Comments by Bj99 (page 19)

I agree w Ishmael. Girls have said it to me. I take it to mean “get it, girl!” Which just means to give you a great time, and get that money. Id guess it has ab zero to do w you.

@ SJG, since they are the same to you, do you treat civil girls like strippers? I’m just imaging you handing a girl cash throughout dinner.

^ you seem to be suggesting that dancers will delay instant gratification for their greater needs and wellbeing.. I don’t know ab that one. :/

#EvenDougsterWasFunnier

I met my ex husband dancing. I wouldn’t date a regular, or a monger, but I’d date a guy I met as a customer. Shit, it’s not like I meet guys when I’m at the grocery store in my sweats, which is pretty much the only other place I go.

I’m a big dork.. I think I might enjoy the romantic fantasy more than some. I never sell or pawn gifts. I might even prefer nice gifts to cash bc I can’t bring myself to ‘waste’ money. I’m comfortable with customers expressing light hearted romantic feelings for me, as long as they enjoy it as part of the fantasy, and they aren’t insecure or possessive. That totally negates any fun sweet gestures. Many of my customers are married, or not in a place where they want a real relationship, but they enjoy the courting. Some guys just love the romantic gentleman role, and really appreciate making women feel special. I don’t take it to heart, but I like it too. I like playing the appreciative lady role. Not damsel in distress, but just enjoying that someone wants to make me feel special. A customer recently sent me flowers to the club. It did make me super happy. I’m sure it bumped him up on my list more than the money would have.

Unless it’s going to become a logged on option, like reading reviews. I could appreciate that.

I agree.

I just tried that. It does work. Thanks!

Still not working. I’m using an iPhone.

Yeah. I’ve noticed that also.

40 seems like a petty amount for her to call you in to give her. It’s like she’s asking you to buy her tampons. The kind of thing RILs and bff’s are for. I’d let someone else handle that one, and just say you are sorry, but can’t make it over there.

^ I think he means that guys who know they don’t tend to score we’ll see that this is too good to be true, but guys who see themselves as players have enough of an ego to think she’s actually into them, since lots of women are.

You guys don’t need more balls. You need bigger balls! :) https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=gCHQzk2okoc

I don’t know.. the guys who come in once a month and spend well are very well known. The guys who come in almost daily and spend a little are also well known, but they are mostly known for barely spending.

^ makes sense. I don’t send, or answer any just “hey” texts.

If girls know you, you are a regular.

I don’t understand. If I say “hey,” to begin a text, it’s prolly bc I disk to respond to a few of their last texts. Or, I waited too long.

It’s funny bc if you cover her flat feet, her legs still look really nice. It’s just the look.

Do you “tee hee,” after everything you say IRL? Bc I can almost hear it.

Stage tippers are customers if they tip gerously, and regularly. We do understand that stage tipping is like any other way of paying us.

I didn’t follow the dadillac saga.

Not to sound like Ricky lake, or get all deep, but you cannot expect someone to treat you better, to have more respect for you, or to take you more seriously, than they do themselves. Even parents fail to do it, so don’t expect strippers to.

I’d expect that kinky stuff, like getting shit on, will cost you extra.

I think it’s a little unrealistic to expect someone who is willing to give blow jobs and have sex for money, inorder to pay her bills, to feel any ethical obligation to remind you that it’s all just a fantasy, and she doesn’t have any real feelings for you.