Why aren't we talking more about the "Hey" Text
GACA
Un-retired: Met my ATF. Married her. Divorcing her.
Been on this forum for a minute and never have I seen a topic of discussion about the different types of text leads, where you already know the conversation is not going to go in the right direction.
So I'm going to take it off how do you know when a conversation is going to go in a good direction versus a bad Direction in your experience.
If a stripper leads with "Hey", now she's probably going to ask for a favor AKA something for nothing
If a stripper leaves with 'hi baby' at least we know she's ready to work for what she's asking for
So I'm going to take it off how do you know when a conversation is going to go in a good direction versus a bad Direction in your experience.
If a stripper leads with "Hey", now she's probably going to ask for a favor AKA something for nothing
If a stripper leaves with 'hi baby' at least we know she's ready to work for what she's asking for
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I only get annoyed with it because it usually mean it will be 3 to 4 more text messages until she gets to the point of what she really want.
Super manipulative -- most people start out their text with their topic matter ("Hey baby,when can I see you!"). She's starting with just "hey" because she knows that if she just hits you with her real topic ("Can you lend me $200 to get through rent this month?"), you'll probably just ignore it. So she hits you with the "hey", and now when you text back, which you will, when she makes her awkward request, she knows you have to answer back. This technique isn't just used by strippers, I've noticed a few young people in my life (e.g., a niece) use this technique, too
'course, sometimes a "hey" is just a "hey" -- like I said, it's not always followed by an awkward favor request, but awkward favor requests are all preceded by "hey"
"Hej" is Swedish for "Hi" and is pronounced as "hey".
"Adjo" is Swedish for "Bye" and is pronounced "ay-doh".
I’ve gotten almost free sex from the “hey” text, and I’ve been told to fuck off and not contact her again. Until two days later when she needed more money.
I still get the “hey” text once in a while from a hooker I don’t see because she doesn’t do BBBJCIM. The follow up is usually some variant of “you should come see me,” to which I sometimes respond “are you eating jizz yet?”
I just laughed my ass off .... I will update with what she asks for, or offers....
and like I said, my atf would often start with hey and want to get together for a sex date.....yes she needed money, but it was well worth it....I didn't mind at all.
I was being a dumb ass on the reference to a Scandinavian corruption of “nay”. It wouldn’t be the first time I made a dumbass comment that didn’t work well.
Somewhat seriously, text or email communication that begins with “hey” is normally harmless and I do it myself sometimes. However, beginning with “hey” is a more passive way to write, often with the intent to soften the rest of the message which might seem too strong if written in a direct voice. Thus, such a text from a stripper has usually resulted in a disappointment to me rather than anything favorable. For example, the “hey” from an OTC prospect might be followed by “you can take me shopping but I don’t do sex”. Another example after “hey” is “my dog got sick so I’m not going to have to cancel for now”.
People have different personalities. Some of the strippers I've talked to are clearly talking to me for the money, but still like to preface our interactions with chit chat first. Its the same via text as in the club. It always leads to one of us asking the other for what we want, but there's polite discussion about our lives first. If I straight up text them and ask if they are working or want to come over, I'll get a negative response of some sort. They'll never open a conversation asking me to come in or come over. Others like to keep it straight and to the point and open an exchange with "its slow, can you come in" or "do you have time to see me tonight" kind of thing. Neither one is more or less likely to come out with an outlandish request that I pay their rent or whatever.
I think it comes down to, you gotta know your stripper. After a few interactions, you should be able to tell if she's the type to just chat or if she's the type to hit you up for money for nothing. The fact that she opens with a simple "hey" text isn't a good indicator, at least for me.
The few times they are looking for cash immediately they will text to ask if they can call.......those are the ones to brace yourself.
I know generalizations are prone to error - but I’m fairly comfortable with this one.
Magicrat- my experience exactly.
Just enjoy them!
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could she borrow/have some money for it?
I had an ATF years ago who used to disappear for days. I figured she was just busy, but after she added me to her facebook, I realized most of her friends and family couldn't find her either ("hey girl, you ok? We were supposed to go to Sephora today, haven't heard from you")... and on her snapchat, I could follow her drug-fueled multi-day bender with another stripper. This happened every few months.
Whenever I get asked for money the first thing I do is look at their social media--it might not have the full picture but it tells enough to know they real reason why or what for.