Dancer angry I stopped seeing her as much? Possibly psycho?

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• rickmacrodong

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  2 years ago

  I am not apologizing btw. She did silent treatment, so I insulted her and said no more dances. Id be willing to buy dances eventually, but not apologizing. If she does get some gangsta or something I would get the cops involved and she’d get in trouble as she texted me threats too.
• rickdugan

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  2 years ago

  Why did you keep texting her to let her know that you were coming? Why did you keep engaging her at all? Why did you bother explaining yourself? She's treating you like that because she thinks she can. She thinks you're a pussy, which I'm guessing you've given her good cause to believe. In her world a guy is either a man or a twat to be rolled and it's obvious which category she has you in. You're welcome.
• rickmacrodong

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  2 years ago

  Rick what do you mean? I only told her once that I would be coming on the weekend. I also asked her if she had seen another dancer there. A few days passed so i told her im not getting anymore dances with her. And told her to “get fucked in prison scammer, too bad u couldnt get more money off me!” Im not sure what to do. Should i beg her to not beat me? I could get cops involved but by that point I would have been attacked ir something. This is dangerous.
• rickmacrodong

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  2 years ago

  Rick i feel me refusing to get dances with her because of her ignoring me, i feel It is extremely masculine. I think its far above. Cause think about it, the typical strip club customer is desperate, horny, willing to put up with all kinds of nonsense to get the dance or pussy. Not me. I have standards for how I can be treated. Violate those standards and I exit the relationship with ease. As I did here. She ignored my texf, showed no gratitude for me telling her I would be coming on the weekend. And she lost a regular for it. A regular with a 3k a month spending budget. I think I won. Something about it feels like I won
• rickmacrodong

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  2 years ago

  Rick I have rejected civvie girls if they did things like ignore texts. In one case a single mom was inviting me to a trip to canada with her. She had ignored texts of mine months back, I had that mistreatment in mind when I refused her pathetic invitation. If they dont show respect or gratitude or appreciation I exit with ease. That single mom was extremely angry when I talked trash to her. I didn’t explain to her why i talked trash to her either as it was randomly done months after she ignored me. Somehow i keep talking to them even after being ignored but eventually they do something else improper that reminds me of the ignore instances from the past and then I exit or talk trash and exit.
• Jascoi

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  2 years ago

  Jealousy and possessiveness can work both ways. and I think it’s fairly common unfortunately.
• Mate27

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  2 years ago

  What do you mean, BTE? Cool story, bro. Too bad it’s all a fabrication!
• Jimmybigtits

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  2 years ago

  She thinks you are a mark. Weak. And she thinks that strategy will bring you back. You are being manipulated
• rickdugan

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  2 years ago

  ===> "She gave me a crazy staredown. I was too scared to look at her. I was looking straight ahead. For 20 seconds straight, she was crazily staring and glaring at me. I was too scared to make direct eye contact." ===> "A few weeks later I told her I would be coming on the weekend. She was doing silent treatment, so i said some insulting things to her, told her were not gonna get anymore dances now." So first you let her intimidate you and then, a few weeks later, you whined and got emotional just because she ignored you. If I read nothing else, these two snippets would tell me everything I needed to know about how this went where it did. Look BTE, I'm never one to tell another grown man how to carry himself. But I can say that this never would have happened in my world. You might want to consider finding a way to channel your inner stoicism a little more. That and maybe hitting the gym and lifting some free weights to get a little more testosterone pumping through your body. Also, if you had a father, maybe think back to how he would have managed a woman behaving like that. Anyway, just a few thoughts.
• rickmacrodong

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  2 years ago

  Rick I appreciate the advice... Usually I am stoic actually. I don’t express emotions much. But this is one of those things i dont deal with. What would you do if a girl was ignoring you? It’s especially unacceptable here because this is a paid relationship. I literally told her I would be there on the weekend which meant she would got some money. For her to still ignore it is disrespectful and rude. The only options in that case are walk away quietly, or talk some trash then walk away. I definitely couldn’t pay cash for someone who ignored me. Nor could I fuck even a civvie girl who ignored me. I see it as a form of desperation or weakness to still pursue or want to sleep with a girl who ignores you which is a subtle way to insult you. Some people are honorable enough to donate money to someone who’s talking trash to them, i dont have that ability. Also Rick for a girl to do that staredown as well as her ass beating threat seems odd to me. That seems like guy stuff. I think she is in some ways masculine. Wouldn’t a typical girl actually get excited over player behavior like a guy seeing and spending time with other women? Yet this girl gets enraged over it? You’d think if you haven’t seen someone for months they’d be excited to see you yet this person is grinding her teeth ready to attack me for it. I don’t think her behavior in itself is feminine. I was way too tired to fight so I didn’t want to deal with her staredown and provoke her more. Nor did I want to tell her I had seen other girls, as she was already acting crazy just from me mentioning other addictions eating up my money.
• rickmacrodong

