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6 years ago
I guess you're not exactly a virgin then are you :)
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6 years ago
Omg this sounds horrible!
I hope you're alright and it was worth it!
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6 years ago
Have you ever tried experimenting with another girl? That's how I had my first time.
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6 years ago
Plus they could have sedated the monkey.
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6 years ago
Its probably because extras girls are usually more comfortable with sex so they don't mind there being a sexual vibe. An extras club is going to be mostly these girls. Sometimes non-extras girls try to police the extras girls at non-extras clubs so the vibe will be different.
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6 years ago
This would be awesome. I already have edibles before work usually. It feels good and I feel more smooth with my movements when dancing lol.
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6 years ago
Haha omg what????
I hope these guys aren't into horsing around as well.
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6 years ago
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san_jose_guymoney was invented for handing to women, but buying dances is a chump's game
I can't read this whole thread but its important to be tolerant of different viewpoints. This thread title seems very aggressive.
Libertarians just want to loosen up government restrictions so that people are more free. If you support sexual freedom and drug decriminalization then libertarians are certainly better than the republicans are.
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6 years ago
If the bouncers aren't stopping anything, try and join them probably lol!
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6 years ago
LDKs are pretty much just sex with your clothes on. Nothing wrong with that.
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6 years ago
Lol actually I really wanna try having sex in a hot tub.
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6 years ago
Lol you guys are so funny!
"I will nail your ass twentyfive"
Lol your seduction skills need improvement.
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6 years ago
Can't spend an hour with a girl?
I sure hope that's not how you are in the bedroom ;)
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6 years ago
Well I don't like to think of it as a "problem." Its just a part of who I am and it has its upsides and downsides. I would say it brings me a lot more happiness than frustration though.
Don't worry guys, I have plenty of people helping me out right now ;)
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6 years ago
To CJKent, I don't feel that its a problem so to speak, its just a part of who I am and there's some parts about it that I love. I do find that it makes me very happy, its just that there's also some drawbacks to it that I have to plan for. Truly though, I love who I am and I wouldn't change a thing about me. I hope my posts didn't come off as negative, I was only really trying to answer people's questions.
@SJG
I do sometimes use cock shaped dildos with coconut oil to masturbate with, but I like to switch it up too and just use my fingers or household objects.
@Pistola I have to admit that my mouth is kind of small so I wouldn't be able to get both inside. I can go pretty deep though. I am shaved and I will get a photo of my ass up pretty soon ;). 15-25 man bukkake sounds a bit much tbh lol.
@NiceSpice I'm actually going to Miami next week so I don't think that I will be there in January.
@Mantown Yeah its definitely easier for me to orgasm when I feel a wave. I don't really have any refractory period to begin with, I can easily reach 5-6 orgasms in a row if I just keep going. I don't really want to get medical attention for it, like I said, some people might think its too much but I like being who I am. I've been this way, to varying degrees since as long as I can remember and I wouldn't want to change anything. While it has some drawbacks its also my biggest source of happiness.
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6 years ago
Why don't you guys just ask her to make out in the lap dance rooms or during OTC? I mean I love kissing and making out too but why are you guys trying so hard to do it where she could get in trouble?
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6 years ago
Haha, my ass is not that big I have to admit. I'm a bit of a small girl so my booty doesn't stick out too much. I do like having it played with anyway though ;)
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6 years ago
So like temporary hypersexuality?
I've had this since I was born, it has been much stronger since the beginning of high school but I've always been way more sexual than seemed appropriate for my age. I don't feel that its depressing though, its just a part of who I am.
I think hypersexuality would be extremely difficult to deal with if you were a virgin. I definitely find that masturbation doesn't satisfy my needs entirely. I love masturbating and I probably do way too much of it haha but I wouldn't be able to make it on masturbation alone. I need that feeling of an actual person inside of me and kissing me and the pressure of their body. Vibrators can't give that even though they give great orgasms.
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6 years ago
My parents know something is up, because they've caught me doing sexual things a lot and know I bring guys over a lot. I don't know if I want to tell them though because I have been bringing a girl that I'm sleeping with on all our family vacations so that I had someone to have sex with and if they knew about this, they would probably catch on and that might make the whole situation too weird.
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6 years ago
For the piercings question, I have thought about it but I don't have any piercings right now. I guess in that case its probably best I not get any.
For its impact on my dancing. Yeah, this is definitely why I'm more open to extras. Last night I actually came while I was grinding on a guy and told him if he wanted to go OTC after my shift that we could have sex for $300. Sometimes I feel like I've lost my leverage though because I'm trying to trick the guys into paying for it when I actually really need them to say yes and just do it. I try to offer something that's reasonable but not high enough that it will cause them to turn it down. I haven't told anybody at work that I have hypersexuality because the other girls would probably strongly suspect I'm doing extras and customers would realize that they could leverage that against me. I have to make sure I am a sexy stripper but not get too into it and then really go crazy OTC.
