Secret Benefits vs seeking arrangements?

I'm on both. Initially it appears that SB is cheaper. But you have to pay to read messages, you have to pay to see private photos, you have to pay to Boost your profile. If you are active, it ends up being more expensive. And I don't like the quality of the girls near as much on SB. I've met dozens of adorable girls on SA. I'm having a lot of conversations on SB, but not much develops into meetings. I also get the feeling that a lot of the profiles on SB are escorts using it as a marketing tool. That is not really what I"m looking for. So that may be why I haven't had much success there.

There is one thing on SB that I do like and wish SA had. The simple verification videos. " Let me be your secret " If SA had that, it would cut out a lot of the scammers that are just trying to get some money out of you up front.

I LOVE SA. Kinda indifferent toward SB.

just a warning regarding SA. under payments notice that there isn't a a pay one time option. if you have a credit/debit card on file with them SA will have $$ taken out of your account. i had to call my bank to have my money refunded back. i closed my account right after that.

best way to handle this going onward if you wish is to pay with those prepaid visa cards you can get at the local drug store.

Haven’t tried SB yet but paying to read messages sounds shitty

Question. If I use either of these sites to have a date with a girl, well said girls allow me to feel up on them but not have sex with them? I like variety without spending thousands upon thousands of dollars for sugar babies that I only want to see strutting around the town in a nice outfit every now and then

It's called Seeking Arrangements. There are all kinds of "arrangements " . You should just be upfront with with girls on what you want. Some girls will, some won't. There are several girls on the site that want a Platonic relationship. They would be more than happy just to go on dinner dates with you. The "feeling up " , maybe those girls would be OK with that. That''s why I like SA over SB. You can just sit and message back and forth with dozens of girls . Asking them whatever you want.

Just fyi, on SA there is a way to disable the auto renewal on subscriptions. I believe it's something like Profile-settings-payment-cancel. It won't cancel your subscription until the end of the timeframe you have already paid and at that point you can renew if you choose.

Browsing SB appears to have a little more of the young and hot girls. I've seen quite a few I recognize from SA .

I'm using Secret Benefits right now. The site nickel and dimes you for pretty much everything. I tried the boost message option once, costs 10 credits, it worked, got a reply back very quickly. When I've been talking to a sb for awhile occasionally I get curious and check out her private pics, costs 10 credits as well, a bit more racier then the public pics.

When you spend your last 10 credits you get a limited time (ten minutes) bonus reload. For $289 usd you normally get 1000 credits, but during the bonus window you end up getting 2000 credits. Seeking seems to be the better value, but if you can hit pay dirt on sb's quickly that could end up being the better deal. Credits don't expire on sb's either. Seeking raised it's membership for 30 days up to $109.99. Whichever site you use it does end up being a numbers game.

Seeking is the only one that's not a scam, but there are plenty of scammers on it still.

^you nailed it monk. too many scammer on SA looking for money to pay for their phones or whatever they feel they need to pay. one even asked me to pay via cashapp so they could pay to play video games. i told her she could stuff the whole game console right up her asshole.

Ladies, how much do you make as a sugarbaby? I am interested. I am a sugarbaby but not in the states

Most of the accounts on secret benefits are bots.