So what's the deal with strippers lying always about everything?
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I have never worked with such shitty manipulative people w/ a lying habit in vanilla jobs. Idk I had awesome coworkers the only 2 vanilla jobs I held for a decent amt of time. Anyways...
So I get why a stripper would lie if you do something stupid like straight up ask her about how much she makes or something personal.
But why the fuck do they constantly volunteer made up information like about anything and everything. Like some heifer here volunteering info unprompted about some club I happened to pass thru claiming it is strict no touch when it was a low key extras club since the dinosaurs roamed the earth.
Also I really notice that girls who at the strip club are very very vocal against extras are really the ones doing the most. Like something weighing on your mind perhaps?
But yeah why volunteer total bs? Like why all this sabotage and mind games. Also I see a lot of girls telling other girls about a night they didn't come in and they claim it is super busy. Whem I came in that specific night and it was a quiet night. Like what is wrong with some of these girls.
Also girls fucking talking shit about other girls to customers. Like you dont fucking do that unless you had exceptional circumstances like so and so did something horrible or whatever to you. But even then customers dont usually wanna here that shit. It's like talking about fucking bills. Not their problem like damn unless he knew you a while and is sort of a friend at that point.
Like obviously it isnt every girl that does all this shit. And there are some really sweet girls in this industry. But these rotten apples really stand out, and there are so many of them.
So I get why a stripper would lie if you do something stupid like straight up ask her about how much she makes or something personal.
But why the fuck do they constantly volunteer made up information like about anything and everything. Like some heifer here volunteering info unprompted about some club I happened to pass thru claiming it is strict no touch when it was a low key extras club since the dinosaurs roamed the earth.
Also I really notice that girls who at the strip club are very very vocal against extras are really the ones doing the most. Like something weighing on your mind perhaps?
But yeah why volunteer total bs? Like why all this sabotage and mind games. Also I see a lot of girls telling other girls about a night they didn't come in and they claim it is super busy. Whem I came in that specific night and it was a quiet night. Like what is wrong with some of these girls.
Also girls fucking talking shit about other girls to customers. Like you dont fucking do that unless you had exceptional circumstances like so and so did something horrible or whatever to you. But even then customers dont usually wanna here that shit. It's like talking about fucking bills. Not their problem like damn unless he knew you a while and is sort of a friend at that point.
Like obviously it isnt every girl that does all this shit. And there are some really sweet girls in this industry. But these rotten apples really stand out, and there are so many of them.
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I personally make 2k a night and only give air dances. IDGAF what any ho is doing.
Girls lie. A lot.
A primary task as a dude is to cut through the lies and bullshit and fucking deal with it to whatever extent we individually chose to deal with it.
Dealing with other strippers has been waaay more easygoing for me.
I'm just saying that it seems females more than guys and particularly strippers are more prone to lying without remorse, IMO
I never worked retail. And hope to God I never will lol! I can imagine that is catty..
I agree you find liars in today's world no matter where you go or to be nice we could call them ambitious story tellers. I also agree Instagram in particular with Social Media has a lot of as I call them posers on it.
Personally I would find it exhausting to try and keep straight what lie I told and to whom but it seems to work for some people--at least they think it does.
For example why would she lie she sold her car?
The problem is that over time and when lies are acceptable because you are in a place that everyone seems to do it is that it becomes the norm.
You can't work as a dancer forever. At some point you need to come back into the light and people skills such as communication without blowing smoke is going to be a requirement.
I imagine saying it was repossessed would be embarrassing
The problem is in the context of the discussion---wanting to appear as if you're rolling in cash and about to do the next video with Machine Gun Kelly when in fact you're moving from town to town one step ahead of the posse- and yes I am being very specific.
This is my own perspective but I can deal with lies as long as they are not meant to be manipulative or the intent is to act to a group of people as if you are superior to them.
Generally, dancers don't have the best self esteem. People with poor self esteem put a premium on having the best gossip, story, drama, etc. Whether or not it's true is secondary. It's about getting attention and validation. People with poor self esteem are also prone to tearing others down as a means towards propping themselves up.
Regardless of the work, in any environment where there's a concentration of poor self esteem, you're going to see a lot of lying, back-biting, and manufactured drama.