I am actually more cautious about who I do extras with then you might think though. I have only done extras with three customers so far. I try to only give extras to the customers I can count on to come in regularly so that I have my outlet but I don't get too much of a reputation as an extras girl. So I'm definitely not fucking every guy who comes in. With the third guy last night though I kind of just gave in and went for it anyway. The most number of times I've ever orgasmed in a day? forty times actually. I had this one girl in the summer between my freshman and sophomore years that had a pretty high sex drive too and we would just have sex all day not stopping for food or anything. That was a wild summer haha.
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6 years ago
Some of these questions were... Very predictable lol.
For @100lber, @nicespice, @DC9428, and @Dblednmike I think a combined answer could answer all of your questions.
I would say that there are good things and bad things about being hypersexual. The bad parts are how, to answer DC and nicespice's questions, all the things you have to think about and do to manage it. Because I can't really turn it off. Long exams like the ACT are worrisome because if I get a wave I just can't focus. Also, long gatherings with my extended family give me anxiety and I have to go in with a plan as to how I'm going to get a chance to masturbate somewhere. When I was a freshman, I was started to do badly on long tests and exams because I couldn't focus so I realized that the best thing I could do was not to try and fight it and focus on the exam even though this wave is coming over me but rather to just take a few minutes and give into it. I will put my face down in the exam papers so it just looks like I'm stressed, or thinking, or taking a mental break, then I squeeze my legs together really tightly, let the sexual thoughts take over and grind the seat very slowly. If I'm going through a wave it doesn't really take much and I can orgasm within about five minutes. Usually this helps things a little bit, but sometimes I have to silently rub out another one. I consider this a last resort option though and don't really like doing it unless I absolutely have to. Some other things is that if I can't have sex in a day I can't sleep and spend the whole night fantasizing. It also has made monogamous relationships impossible. I've dated a few guys who were like "oh you're hypersexual, that's perfect we can fuck all the time." They always got more than they asked for and we would fuck a lot but they always got tired of it because it has always been too much for them no matter how much they thought dating a nympho would be great. Also, I can be very demanding in bed, and this kind of puts some guys off. I'm not rude about it or anything and thankfully, some guys have loved it, but I've found that I need to go for guys that are willing to be more giving in bed. They don't want me to see other people though so we end up just having arguments because he's not willing to have sex as much as I need it anymore, but he won't let me see other people, so I end up seeing other people behind his back and we eventually break up.
Honestly there's so many little things, I could probably talk about it forever lol. Even though there's a lot of drawbacks though, there's some parts about it that I love and because of that, I wouldn't change it if I had the choice. The thing I love about it is that it really can be a lot of fun as long as I stick to my routines. If I stick to my routines I know how to manage the strongest symptoms and it provides me a lot of happiness to have this opportunity to really indulge in something I love. I know it sounds weird to make sex into a routine but when you're me you kind of have to. I also don't ever get tired of it even though I've had so much of it and it does feel really amazing when I get to have sex in the middle of one of my waves. It mainly becomes burdensome when I have to be in a situation that disrupts my routines and my whole body gets thrown off balance.
About the definitions. Hypersexuality and nymphomania are pretty much the same thing, but the term nympho has origins in Victorian Times where any woman who enjoyed sex was considered a nympho lol so some don't like the term. I personally don't mind it though. I would definitely say hypersexuality is different from a high sex drive. All my fuck buddies have high sex drives too and the biggest difference I can see is that people with high sex drives like sex a lot but they can turn it off when they need to. Like you guys can take an exam, go to a family gathering, or hang out with friends for several hours without really thinking about it much or feeling like you need to do something sexual. For me, I have to lowkey masturbate at school almost every day because they make you be there for so damn long. By the time I get back I feel like I'm going to explode lol. I've literally left in the middle of classes to find a guy who would fuck in the bathrooms because I was just too horny and couldn't focus. Thankfully I've found some good friends who are very open minded but there's definitely quite a few people at my school who think I'm just an out of control slut.
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6 years ago
Haha no, I'm just playing around. I may be hypersexual but I'm not nasty like that.
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6 years ago
I've always thought sexual massage parlors just give handjobs at the end of a massage. Do you mean that massage parlors are basically just brothels and girls fuck their clients too?
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6 years ago
I guess that Charlie would get a lot of Hershey kisses then ;)
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6 years ago
Mine was better ;)