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8 years ago
I believe it's both, you have to be attracted to the person and also like something about them
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8 years ago
I have met my fair share of dancers who pussy either stank, had bad breath or had BO. Girls have to be aware of that shit. They need to periodically use wipes, put perfume or scented lotion on, dry themselves off with a towel if they sweat a lot, use mouth wash during there shift.
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8 years ago
If your willing to drop $300+ at an A-level strip club "hoping" to get FS or a BJ, your better off going to a high-class escort. You can get an escort who is at least a 7,8 on the looks scale for $300.
The hot/popular girls at the club I go to will only give a HJ at most in the private room downstairs. Seriously for ($160,$300,$425) to get a hand job is expensive when I can jerk myself off for free. But if that is your thing there is no problem with that. And you have to keep things in perspective too, strip clubs aren't brothels or whore houses. Its unrealistic to expect to get laid or get a BJ at a nice strip joint.
When I go to the club my intention is to suck on my favorite dancer titties and get a nice buzz from the drinks. And those are my expectations.
When you hear of regular patrons(non-celebrity or a rich guy) bragging/talking about getting FS from a dancer, I'm 90% certain it is from a c-level strip club and the girls are in the 3-6s in looks.
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8 years ago
I don't know if your trolling but I'll answer some of your questions. If your looking for FS or BBBJCIM go to an escort not a strip club. With a local escort it's cheaper and you know what your getting.
From my experience it's usually the lesser or dive SC that you can get FS, etc, but the girls aren't really hot, they are usually in the 3-6 range. I have a couple in my town but I stay away from those places.
I'm not saying it can't happen but it's rare to get FS from an A-level club. It's doesn't really happen because the girls don't want to do that and their probably satisfied with the money they make there without crossing that line.
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8 years ago
Like someone said the club set the prices for everything, including LDs. In the club I go to in RI the LD price is $25 per song. I believe $5 goes to the house and $20 goes to the girl. So charging $25 makes sense...the girl gets to keep a whole $20 bill which looks better. But I think $20 to $25 for a lab dance is a fair price.
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8 years ago
I'm wondering about that myself. I felt it would be weird to go to club on November and December because of the 2 major holidays and plus with New Years coming up too. But some of you are saying it's better to go now because it's less people and the girls are more motivated for money. So now I might go now.
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8 years ago
I'm just a customer but I believe it's still a 'gossipy' club on the dancer side of things. I have a favorite dancer who does CR often and because of that other dancers think it's because she is doing 'things' with customers. I did a CR once with her, even though fun, the extra was very vanilla and not worth the $300-$500 admission.
The reality with her is that she is popular due to having amazing natural twins(mostly this), looks a current popular pop star, and has a nice/warm personality that makes her seem like a person you have known forever.
I remember her saying when she 1st started at Foxy, a girl(s) were pouring piss in her locker.
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7 years ago
I think couples(m/f) going to strip clubs is weird as hell. I know that is offensive but i don't care. The club caters to men....not couples. I think having couples in the club changes the vibe inside the club.
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7 years ago
@Papi
Thank you for adding your knowledge as well. I agree with mostly everything you wrote too and helping me clarify somethings about strip club culture, such as stage tipping and other practices.
Regular
If you know 'what' you want from a SC and 'who' you want it from it pays to be a regular. They will give you more of what you want as a 'regular' vs a customer who is not. I became a regular of one girl because of that I get to suck on her titties every time I get a dance from her now. Had I not become a regular this most likely would not have been on the menu. Getting only 1,2 dances here and there with random dancers I would not have felt comfortable enough to play with their titties(my desire) let alone, get to suck on them. The opportunity would not have come up, let alone, me being comfortable enough to ask to do that, if I wasn't a regular, without the dancers asking for a ridiculous upsell, on TOP of the lab dance cost!
But if your the type of customer who like 'variety', meaning, you like many or all kind of girls, then, not being a regular shouldn't bother you. You may come into the club and have fun just for the stage dances and/or getting dances from the girl who tickles your fancy that day. For this person you can have fun at almost any club.
Stage Tip
I don't go to the stage and tip unless I'm interested in getting a dance from her or wanted to talk to her for some reason. What @Papi said it true, most 'serious strip clubbers' have a budget to play with, and that is me. I bring a certain amount of cash and that is it. The extra $20-$40 you spend needlessly is money you could have spent on your favorite dancer getting an additional dance and getting what YOU want from the deal, meeting YOUR needs!!
