Comments by TheDude954

@subra, LOL on the tubesock metaphor!

@Doobie: The huge massive dance-club types are not my speed. Sometimes I like to go slumming in dive-bar SCs, but usually I prefer the traditional midsize, mid-cost type clubs. I find you get the best mix of hotness, value, drink cost, and mileage. But since I've never been to Detroit before, I felt like asking for a little group-think on the general lay of the land, and now I can go digging through the recent reviews on the 7-8 options that have been recommended above. Thanks again everyone, very much appreciated!

Wow, thanks everyone. Tons of great info here, and lots of time to read up on all of them. @Papi, I will definitely be more specific next time. This time around I figured I'd see what the top 5-7 consensus places were and then focus on researching the reviews on those... Instead of going through all 23 alphabetically (still amazed by that). @Sal69 - I've read plenty on the south-Dade clubs, but have only frequented the Pompano Beach, Hallandale, and West Palm Beach scenes so far. Still happy to answer any questions I can help with.

Much appreciated s275ironman and dancewdcpa. Now I've got a manageable list to start researching.

Thanks @jackslash Good luck with that @macktruck lol

Thanks @Shailynn!

Fully agree with Warrior15. Yes, Mons and 2001 are nice, but there are lots of clubs in south Florida that are just as nice. And depending on what type of experience you're looking to have, some of the SoFla clubs are a lot better than anything Tampa has to offer.

My 2017 picked up significantly around July when I finally started going to the clubs here in south Florida, where I live. 2017 also saw me finally getting my first in-club extras beyond LDK's and occasional stick shifting. All in all in 2017 I saw 5-6 LDK's, 3 CBJ, 1 BBBJCIM, and 1 CBJ/CFS.

She said she was 100% Japanese, that she came here 6 months ago for school and one of her class mates convinced her to strip with her at DD's. Never got to feel, so I don't know if they were bolt-ons, but if they were they looked really natural to me. In talking to her for 5+ minutes, I didn't get the feeling that extras were definitely off the table - it is DD after all - but she also didn't specifically make any offers. I find that the girls at DD who present themselves as nice/friendly don't typically offer extras until after you get into the private room with them. I can also tell you that the previous three times I'd been there were dayshift and she was not there any of those times, so stick to night shift if you'd like to find her.

I was at Diamond Dolls last night, and there was one Japanese dancer. She said she had only been dancing for four months, but based on her stage set, she seems to be catching on very quickly. I didn't get any private dances or table dances with her, but did chat her up for 5-10 minutes - she spoke excellent English and was very friendly and easy to talk to.

The last time I saw a shot girl a club, she was busty as hell - and once you bought it, she'd offer (for an extra $2-3 tip) to let you take it out of her cleavage, body shot style. She never made it over to where I was sitting, but she was hotter than most of the dancers were that night - so I would have considered it.

What gets under my skin are the clubs where a drink for the dancer is 40-50% higher than the exact same drink would be if I ordered it for myself. I would buy drinks for ladies more often if it didn't feel like the club was trying to extract every last cent from me in the process. Solution: find the 19-20 year old dancers in the club, some have to wear bracelets, and then it's a non-issue!

Couldn't agree more Papi, and thank you for the advice. I have no illusions about my looks or the depths of my pockets, nor do I plan to leave my wife for someone less than half my age. And I know most of the lingo... I only joined a few months back, but I'd been lurking for abo a year, lol

Dude, you're in Tampa, just drive 5 minutes in any direction and you'll find an awesome Cuban restaurant go grab a quick cafecito at - that should give you the caffeine jolt you're looking for. Personally, I highly recommend La Terasita and La Lechonera.

I think one aspect missing from this convo is that no two married guys' situations are exactly the same. For me, I love my wife, kids, house, etc - but I have a wife who has basically zero sex drive, never has, don't think she ever will. I'd take it every day if I could, but she's content being intimate maybe 2-3 times a year. That being said, I flip flop. Sometimes I'm in the club looking to scratch an itch as quickly and inexpensively as possible, and other times I go looking for the intimacy that's missing in my daily life.

I like your style, thedude111222 - LOL

Well said, taxi

Not sure how/where to find that thread, so I'll def Mesg you once it's up again, thanks!

Day shift... So friendly, so hot, so young, very physically fit but still has a nice ass, natural Bs, and dances circles around the rest of the girls on shift. If you've been in there during day shift lately, you probably know exactly who I'm taking about.

Cheetah Pompano

For those who don't like going commando, Fruit of the Loom makes a "Breathable" line of boxer briefs that feel almost like super lightweight athletic shoes material. I highly recommend.

Scarlett's is a more upscale environment than anything I've been to in Pompano. It feels more like a night club than a SC, so if that's your thing, then you'll be happier there. If it's offers for extras you're looking for on your trip, you'll be much happier visiting Diamond Dolls, Booby Trap, or even slumming it at Porthole.

I came of age in the 90's, so fully shaved was starting to become the norm in every porn. I'm sure that's part of why so many guys my age prefer it. Of course, my wife has only once done this in the past decade, despite my requests. And I just enjoy all the shaved ladies at the SC all the more for it.

I haven't been to most of the south FL clubs yet by any means, but Diamond Dolls in Pompano is as sure a bet for offers of extras as I've ever seen... anywhere.