Met a brand new dancer. First night dancing.
Nidan111
Somewhere in MO.
Went to one of my favorite clubs last night. Very slow night, but the bartender informed me that they have a new dancer on board. The bartender wanted to inform her favorite “slut bucket” (apparently, me) of the new talent. Well, after getting VIP with one of the seasoned dancers, I sat next to the new gal. BEAUTIFUL BLONDE SPINNER type. We had some good chit chat and it was getting late. So, I asked her what time it was. She told me that it was “Dance thirty”. I laughed and said let’s do it. She had been there 2 hours and nobody had a dance with her yet. Seeing it was her first night, I wanted to break her in .... NICELY! She was a bit nervous to start, rattled off her list of rules (touching rules). Now, to be honest, her dance skills have great potential , good grinding and one hell of a beautiful singing voice. Lol. I decided to just talk with her and more or less make her feel comfortable about dancing. Here is where I am going with this .....
During the VIP session, I got to learn a lot about her. She began telling me stories in which she revealed 1) her real name 2) her other job 3) the town she lives in 4) the car she drives 5) when she comes and goes to the club 6) where she likes to shop and 7) that she is 20 years old, and 8) that she has a 2 year old son.
When we finished VIP, our champagne is waiting for us at the bar. We sit down, i pour myself some champagne, then set the bottle down. I told her that she is welcome to pour herself a glass as I turn away, but she must do so when I turn my head. She did, then she asked me why I did that. I then asked her permission to teach her something. She agreed. So, my response to her question was...
“Dear, you are brand new. You are very beautiful. You LOVE to talk and that will get you good customers. However, it will also get you shady customers. I made you pour your own drink as my head was turned because the cameras will show that you poured a glass without me seeing “ .... I told her that in 30 minutes time, I knew her real name, her mothers name, her other job and job site, what car she drives AND THAT SHE IS UNDER AGE to drink. I then told her that many may stalk you if you give that much information away. She actually thanked me and we discussed how she could still be her fun self by using her theater skills to play a persona with a fake town, fake name, fake family, etc... a guy then came up and asked her for a dance.
She did a 30 minute dance with him. She came back out and sat with me. I asked her if she had fun. She looked at me and said... well, “he asked me for my real name, wanted to know where I live and if I would Fuck him. “. She then thanked me for giving her insight prior to that particular dance. I finished by wishing her luck and by encouraging her to be savvy and cautious.
Long story, but .... was I right or wrong with this chat?
During the VIP session, I got to learn a lot about her. She began telling me stories in which she revealed 1) her real name 2) her other job 3) the town she lives in 4) the car she drives 5) when she comes and goes to the club 6) where she likes to shop and 7) that she is 20 years old, and 8) that she has a 2 year old son.
When we finished VIP, our champagne is waiting for us at the bar. We sit down, i pour myself some champagne, then set the bottle down. I told her that she is welcome to pour herself a glass as I turn away, but she must do so when I turn my head. She did, then she asked me why I did that. I then asked her permission to teach her something. She agreed. So, my response to her question was...
“Dear, you are brand new. You are very beautiful. You LOVE to talk and that will get you good customers. However, it will also get you shady customers. I made you pour your own drink as my head was turned because the cameras will show that you poured a glass without me seeing “ .... I told her that in 30 minutes time, I knew her real name, her mothers name, her other job and job site, what car she drives AND THAT SHE IS UNDER AGE to drink. I then told her that many may stalk you if you give that much information away. She actually thanked me and we discussed how she could still be her fun self by using her theater skills to play a persona with a fake town, fake name, fake family, etc... a guy then came up and asked her for a dance.
She did a 30 minute dance with him. She came back out and sat with me. I asked her if she had fun. She looked at me and said... well, “he asked me for my real name, wanted to know where I live and if I would Fuck him. “. She then thanked me for giving her insight prior to that particular dance. I finished by wishing her luck and by encouraging her to be savvy and cautious.
Long story, but .... was I right or wrong with this chat?
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NJBalla. Trust me. I will next time I’m in there if she is there.
That was incredibly kind of you man. Sometimes these women are just too gullible and I'd hate to hear another kidnapping story. I never dealt with that myself because I only messed with 25+ year old women so they know the game better than me.
But -1 for being weird about her pouring a drink and that whole camera spiel. You want her to relax with you, not be self-conscious. Now she'll never ask you to be her partner in crime by getting her a real drink, which would make her like you even more.
Overall probably an ok interaction.
But now she she had a better idea how to be sly with the alcohol until it’s not an issue anymore.
He could've gone with something simple, like "Sweetie, you're awesome, but you might wanna' play it closer to the vest with your info. Some of these guys are a little fucked in the head, ya know? Hey, would you like something better than that crappy champagne?"
Fwiw (not much) I rated him an "ok" on the interaction because she's a new girl and likely too nervous to hold everything against him, but give her a few weeks and she might be looking for the exit a bit faster, lol.
Hoping she is a fast learner in the ways of SC Extras and a willing participant!
That said, my other thought was, man, she got you to not just spend on her, but to develop downright protective feelings, and think about her so much that you wrote a thread about your interaction with her. My more cynical side says: if she happened to read SW before dancing, her entire backstory, name, etc., could be fake; as could her story about your advice "saving" her with the very next customer. Maybe I'm a cynical old fuck, but I read it 50/50 that we take this whole story at face value, versus played by someone surprisingly good at hustle.
Why would Frank Sinatra and Billy Joel come to mind? I almost never hear their music played in clubs.
I would have guessed Katy Perry or Lady Gaga or Cardi B.
@flagooner. I’m pretty sure you know who Frank Sinatra (FS = Full Service) and Billy Joel (BJ) is, but we should not assume, correct?
Yeah, I'm not saying that happened. The outcome has just triggered my PL warning system. I could certainly see some girls hustling, very successfully, this way. But sometimes a cigar is just a cigar, and maybe she was that naive, and maybe she did use your advice on the very next customer, etc. Just wanted to bring out that perspective and have it in the back of your mind if you continue to engage with her
However when it comes to advice I try to avoid giving it directly. Instead of saying "You shouldn't give out your real number" I might tell a baby stripper about how another girl I knew had a customer who would text her 500 times a week and that she was glad she used a texting app instead of her real number. Basically just tell a story about the consequences and solution without directly telling her what to do.