Recently I stage tip a random girl who I was not interested in only because I felt sort of bad for her because there were tons of dudes(many middle aged and looked like they had money to spend) at the club during dayshift but none was stage tipping or going up to the stage. She thanked me for tipping her which was fine, but it had an unintended consequence of attracting another dancer who was sitting on the side saw me tipping and came to talk to me when I sat back down at my table to come chit-chat and then asking for a dance. So it does set you up somewhat as a 'mark' for dancers.
And another time at a different visit I did the same 'tip just to stagetip' because I was sort of bored and was killing time waiting for someone and I was not even interested in a getting a dance from her but she comes over after her stage dance, talks to me, trying to sell a dance and I ended up buying her and myself a drink when I didn't want a drink because the waitress stopped by, never even bought a dance from her but ended up of spending $20 when i didn't plan to. That kind of sucked. So again, it does draw unwanted attention if you didn't want attention from that dancer only because you tipped her, so now she'll come around looking for you.
Dayshift vs Nightshift
I know now that I am more of a nighttime strip club guy, I have been to dayshift a couple of different times but its not for me. Its not bad or anything but it has a different feel and energy compared to night time. I prefer the nighttime energy, it just feels right to me. What @Papi said is true, during shift change at 5pm-7pm its dead inside of the club in terms of dancers being in the club. Its true the hottest girls, work nighttime.
Another thing I wanted to add that hasn't been mention is when to come in. Coming to the club at 8pm and 9pm is usually the peak time crowd. If you come at this time on a Friday and Saturday, the club will be packed as hell. I avoid those 2 specific party days because I don't like crowds. But even at any other day 8pm,9pm is the peak customer crowd, regardless, generally speaking. You have more customer competition and less available preferred seating and space in the club. Its better to come after 10pm when that crowd leaves and the club becomes less busy and it settle back down somewhat.
I remember coming into the club at 10pm one time which was late for me(I was usually the 8 a clock guy) and coming in at 10pm was one the best experiences of my strip club visit. My favorite dancer comes out of no where(I didn't even see her coming) sits down right next to me and I got a dance from her within 10 minutes of me being there, Touchdown!!
When I come in at 7pm, 8pm she is usually really busy. One time I waited over 2 hours to get a dance from her. So if you can, its better to come in after 10pm when the 8pm crowd dies out and leaves. Next time I'm going to a club will be at 10pm!!!! It makes for a better strip club experience getting what I want.
Plus what @Papi said its true; nearing closing time 10pm+ the girls will hustle to make their money if they are unhappy with what they have made so far, so you'll be the one in demand!!! That never even occurred to me until @Papi mention it. Thanks for that advice @Papi.
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7 years ago
1) I hate buying a girl a drink if I don't plan on getting dances from her. Like you said, I'm not rich either and it cuts into my stage tip/buying my own drink money. This happen to me on my most recent last trip.
2) Asking for a dance at the stage and then she disappears. This use to happen to me a lot at 'Desires' in Providence, RI. I learn later on this happened a lot at the club because it was a 'regular' club and the girls eventually went with their regulars and ignored me.
3) I don't mind the vip push
4) the great thing about Foxy Lady in Providence is that it's a set price at $25 a song....with a big sign saying such; which is good thing with no difficult math involved like 20 topless, 35 nude when your sort buzz and buying multiple dances. Plus you also stop potential dancers trying to rip you off by setting their own price.
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7 years ago
On point and accurate!!! I'm more experienced in the SC culture now and everything you wrote about is true.
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8 years ago
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There are pros and cons to eveything, including strippers vs. escorts. I have seen escorts exclusively up until recently where I started enjoying SC more. With escorts, it's a sure bet she shows up and you'll get laid. The con is that it's true that she may not be as hot as you thought she was, or even your type, and also you may not like her personality or get along. That is always the risk, but the pro is that you'll definitely get laid or get foreplay. Short term it's cheaper with an escort.
The pro with strippers is that she will be your type and because she is your type and you will think she is hot. But the con is that it cost a lot of money and time because you have to build a relationship with her first(you have to be almost a club regular), before she even agrees to otc or itc activties. And that is if she is even willing to do otc, where half of the strippers probably don't! So unless you like the chase, putting in time, have the financial resources and the SC environment it's far from a slam dunk. You might have to spend $200 or $300 every week for a few weeks before she feels comfortable enough to even do otc stuff so it's alot more expensive.
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8 years ago
I agree!!! Great advice Harderlap!!
I was a SC newbie 8 months ago and I learned everything you said though gaining SC experience and common sense. Separating large bills from your ones is spot on and I realized this eventually. Bravo!!!