As I have seen, usually strippers have above average smarts and people skills. If you want her to respond to you, talk is the most important thing. That is how you get her interested in knowing you.
Yeah Shailynn, at least at our local no touching clubs, we have had some very bright girls. That is what we do there, talk.
And then in San Francisco, though it is harder to talk when they are pitching dances, some of them I have found very impressive.
Juice, you know how the girl dresses and paints up, that is how she expresses herself, it is what she makes herself into. And often it provides convenient entry points for engaging with her.
Lloyd if you go to strip clubs to talk, can't you do that on your computer for a lot cheaper? Hey it's okay if the girl really is a tranny, it's not like you'd really know anyway right!?!?
Lloyd wants Juice to be his friend, he may give you some gravy and let you watch battlestar galactica with him in the basement after his mom passes out. Poor lady drinks herself to sleep to deal with the shame of being the one who shat Lloyd out into this world.
Speaking of smart ones at the Walmart cashiers I had one a few months back that tried to scan the divider that customers use to separate their items on the checkout conveyor belt There's your sign!
Well you keep talking to them, I'll keep fucking them, Juice will eat Chackin with them and lil fishsticks will keep dreaming about them. CrazyJoe will fart on them.
I think it has to be physical or a little of both, not just mental.
Example - average looking stripper comes along and we hit it off socially. She becomes more attractive to me because we obviously have chemistry. My favorite choice. I would choose her over:
Smoking hot stripper who has an attitude and could care less about me and won't even try to fake that she does.
One that will never cut the bill for me: ugly stripper comes along and strikes up a conversation. Trying to fend her off, she won't leave and eventually warms me up because of her engaging conversation skills. Yeah I'll buy her a drink and chat, but I don't want dances from her.
Has to be both for me. For some reason, if a girl is smoking hot but as dumb as a pile of rocks, it can be annoying to me. If she's trying to talk to me and all I hear is blah, blah, blah... it's a total turn off.
It an average looking girl can at least hold a conversation and doesn't tell me how she didn't make any money today, her car broke down, her rent is late, her mom is in town and she needs to pick her up at the bus station, on and on and on... Then I'd pick the average girl many times.
Ugly girls? They get the: "I just got here and this is my first beer" response, even when I've been sitting in the same spot for 3 hours...
You need both. Most of the stimulation is between the ears rather than between the legs. But you really can't have one in isolation without the other also present.
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I think it is the challenge of going after the girl and seeing if we can connect and if she will open up to me and remain interested.
So I guess that is mental. But how the girl dresses and paints up is a big part of her appeal for me.
Getting to possess her is what it really comes down to. That it is starting out as P4P really does not alter much of anything.
SJG
prowled the streets and killed suspected drug dealers?
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John Hassel - Magic Realism 2 Full Album
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If a stripper turns me on mentally as well my erections are strong as shit and my fuck game is second to none
SJG
Erik Satie, Vexations
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And then in San Francisco, though it is harder to talk when they are pitching dances, some of them I have found very impressive.
Juice, you know how the girl dresses and paints up, that is how she expresses herself, it is what she makes herself into. And often it provides convenient entry points for engaging with her.
SJG
Hey I run into smart people working the check out line at WalMart too, but it's not the norm when I'm buying my groceries.
And when they don't really have dances or extras to sell, it is interesting, as the talk can go quite far.
They even wrote about this in the Spectator Magazine, about the San Jose Pink Poodle, strippers have to learn a great deal about psychology.
They didn't explain this, but its all in the way they make eye contact with people.
The physical is a turn on, but because you can try to possess her, and that of course is psychological.
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Another book about San Jose characters:
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My own block list is very short, just eight of the most egregious rascist posters of the last four years.
Example - average looking stripper comes along and we hit it off socially. She becomes more attractive to me because we obviously have chemistry. My favorite choice. I would choose her over:
Smoking hot stripper who has an attitude and could care less about me and won't even try to fake that she does.
One that will never cut the bill for me: ugly stripper comes along and strikes up a conversation. Trying to fend her off, she won't leave and eventually warms me up because of her engaging conversation skills. Yeah I'll buy her a drink and chat, but I don't want dances from her.
Has to be both for me. For some reason, if a girl is smoking hot but as dumb as a pile of rocks, it can be annoying to me. If she's trying to talk to me and all I hear is blah, blah, blah... it's a total turn off.
It an average looking girl can at least hold a conversation and doesn't tell me how she didn't make any money today, her car broke down, her rent is late, her mom is in town and she needs to pick her up at the bus station, on and on and on... Then I'd pick the average girl many times.
Ugly girls? They get the: "I just got here and this is my first beer" response, even when I've been sitting in the same spot for 3 hours...
SJG