's obvious which category she has you in.
You're welcome.
I only told her once that I would be coming on the weekend. I also asked her if she had seen another dancer there.
A few days passed so i told her im not getting anymore dances with her. And told her to “get fucked in prison scammer, too bad u couldnt get more money off me!”
Im not sure what to do. Should i beg her to not beat me? I could get cops involved but by that point I would have been attacked ir something. This is dangerous.
It is extremely masculine. I think its far above. Cause think about it, the typical strip club customer is desperate, horny, willing to put up with all kinds of nonsense to get the dance or pussy. Not me. I have standards for how I can be treated. Violate those standards and I exit the relationship with ease. As I did here. She ignored my texf, showed no gratitude for me telling her I would be coming on the weekend. And she lost a regular for it. A regular with a 3k a month spending budget. I think I won. Something about it feels like I won
If they dont show respect or gratitude or appreciation I exit with ease. That single mom was extremely angry when I talked trash to her. I didn’t explain to her why i talked trash to her either as it was randomly done months after she ignored me. Somehow i keep talking to them even after being ignored but eventually they do something else improper that reminds me of the ignore instances from the past and then I exit or talk trash and exit.
===> "A few weeks later I told her I would be coming on the weekend. She was doing silent treatment, so i said some insulting things to her, told her were not gonna get anymore dances now."
So first you let her intimidate you and then, a few weeks later, you whined and got emotional just because she ignored you. If I read nothing else, these two snippets would tell me everything I needed to know about how this went where it did.
Look BTE, I'm never one to tell another grown man how to carry himself. But I can say that this never would have happened in my world. You might want to consider finding a way to channel your inner stoicism a little more. That and maybe hitting the gym and lifting some free weights to get a little more testosterone pumping through your body. Also, if you had a father, maybe think back to how he would have managed a woman behaving like that.
Anyway, just a few thoughts.
Usually I am stoic actually. I don’t express emotions much. But this is one of those things i dont deal with. What would you do if a girl was ignoring you? It’s especially unacceptable here because this is a paid relationship. I literally told her I would be there on the weekend which meant she would got some money. For her to still ignore it is disrespectful and rude. The only options in that case are walk away quietly, or talk some trash then walk away. I definitely couldn’t pay cash for someone who ignored me. Nor could I fuck even a civvie girl who ignored me. I see it as a form of desperation or weakness to still pursue or want to sleep with a girl who ignores you which is a subtle way to insult you.
Some people are honorable enough to donate money to someone who’s talking trash to them, i dont have that ability.
Also Rick for a girl to do that staredown as well as her ass beating threat seems odd to me. That seems like guy stuff. I think she is in some ways masculine. Wouldn’t a typical girl actually get excited over player behavior like a guy seeing and spending time with other women? Yet this girl gets enraged over it? You’d think if you haven’t seen someone for months they’d be excited to see you yet this person is grinding her teeth ready to attack me for it. I don’t think her behavior in itself is feminine. I was way too tired to fight so I didn’t want to deal with her staredown and provoke her more. Nor did I want to tell her I had seen other girls, as she was already acting crazy just from me mentioning other addictions eating up my money.
Should i beg her not to beat my ass?
Im not sure id go to the club with her there.
What did she do to be labeled psycho , bi polar, narcissistic? 😂
(Y’all kids with these words,lol)
I think the two of you are matching energies.
She went silent so, you texted her something not nice. Insulted her.
Yep, I’d get someone to beat ya ass too. On site 🥊
You wouldn’t be able to get away with beating someone cause they said something mean. That would get you in major trouble
I guess it's still very much in style here to treat obvious tall tales as real and rise to bait even when you can plainly see the hook in the meat.
25 what’s stupid?
Also what should I do, beg her not to beat me? I cant apologize since I said righteous stuff, but i could beg her not to beat me
As far as what you should have done when she ignored you, the answer was simple: Ignore her back. You have no inherent claim to her time or attention just because you paid her in the past. That was childishly self-entitled and also no doubt contributed to making you look weak and needy.
As far as the rest, I'm happy to play along to a certain degree, but I'm not going down that stupid questions rabbit hole.
They're still SC topics, even if a troll kicked them off. It beats the heck out of the multi-account user masturbation exercises, endless political topics and countless other crap threads that get posted daily.
I think she may have attacked me if i looked at her. I just kept on looking straight ahead.
What kind of a person keeps glaring at someone for over 20 seconds even when the other person isn’t looking at them? Shes doing a staredown like those MMA fighters do except hers is legit anger not a joke thing like the mma fighters.
Isnt there that rule of not looking a lion or bear in the eye or something cause they’ll attack you? I think that applies to some humans.
I look people in the eye all the time. But in this case im sitting there tired and she’s right next to me. I wonder what she told herself mentally to stop herself from hitting me. But actually her whale showed up then so she walked away and told me to get a dance with her cute friend.
Its scary stuff man.
I told her about my birthday like a week after. Cause shes done ID fraud shit before, so i wasnt sure I should tell her. When i told her, she was asking why i told jer a week later. I was like well i forgot last week. She was saying shes veru upset but she looked playful. Then she said she should smack the shit out of me and she did two playful slaps on me.
Now thats all playful and fun but i think it indicates her violent nature. I think in a relationship shes the type who would hunt you down and kill you if you cheated on her. Theres all those news stories of girls who killed their boyfriends for cheating. But im stuck, im not her boyfriend and she still wants to kill me, for insulting her! This is crazy. Im in some deep shit ive never experienced
Rick i forgot to mention another thing I look for is getting discounts on OTC or dances the more I buy. Just like if you buy any product or service in bulk, it’s tje same with dances or otc. In order for me to keep coming back, i need to get discounts. If ive spent a lot on one escort or dancer, i need to start receiving discoints to continue coming back
She acted extremely controlling in dances too. Actually one time she was putting her hands in my pocket trying to force me to tip her $20.
i'd come out of retirement but u prolly couldn't afford me.
speaking of drivebys, there's my cf bhottie. let's bail on this troll thread and get a vip luv 💓
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Also i dont think its normal dancer behavior. You seem to defend dancers at all cost no matter what they do thats not right. Shes tries grabbing tip money out of my pockets. Went crazy when I wanted to get a cheaper dance with her. Like running around the room telling me were nor getting dances unless I spend more.
Lets put it this way im a different type of “psycho” you’ll see if you read OP
Her type of possessiveness is something else. Its not being angry over being ignored