In VIP how much foreplay is enough for you?

I hate 15 minute rooms. It's just not enough time unless the girl has warmed you up in the front room. I much prefer a 30 minute room. I like foreplay so the best sessions take up the whole time. Maybe get 5 minutes of cool down at the end. If it's a 60 minute room, I'm gonna want two rounds.

"With some girls I have had to ask them to slow down because I want to enjoy more foreplay...Get my time/money's worth. The ideal situation is when I have to let her know that I can't stand it anymore and to finish me off."

This is totally my MO, too. Ideally, that happens at about the 29-minute mark.

I usually get right to forplay 15 to 20 minutes get them their “oh” Then I get mine and if there is enough time to cuddle or get a massage fine. I’ve only been temped to do an hour a few times with some atf but never did. Sometimes I see these guy come back out in 10 minutes or so and I think that’s crazy except when it’s bad. I’ll go back with a ROB and after a few dances I’m mad so I just get up and go back to bar. Sometimes I’m mad enough to leave.

I usually need 20-30 minutes in a room. One thing I do notice if a girl I am interested in taking to VIP goes to VIP with someone else. If they exit before 30 minutes, I take that as a sign extras were happening, the guy popped and they were done.

The average (median, technically) across the human species sex encounter is 7.4 minutes.

So I am fine with half&half foreplay in the VIP after a good Front Room Make Out Session.

I am glad my Current ATF and I can comfortably climax together inside this time.

:D

Best to get your girl breathing hard and bucking with DFKing, Front Side Feel Up, and FOV and FIV in the FRONT ROOM, before taking her into VIP.

SJG

You know what I’m so pressed for time, I’m always goin cheapest possible option so not too much

A subtle glance across the room….

How long does Ron Jeremy like shadpwcat?

I like foreplay during sex so I can enjoy the body of the woman I’m with – but I get excited pretty-quickly so it doesn’t take long b/f I wanna start fucking.

w.r.t. VIP – it kinda depends on the club and the dancer I’m with as to whether there is some foreplay – in some clubs like Diamond Dolls in Pompano FL where it’s kinda an assembly line the girls are often not that patient w.r.t. foreplay and usually wanna get you to bust ASAP and usually do a pretty-good job of it – but DDs has also traditionally had a 3-song VIP-limit to maximize the use of the few VIP rooms/booths particularly on busy-nights; so I guess this may be part of the reason the girls “get right to work”.

Extras are not my main objective when I SC; they kinda happen on the spur-of-the-moment during a visit; so I don’t have a “VIP M.O.” per se – if it’s a 30-minute VIP I usually do some foreplay b/f FS such as getting some dances and sucking titties for a bit but it doesn’t take long, maybe 5 to 7 minutes, b/f “we start with the proceedings”.

w.r.t. DATY – that is also something I kinda do on the spur of the moment and not something that is at the top of my list I like/need to do nor something I go the club w/ in mind – I also worry a bit about eating-girls-out for health/safety reasons; so I’ve done it in the past but not something I do regularly – although one could argue that this may help w/ the dancer’s arousal and could potentially lead to a better VIP experience by her being more turned-on.

w.r.t. how long I take – I get turned-on pretty-easily so it’s kinda all over the place – if I haven’t slapped-the-monkey in a few days and I’m backed-up I could cum pretty-quickly – it also depends whether it’s bareback or I’m condom(ed)-up – w/ a condom-on I def usually take longer and often times a lot longer – it also depends on the dancer; some girls are good at getting you to come quick where they will be fucking you as much or more than you fucking them – it also depends on her pussy; some girls w/ tight/small pussies and vigorous thrusting on her part can have me outta-there b/f I expect or want.

w.r.t. conversing in VIP – I’m not much of a talker when it comes to sex – since I usually do VIP more on the spur of the moment, I’m usually worked-up when I pull the VIP trigger and don’t wanna waste time talking in VIP – I’ll usually opt for VIP from being worked-up w/ dances and proceed from dances straight to VIP vs hitting VIP “cold”.

w.r.t. not wanting to cum too-soon – I will either ask them to switch positions; that will usually give me a "temporary stay of execution” and can often, but not always, be enough to temporary take-the-edge-off b/f I engage again – or sometimes I’ll pull out and do a bit of foreplay like FIV or titty-sucking for a bit to take the edge off b/f I reengage.

Since I get excited pretty-easily which can lead to cumming sooner than I wanted – I can also recover pretty-quickly and can often go two rounds in VIP unless she doesn’t wanna play ball and has a one-nut policy w/o extra-payment – if I engage in a second-round I will usually go a lot longer.

23.4 minutes.