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  2 years ago

  Jimmy her behavior doesnt want to make me come back. It makes me want to avoid her at all cost. It takes a certain type of person to act like she does. She is some kind of hyper dominant woman. Anytime we have discussed watches or cars or anything materialistic she always asks me how much my items cost, then tells me how much her items cost and it’s usually way more than mine. Like she’s trying to one up me or maybe thinking itll make me want her more idk. Should i beg her not to beat my ass? Im not sure id go to the club with her there.
• Bharlem

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  2 years ago

  You’re a bit too much. What did she do to be labeled psycho , bi polar, narcissistic? 😂 (Y’all kids with these words,lol) I think the two of you are matching energies. She went silent so, you texted her something not nice. Insulted her. Yep, I’d get someone to beat ya ass too. On site 🥊
• rickmacrodong

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  2 years ago

  Bharlem her behavior after not seeing me for months. Wanting to beat me. You wouldn’t be able to get away with beating someone cause they said something mean. That would get you in major trouble
• rickmacrodong

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  2 years ago

  Rick I think it depends what you’re looking for when you buy dances, buy otc or give gifts. It seems youre the type of guy whos good with just paying for otc and dont care what else the girl does. Im not buying dances or otc just for that specific event. Im also buying them for the gratitude, the appreciation, the respect, enthusiasm, etc. so if those things are lacking, i wouldnt want to continue paying. Additionally im also looking for someone with morals. So a dancer thieving or behaving violently is a bit of a dealbreaker too even if shes not behaving that way with me
• twentyfive

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  2 years ago

  Threads like this remind me yeah stupid is a real thing
• Call.Me.Ishmael

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  2 years ago

  I've been on a bit of a TUSCL sabbatical. I guess it's still very much in style here to treat obvious tall tales as real and rise to bait even when you can plainly see the hook in the meat.
• rickmacrodong

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  2 years ago

  Ishmael its all true. Did you read the full OP? Not just comments. Whys it hard to believe? 25 what’s stupid? Also what should I do, beg her not to beat me? I cant apologize since I said righteous stuff, but i could beg her not to beat me
• rickdugan

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  2 years ago

  @BTE: If you are looking to use strippers for emotional validation and fulfillment, you're looking in the wrong place brother. Buy a dog or, better still, find a civvie GF. It never ends well for guys who get emotional over strippers. But maybe some lessons just need to be learned through experience, IDK. As far as what you should have done when she ignored you, the answer was simple: Ignore her back. You have no inherent claim to her time or attention just because you paid her in the past. That was childishly self-entitled and also no doubt contributed to making you look weak and needy. As far as the rest, I'm happy to play along to a certain degree, but I'm not going down that stupid questions rabbit hole.
• rickdugan

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  2 years ago

  ===> "I guess it's still very much in style here to treat obvious tall tales as real and rise to bait even when you can plainly see the hook in the meat." They're still SC topics, even if a troll kicked them off. It beats the heck out of the multi-account user masturbation exercises, endless political topics and countless other crap threads that get posted daily.
• rickmacrodong

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  2 years ago

  Thats the most righteous thing you can do. If someone ignores you, you have to walk away. Or talk trash then walk away
• rickmacrodong

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  2 years ago

  Rick ignoring her back would be unacceptable IMO. This wasnt just her ignoring me it was her ignoring me even when i told her I would be coming to see her that weekend. I mean i said I would be at the club that weekend, idk if tje distinction matters. She was still angry about my prior disappearance so ignored me even when i said I would be at the club. That’s an insane level of disrespect. There’s supposed to be some level of appreciation, enthusiasm, gratitude for someone who’s your client.
• rickmacrodong

