Guys that have wives vs guys that dont as they monger
JuiceBox69
Fucking on Young N Dumb Chicken Heads
Guys with wife's don't crave much time with providers just a quick fuck
Guys without a S.O. seam to crave not just the sex but also the conversation and emotional connection with there providers
What other things have you noticed that different or similar between the two monger situations
Guys without a S.O. seam to crave not just the sex but also the conversation and emotional connection with there providers
What other things have you noticed that different or similar between the two monger situations
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SJG
When I'm historical single I'll seek a deeper connection
Seems just kind of easy and natural, and the way things will want to be anyway.
SJG
Glen Gould plays Alban Berg
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QNk_A4Zo…
SJG
SJG
In this movie it works that way:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2mplKPlI…
SJG
During the 15 years I spent banging escorts, I had at least a small emotional connection with most of them, and a pretty strong emotional connection with a few. Used to go on unpaid dinners, took a few to the movies, etc. Then, a new wave of female started to become escorts in this area and that era was over, so I got out.
I've been using SA right at a year now, and have had 3 significant SBs. My current is probably best classified as SGF (sugar girlfriend), as we do much more together than just meet for sex. Our dates are typically from early afternoon to late evening. If I can't spend the night, she'll stay at the hotel and then I'll schedule an early meeting or bike ride and go back to the hotel for wakeup sex.
The only girl from SA I've met up with just for sex is a former Follies dancer, that I had ITC extras with, using SA as her escorting web site. That was while I was between significant SBs.
Since starting up with current SGF, we have one stripper OTC with us twice. Another is on the schedule for near future. The SGF, trained using the Subraman method, is becoming quite the SC winggirl.
I like cum dumpsters and then leave me alone.
Juice has it write and it seams I luv his spelling.
Over my years of mongering I have never taken things beyond LDK with strippers. Not even extras. I have had two ATFs including my DS that offered FS OTC but I won't do it. What I want is simple ITC flirting, dick teasing, and seduction fantasy before getting dances that ends in LDK. It's somewhat GFE but it doesn't have to be. I don't mind if we don't talk much at all. And the only connection I need is for her to be friendly and flirty with me and act like she wants my dick. I know it is all a fantasy and nothing more, so I simply want it for the time I'm there.
For starters, no overnights, ever. That is reserved for Mrs. Dugan alone, lucky gal that she is. ;)
Second, I won't tolerate needy or clingy. As weird as that sounds, I've had a few get this way over the years after extended OTC adventures. I have females at home - I don't need any more making demands. If the entertainment value starts to decrease, so too does my interest. Now I don't mind listening to stories about their lives, even if there is bad stuff in them (which is often the case), because this is how you get to know someone and form a connection. But I draw the line at someone trying to use me as a source of comfort or help; I already have my own family to take care of.
Third, I don't do a lot of non-sex OTC activities with strippers, besides of course my time with them ITC. This too might be different if I was single, but I'm not and my time has a lot of family and other demands on it.
SJG
Myth Of Osiris
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gwQ9iMJ3…
I can roll with just physical and getting rocks off, but truthfully totally down with an emotional attachment if things break that way.
Have dated 2 or 3 strippers, so have experienced the physical + emotional together, but it's been quite some time. Pretty primed to have that happen again, if it falls in my lap as has happened in my past.
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That's been my experience. I spent last night with a cute, slender, 20-yr-old student watching "Black Mirror" on Netflix and ordering take-out pho. She's warm, interesting, sensitive, and the whole thing is just a better experience than anything I've had with a stripper. Less expensive, too.
If you don't want any connection whatsoever, then just get an escort.
That being said, I flip flop. Sometimes I'm in the club looking to scratch an itch as quickly and inexpensively as possible, and other times I go looking for the intimacy that's missing in my daily life.