Generally I feel them while they give me bj or hj foreplay then put condom on me. One I saw long time was expert at handjob foreplay. One time when she met me at notel my hard dick burst from my pants as she came out of bathroom nude. She said “Omg it must have been hard in car coming over, here lay on the bed” as she expertly played w me and put the condom on me. Then did me CG. She was engaged and said her getting married would not disrupt our meetings. The thrill of young married wife pussy…..she said she liked having guy on side. Pop was reasonable. Sharing is caring? She dumped him after 5 yr and I continued fuck her.

I usually like to get to whatever it is we negotiated beforehand. These days, in the club, that's mostly just a blowjob. I save the sex for OTC meetups. My current goto club has a 45 minute room as the cheapest option, so for the remaining 42 and a half minutes, I tend to like to cuddle, or talk, or watch her masturbate.

I'm not a huge forplay in the club guy. The amount I get varies by club and by the amount of time I bought. I mean, if we both know its a 15 minute room we're not gonna spend all 15 on forplay, we're just gonna get right to it. Often 15 minutes isn't enough even if we get straight to it. But if it's a 60 minute room, 15 minutes of forplay is totally reasonable. 30 minutes is probably what I'd say is my ideal. 5 minutes each of warm up & cool down, with 20 minutes of main event time.

It varies with the girl a lot though. If its a girl I've been talking to for a while, or have seen multiple times, its real unlikely I'm gonna buy a 30 minute room and come walking out 10 minutes later. The stars really have to align for that to happen. It would have to be a new girl, who is particularly hot & motivated to get in & out, and at a time when I haven't gotten off in a while. When its a a girl I usually see OTC where we have no clock, we often loose track of time and wind up back there for a while.

On that note, I really appreciate clubs that are a little flexible. I generally won't repeat at clubs where they are sitting there with a stopwatch ready to pull open the curtain at exactly 15 minutes. Often times what I expect will be 15 mintues will turn into 20, a club that will let me go a few minutes over as long as I tip a bit extra will get much more of my business. That's actually the reason my favorite club pre-COVID got to be that way. The girls were average, the club itself was below average for the area, but if I got a 15 minute room they'd warn us 10 minutes in but if we were in there 45 minutes or an hour or even more they'd generally let us be. Afterwords they'd expect & get a tip, if it was an egregious over stay or the club was busy the club itself would get more too. Once I became a regular, they basically didn't care at all unless there was people waiting for the rooms. In those cases, they'd kinda urge us out but they'd apologize and even offer discounts on subsequent visits. Those days may be over though, either because I don't club that much or the world just changed.

How do you hide your Front Room activity? Or does no one care & just looks the other way?

I'll agree with sc on the 20 minute figure. I've probably said somewhere that a 30 minute VIP is really 10 minutes repeated 3 times over. If the 1st 10 minutes are real good, I'd like to repeat it at least once, but there comes a point of diminishing returns per additional minute.

Repeating a half additional time for 15 minutes total seems a little shortchanged. 20 minutes seems nearly as good as 30, leaving (in theory, few clubs offer 20 minute option) with several additional Jacksons in my wallet, and 10 more minutes of opportunity time to sample array of other hot dancers. Or leave club 10 minutes early, spending time on managing your $350K plus portfolio.

You guys get extras back there? I thought I was lucky getting to touch the kitty over her bottoms the last time I did VIP.

I don't do sex in a club, so it's all foreplay 😜

In my 30 minute vips the girls usually get right to work. I finish in 15-20 minutes depending if I like the girl or not. We spend the rest of the time talking and drinking. If i can’t nut then I use the full 30 with boring sex.

Best to get the girl extremely heated up before you even talk about going into any back room with her.

SJG

I don’t cum quickly, and I usually take the full 30 minutes. When I decide to go to VIP, I’m aroused and looking forward to getting it in. I don’t need much foreplay, but some dancers can suck cock so well that I don’t want it to end. I had one dancer suck my cock for a full 30 minute VIP, and it was great.

If things move as I desire, it likely will take 3 minutes to get undressed. About 7 minutes of foreplay - after which I put a condom on and proceed to fuck her in various positions for about 15-20 minutes. I cum after 25 minutes - and then I’m good.

There are different levels of enforcement of the 30 minute limit. Some clubs want to usher you out of the room at 29:59. Other clubs will suggest you wrap it up at 30 minutes.

At AMPs I always do the full 60min and I make good use of it with a girl I really like.

SJG

Minimum 30 minutes.

Get your girl warmed up, and in the Front Room!

SJG

“ I don't do sex in a club, so it's all foreplay”

At this point I’m so gay I mainly go out to be able to come home and have sex with my boyfriend, it has helped our sex life a ton he just doesn’t know why.