Comments by LecherousMonk (page 2)

@Tiburon, unfortunately for us you have to be in the top 20% of men looks-wise to have any chance at women above the bottom 20% on that platform.

Did Juice die?

@Takedaconnoli, OF is saturated; it's extremely difficult to make a profit on that platform now. My theory is that recent increase in quantity and quality of dancers at my local high-end club is the result of girls realizing it's easier to make money in person now that the pandemic is winding down (fingers crossed).

IME it's basically the new backpage. Your tendency will be to underestimate how quickly you can move on to the business side of things in the conversation. Of course, it takes a while to get a feel for where that inflection point is and what to say along the way.

I would totally buy them if I didn't live in Ohio.

Good. This reflects the reality that private gun ownership endangers the public and impoverishes our society, rather than the "conservative" fantasy of a lone concealed carrier saving the day, Hollywood style, which pretty much never happens.

I am with you. My current favorite has one, so I can definitely overlook it, but, yeah, not a fan.

I typically don't get more than three dances at a time, and that's only if I really like the girl, but I have started doing VIP with greater regularity, and I do get dances with the same girl again the next time I visit. I have just experienced a lower RoI on dancers above the second, though, as the escalation typically peaks around song two or three, after which there is nothing left to experience, and I get bored.

I don't understand buying songs in bulk. What's the point? Is this an extras-club thing?

Seeking is the only one that's not a scam, but there are plenty of scammers on it still.

Bengals easily.

Again, thanks all for the replies! I'll be re-reading this like a textbook for the next few months.

I got a hundred-dollar lapdance with Gianna Michaels back when she was doing feature performances. She's my ATF pornstar, and I got to squeeze her huge, perfect naturals, so I'd say it was probably the best 100 I've ever spent in a club.

Thanks for the responses, guys. I can't travel at all, so that's a non-starter. If I were to summarize my problem areas to work on they would be the following: Not rich enough to be a whale Feel guilty if I go more than 1-2 times a month for some reason. Not bold or suave enough to connect with the dancers enough to effectively communicate what I'm after. All that said, I have got numbers here, but usually not till after doing VIP, which is a rarity for me, and none of those contacts have ended up responding. I guess my frustration goes beyond just the difficulty of jumping through hoops, but the fact that there are so many to jump through in the first place. Wishing Middle America would get its shit together with respect to attitudes around sex work the way it's in the process of doing with sports gambling.

@Ishmael, great tips. I tried them all and got nowhere. This market just sucks that badly. Seems as if there's been a huge influx of hot new girls who don't have a clue what the strip club game is. They never seem to ask for dances (from anyone), and you can't even leave hints about OtC because they won't understand what you're talking about.

@Cowboy, the bartender angle is interesting, but I typically club on weekend nights when the bartenders are slammed and can't talk.

@Shailynn, Yeah, I was totally joking about all that basement stuff . . . . @Muddy, Columbus is growing, but it's run by prudes, hence when voters approved four casinos to be built in the state of Ohio 10 years ago, the Columbus one was put way out on the West Side in the ghetto so as not to ruin the family-friendly image they want for downtown. The vice squad has historically been very zealous here as well. Less so since it came to national attention with the Stormy Daniels arrest, and the CPD detective who murdered a streetwalker who was resisting his advances and claimed self-defense.

You guys get extras back there? I thought I was lucky getting to touch the kitty over her bottoms the last time I did VIP.

Thanks, Subra! Does it matter if you have face pics or full body pics (I'm fat)? I have neither.

@subra The reason I don't throw a number out on the site or over text is because I'm afraid of scaring away the true SB's who don't want to think of themselves as whores as they're actively whoring themselves out, but also because I fear creating a digital record of myself soliciting. If you tell me the latter is not really an issue, maybe I'll stop worrying about it. The reason not discussing specifics online creates an issue is that you don't get the feedback necessary to form an accurate idea of the going rates in your area. Feel free to PM all the things I'm doing wrong and how I could do better; I haven't had really any success, and it seems you have.

I'm on my 2nd SA stint. Neither has been produced anything more than a spreadsheet full of ranked profiles. On the topic at hand, I'm always afraid to talk prices or services over text, which leaves me vulnerable to offering way under (or over) what she's expecting.

@desertscrub I know who he (she?) is talking about and have had a similar experience, so if it's an ad, it's at least accurate.

A month is a long time between pussies. By the same token, I don't require exotic victuals every single day. I think a fairer comparison that would force us to really examine our priorities would be to have each available weekly.

Went there once. My only time getting extras. Very ghetto. The Uber driver even told me to watch myself.