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  2 years ago

  I dont need to text all day. I texted her like twice a week.
• rickmacrodong

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  2 years ago

  Its clear who’s morally superior anyway
• rickmacrodong

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  2 years ago

  Rick id like to eventually see her again. Should i beg her not to beat me. Is me willing to buy a dance enough of an apology, without a verbal apology
• RamPaige

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  2 years ago

  Is BTE trolling us? I can't imagine this is real.
• DenimChicken

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  2 years ago

  I'm still laughing at the idea of being such a pussy you wouldn't look her in the eye.
• rickmacrodong

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  2 years ago

  Denim ive never been glared and stared at so crazily, by anyone in my life ever, besides my dad dude... I think she may have attacked me if i looked at her. I just kept on looking straight ahead. What kind of a person keeps glaring at someone for over 20 seconds even when the other person isn’t looking at them? Shes doing a staredown like those MMA fighters do except hers is legit anger not a joke thing like the mma fighters. Isnt there that rule of not looking a lion or bear in the eye or something cause they’ll attack you? I think that applies to some humans. I look people in the eye all the time. But in this case im sitting there tired and she’s right next to me. I wonder what she told herself mentally to stop herself from hitting me. But actually her whale showed up then so she walked away and told me to get a dance with her cute friend. Its scary stuff man. I told her about my birthday like a week after. Cause shes done ID fraud shit before, so i wasnt sure I should tell her. When i told her, she was asking why i told jer a week later. I was like well i forgot last week. She was saying shes veru upset but she looked playful. Then she said she should smack the shit out of me and she did two playful slaps on me. Now thats all playful and fun but i think it indicates her violent nature. I think in a relationship shes the type who would hunt you down and kill you if you cheated on her. Theres all those news stories of girls who killed their boyfriends for cheating. But im stuck, im not her boyfriend and she still wants to kill me, for insulting her! This is crazy. Im in some deep shit ive never experienced
• uniquename

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  2 years ago

  Waaaaaaasy too much drama here for what is supposed to be a NSA relationship. Lose the number and move on. Your shelf life has expired with her, and hers with you.
• rickmacrodong

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  2 years ago

  RamPaige assuming its real what would you do? Or what are yoir thoughts. Why does it not sound real? Is it my behavior that sounds unrealistic or the strippers behavior? I assure you its real, and im scared but also excited at the same time. Im nit sure whats so exciting about it. Rick i forgot to mention another thing I look for is getting discounts on OTC or dances the more I buy. Just like if you buy any product or service in bulk, it’s tje same with dances or otc. In order for me to keep coming back, i need to get discounts. If ive spent a lot on one escort or dancer, i need to start receiving discoints to continue coming back
• rickmacrodong

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  2 years ago

  Unique but if shes a legit psychopath that has to be studied. Theyre less than 1% of the population, an extreme rarity. Ive never met any dancer, escort, or other woman that acts like this. I think shes the type who would kill her boyfriend for cheating. The type you hear on the news about. Theres that danger/excitement factor to seeing her. Its like I wonder how much does she hate me for those insults and not seeing her as much? What does she want to do to me and in what manner? She acted extremely controlling in dances too. Actually one time she was putting her hands in my pocket trying to force me to tip her $20.
• uniquename

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  2 years ago

  BTE if she’s “a legit psychopath” what’s the point? Are you a trained observer? If you’re concerned about the well being of her or others report her to the local mental health department and move along.
• psycho_trick

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  2 years ago

  have u thought about hiring armed security for ur sc visits. i'd come out of retirement but u prolly couldn't afford me. speaking of drivebys, there's my cf bhottie. let's bail on this troll thread and get a vip luv 💓
• rickmacrodong

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  2 years ago

  Uniqje, just interesting to see. The way they act and think. They’re extremely rare. I dont want to report her. If she attacked me or had someone beat me i would. I dont wanna get her in trouble. She’s already in trouble for id theft fraud, stealing etc.
• Champphilly

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  2 years ago

  If you submit yourself as slave, then. She gets her right to kick on your as
• rickmacrodong

