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6 years ago
@lurker x - I am guessing you haven't clubbed at a super high volume club before. My home club normally almost always has hundreds of people there so its definitely not as easy to get someone's attention. There is one dancer I have been tipping and asking for a dance off and on for a YEAR and she has never come over. Always busy with bigger whales.
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6 years ago
So to answer your question blahblahblahblahblahblahblah23:
The nature of the strip club is raw competition pitting women against one another. It's fucked up and it ties a woman's personal sense of self worth to the amount of income she makes and level of sexual contact she allows.
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6 years ago
@blahblahblahblahblah23 - Same question?
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6 years ago
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rickduganVerified and Certifiable Super-Reviewer
@Rick Dugan - BTW what changed in the club scoring system?
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6 years ago
@lurker x - Yeah the forum should look pretty dead given how many people have him on ignore however he reads it while logged off. I have had in on ignore for a while so he shouldn't be able to see my posts but he still replies to things I say.
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6 years ago
Now let's all start making threats to leave!!!
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6 years ago
Few more comments:
1. This club was BYOB and the dancer was under 21 so no opportunity for drinks.
2. It is perfectly normal at the clubs I go to to hang out and chat in the VIP area. If I am meeting a fav I usually don't sit anywhere else we will hang out in that area for the whole hour or two.
One of the things I would love to steer the direction towards is more how to handle those situations in the future, not really how to prevent them. There are always going to be stripper conflicts that aren't avoidable. I remember another situation long ago where a stripper wanted to smoke at my table. I told her no and things just went downhill from there.
@Liwet - I would agree I didn't owe her anything. But I think there is a balance. If I paid her what she wanted I would have been rewarding and reinforcing bad behavior. But if I didn't pay her anything that might also reinforce bad behavior because she will rationalize that I wasn't worth anything and she did herself a favor by her actions. I think paying $5 straddles that line, it shows that I am not ultra cheap and do value her time and makes the conclusion of our interaction far less adversarial. This way if I see her again in a month or two I might try again.
@flagooner - I am really picky so she was pretty much the only girl I was interested in.
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6 years ago
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founderslip a dollar in her g-string for me
Please post the angry millenial emails!!!
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6 years ago
@twentyfive - Clubs don't take any cut of the money in my area.
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6 years ago
Damn cristobal that is some good wisdom. Added you to my trusts!
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6 years ago
I am definitely not a RIL. However... my wife has been on the other side of the planet for the past few weeks so I am definitely a little starved for female attention.
As far as offering her money. For me sometimes in life I tend to have the philosophy to go after what I want regardless of whether it seems possible. A long time ago I posted a thread here where I was trying to get a girl to switch clubs for me, you guys all ragged on it but I went for it anyway an made it happen. This is one of those situations, and small amounts of cash shouldn't be a barrier.
Lastly this girls is hippie living in a tent to save the planet, selling her plasma for cash and diving through grocery store dumpsters for free food. I think what she is doing is awesome and I don't mind "donating to her cause".
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6 years ago
I am certain she will reply. But I have no idea if she would want to meet.
I have thought about offering "gas money" if she wanted to meet for lunch. Would be worth it to me and I don't mind supporting her financially.
Also considered offering her a high amount of money to come out of retirement and work as a stripper for a day. That would be the most fun option.
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6 years ago
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founderslip a dollar in her g-string for me
Yeah having two different colored check marks next to names would be good or something simple like that.
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6 years ago
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rickduganVerified and Certifiable Super-Reviewer
I definitely look at the scores and number of reviews when scouting out clubs in a foreign city.
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6 years ago
No the biggest chump is someone who gets made fun of constantly but keeps coming back for more.
You know the other day I was posting about findom. Guys who are into humiliation. I best SJG would be really into that.
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6 years ago
Nice trolling! I approve!
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6 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
So the other "scam" part of this (or the expense customers would not expect) is body repairs. Anyone who has never owned a high end performance car is going to scratch the wheels on curbs and scratch the bumpers parking (not to mention that wheels on cars like that just bend for no reason even if you are careful). And the company is going to make you pay out the ass for repairs.
Now you may be thinking... Isn't insurance included, and yes it is but it's going to have something like a $3-5k deductible. So really only useful for a serious wreck.
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6 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
@Daddilac - Good call on the raptor. I wouldn't want one personally but they have turned out to be a awesome investment. The resale is crazy.
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6 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
I have worked with a company that did a similar business to this before. We used to detune the higher HP cars. In some cases we would lower the rev limiters, and usually put a block of wood under the gas pedal so you could never get more than 70% throttle.
The business in question is a pretty terrible deal for customers. Most of the cars available are $30-40k cars. Yes they were $100,000+ brand new but a company like that buys high mileage, or salvage cars which are dirt cheap.
Most of the cars they have listed are under $50k even with a clean title.
The other "scam" a company like that runs is that the few cars they have that are higher value are almost always never going to be available.
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6 years ago
So lolita are you in for a dfw meetup?
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6 years ago
Definitely in for a DFW meet up!
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6 years ago
I'm in DFW. Where are you lolilta love?
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6 years ago
I think the signal to noise ratio is really bad at the moment so I personally am not posting or spending time here much at all anymore.
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6 years ago
I have definitely given advice to some baby strippers. And although this will piss off some here I have actually told some baby strippers to back it off when it comes to certain kinds of mileage. I treat people how I would want to be treated.
However when it comes to advice I try to avoid giving it directly. Instead of saying "You shouldn't give out your real number" I might tell a baby stripper about how another girl I knew had a customer who would text her 500 times a week and that she was glad she used a texting app instead of her real number. Basically just tell a story about the consequences and solution without directly telling her what to do.
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6 years ago
Recently I had a dancer where I almost became her therapist. After a few weeks of her talking through this difficult part of her life she expressed a lot of gratitude as she didn't have any friends she felt comfortable talking to (about this specific issue). All of that was genuine but it doesn't mean at all that we are now going to be real friends or lovers.
To the OP - Just because you have some genuine connection with this person doesn't mean at all that she wants to date you.