In strip clubs, I obviously gravitate towards the dancers I think are hot. But, there's bonus points to be earned if I can find a dancer who rises above the drama. Likewise, I'll jettison an otherwise hot dancer if she's swirling in drama and trying to drag me into it.
I have plenty of drama outside of the strip club. I have no use for it inside the club.
I do know an ex dancer that now cuts hair. She used to work in a salon where she was with other girls and went on to haver her own salon. According to her, dancers were way less catty and easier to deal eith than hair stylists.
I suppose it would be no different if the club was full of used car salesmen each trying to sell the customers a car. Complete with booze and drugs.
I still think it has everything to do with industry. Ok
Other clubs don't care until there's a chalk outline on the main stage.
Later, I found out every word was bs. I barely spent any money on her. There was no upside to all the lies.
Most girls don't want to admit they grind on guys dicks for money. And no girl wants to admit she does extras because the clean girls hate the extras girls.
Unless they are giving me advice or pointers on anything—then I care to try to guess what the objective reality is.
Sorta like how you were doing after a club recommendation.
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I remember at my first club ever as a newbie stripper, I was complaining about the majority of customers aggressively trying to FIV during vip dances. I was pissing off a ton of customers when I was back there lol.
One friend got condenscending with me and claimed nobody ever tried that with her. And implied I was being weak and attracting creeps.
But looking back, after having worked at more clubs, I just simply realized $20 for one way contact and $40 for two way, was just simply not the dance price norm in Texas. And given the kind of clientele and dancers hired there, was going to be an uphill battle to try to be the exception.
So I have never returned there. Tho that club did have the advantage of management sticking up for dancers against customers—something I’ve never experienced ever again and the one thing that has gotten me to consider going back every once in a while. (Tho I doubt I will)
I kinda wish I told her to maybe lose a few pounds and up her prices a little and she wouldnt have this issue. I mean I weeded out the gross fuckers and didnt take their money -shrug- but I also could just sit there and expect guys to ask me to do 30 or 15 min VIPs till it got rly dead and dirty.
I wouldn't say its coz they're women... you see it with men, like barbacks and bartenders or club hosts, bouncers on a given shift. Or power plays between different shift managers.
Then there's the whole notion that a lot of women have low self esteem, or they do things they may not like, be in positions they don't want to be in. So they talk shit about others to make themselves feel better and say shit that makes them look better...
But I actually agree with Skibum, people do lie and social media really does encourage it.
What gets me is this bullshit is all unprompted and volunteered. It isnt like I asked them about it.
Then I got my ear talked off on that I needed to improve my self-esteem and get more confident. But it’s okay because I’m a newbie.
I guess if I get directly asked again, I’ll try $375.
The nature of the strip club is raw competition pitting women against one another. It's fucked up and it ties a woman's personal sense of self worth to the amount of income she makes and level of sexual contact she allows.
Overall I nod a lot in person, and shake my head in amazement at times when I see the same persons social media.
Lying between dancers reveals more willingness to lie to peers socially, in the family, etc. That is more pernicious, and long term self-destructive behavior.
A lot of that is accomplished by being friendly and not too bright. In other words, I deal with dancers in many ways like I deal with customers. :p
Hence, I choose bullshit over bluntness.
;-)
Tho to be fair, 25 told me in person that I’m less outgoing than I would appear to be on the board. Probably has something to do with it.
Well that is a likely issue in clip joints, as they impose arbitrary and unnecessary rules about the front room, just to increase the house cut. So a tension is created between the customer and the dancer.
Were customers to demonstrate some generosity and then to continue to keep the money flowing in the front room, things would probably work out well. After all, it is still an open and non-committal interaction. Whether or not a dancer wants FIV, it would probably be a good interaction.
Though as things go, there would probably be front room makeout sessions, and then back room FS. When the house it not set up as a clip joint, things will generally go nicer.
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We should not act surprised. We are the ones rewarding them. None of us are likely to tip the dancer that tells us we remind her of her creepy over weight uncle and she wouldn't say hello to us if we did not pay her. We are generous with the dancer that tells us she likes old bald men, especially ones with such a beautiful dick.
I did enjoy mouthing off about hideous women and shit quality customers to said hideous fat women lmfao. Whatever dumb hos were trying to f with me cuz they are insecure. I was dumb to think I coulda lasted long in that small drama pond.
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Annoying all that is happening