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  2 years ago

  What do you mean champ
• Call.Me.Ishmael

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  2 years ago

  RamPaige said "Is BTE trolling us?" Yes.
• CJKent_band

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  2 years ago

  Public Service Announcement (PSA) BigThirdEye is just cacaplop trying to swamp these forums with repetitive, stupid questions, either via his own threads or crashing other threads. But, as always, take a look at his posting history and judge for yourself. If engaging with his inane posts is fun for you, then go for it. Otherwise, don't think you're answering sincere questions. ~ [view link].Ishmael ~ April 29, 2022 “In this world, shipmates, sin that pays its way can travel freely, and without a passport; whereas Virtue, if a pauper, is stopped at all frontiers." ~Father Mapple via Herman Melville's "Moby Dick".
• san_jose_guy

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  2 years ago

  BTE, the way they relate to you is just a reflection of the way you are relating to them. SJG "Jane" by Jefferson Starship METAL COVER Feat. Type O Negative + Lucifer + The Hellacopters and More [view link]
• rickmacrodong

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  2 years ago

  SJG what are your thoughts on everything? Her stealing charges, her violent tendencies, i think shes an INTJ and psychopathic?
• Champphilly

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  2 years ago

  BTE, are you looking for a GF in her and surrendered to her like a slave, then definitely she is going treat you like a slave. So, don’t expect anything good from a dancer, just get a dance or ITC or otc and move on. Move on. No personal feelings, possessiveness, learn bro
• Jimmybigtits

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  2 years ago

  So all INTJs are psycho lol
• san_jose_guy

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  2 years ago

  :) :) :) [view link] What are the A and T, a 5th binary they are adding? 5th binary [view link] And here they see ESTP as the best for prostitution. [view link] [view link] INTJ Master Mind [view link] [view link] "Architects aren’t known for being warm and fuzzy. They tend to prioritize rationality and success over politeness and pleasantries – in other words, they’d rather be right than popular. This may explain why so many fictional villains are modeled on this personality type." " Rational – Architects pride themselves on the power of their minds. They can reframe nearly any challenge as an opportunity to hone their rational thinking skills and expand their knowledge – and with this mindset, they can devise inventive solutions to even the most arduous of problems. Informed – Few personality types are as devoted as Architects to developing rational, correct, and evidence-based opinions. Rather than hunches or half-baked assumptions, they base their conclusions on research and analysis. This gives them the conviction that they need to stand up for their ideas, even in the face of disagreement. Independent – For these personalities, conformity is more or less synonymous with mediocrity. Creative and self-motivated, Architects strive to do things their own way. They can imagine few things more frustrating than allowing arbitrary rules or conventions to stand in the way of their success. Determined – This personality type is known for being ambitious and goal-oriented. Architects won’t rest until they’ve achieved their own definition of success – which usually entails mastering the subjects and pursuits that matter to them. Curious – Architects are open to new ideas – as long as those ideas are rational and evidence-based, that is. Skeptical by nature, Architects are especially drawn to offbeat or contrarian points of view. And if the facts prove them wrong, they are generally happy to revise their opinions. Original – Without Architects, the world would be a far less interesting place. This personality type’s rebellious streak is responsible for some of history’s most unconventional ideas and inventions. Even in their everyday lives, Architects force the people around them to consider new (and sometimes startling) ways of looking at things. " SJG Team 7 Set 3 2018 School of Rock AllStars (quite interesting, ecclectic) [view link]
• Icee Loco (asshole)

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  2 years ago

  What's psycho is you obsessing over her with how many threads under how many aliases. Either talk to her or drop it. It's even weird as a troll topic at this point.
• rickmacrodong

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  2 years ago

  Icee... you cant be serious saying “talk to her”. Also i dont think its normal dancer behavior. You seem to defend dancers at all cost no matter what they do thats not right. Shes tries grabbing tip money out of my pockets. Went crazy when I wanted to get a cheaper dance with her. Like running around the room telling me were nor getting dances unless I spend more. Lets put it this way im a different type of “psycho” you’ll see if you read OP
• Champphilly

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  2 years ago

  BTE, you may need social dating. Move on from possessiveness on a dancer who just needs your money.
• rickmacrodong

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  2 years ago

  Champ it looks like our possessiveness is different. Mine is just her replying if i tell her im coming that weekend. Its more about basic respect than possessiveness. I had previously suggested her to my friends and dont feel bad about her giving out dances or potentially more to other clients. Her type of possessiveness is something else. Its not being angry over being ignored