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8 years ago
623 let me first start off by saying I am not at all ashamed of what I do. I am proud of it and love doing it. Slinging drinks and fighting off drunks is one thing but knowing my dad would be in that kind of environment would creep me out because I and he would know what was about to happen even if he left before it did ie nudity. I don't consider this normal because of the atmosphere. but I can assure you I am not ashamed.
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8 years ago
I feel like having your mother would be weird but better then your dad!
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8 years ago
aww thanks :)
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8 years ago
Oh yeah that could've been bad lol.
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8 years ago
Thanks :) I like the closeup pics of me too. adds a little more detail
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8 years ago
Problem is I don't have anyone close enough to me to co sign. parents would be not close and I don't wanna have to depend on someone like that. I brought in bank info and tax info and was told it had to be paystubs they wouldn't even to employment verification to satisfy that requirement.
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8 years ago
No actually they are not
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8 years ago
Totally agree with that flag. Giving money for something that doesn't do it for you is stupid. But do it with class and say no thanks and move on. I remember one night a few drunk assholes laughed during my hole stage set. I was mortified. already hard enough with what was going on at the time with my sperm donor and the emotions of being pregnant. also remember having a guy fall into me and knock me down when I was 5 or so months along. Drunk and stupid but still took a chance of hurting me. So the point is to not donate just cause but to say you would leave isn't fair either.
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8 years ago
Glad you had a change of heart! sorry if I came off bitchy sounding didn't mean to be. lol just a realy thing people need to understand.
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8 years ago
To those saying no then I ask this.. What alternatives do we have? Mickey d's for minimum wage? No one else supporting us so we have to. I never understood the understanding that some people have that its fine to see you when your all hot and tiny but the minute you start showing a bit then its the body and horrible changes that are happening to it. Its just a way for us to make money and sometimes life gets in the way but it leaves us with few choices.
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8 years ago
What some forget to understand is that this is work. If a dancer is up there doing it at month one or month 9 its bad ass. Having had 2 kids and dancing up until I was 6 or7 months it totally sucks. First off you hurt really bad. Feet body aches its not fun especially in heels. Secondly very few women feel hot when they are pregnant I know I didn't. So your just kinda there and going through the motions. But as in the previous comments the bills are huge with childbirth and if your the only income you have to work at least some to bank some money back. Plus some customers can be assholes. I fielded questions like... well you obviously fuck. and other more vulgar comments and questions from drunk a holes. But all in all to the pregnant dancers you go girls you rock!!!
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8 years ago
I don't deny I am a sick mf'r lol
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8 years ago
Thank you :)
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8 years ago
Yes hygiene is crucial as well.
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8 years ago
Another thing to consider is if you aren't tipping frequently and a dancer stays with you then she def wants it. i actually get turned on by dancing naked if the person i am dancing for is hot.
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8 years ago
That is so spot on. i mean sometimes it even comes down to a "i don't feel like it"
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8 years ago
No she doesn't love you and she doesn't want to date you and I can almost guarantee she wont fuck you without something being exchanged. The best way to make money is to entice a customer until they really think you like them. Some girls go all the way others don't but the mindset is the same. Have I had customers that were really hot...absolutely and do I get turned on hell yea but I can assure you that if she fucked you shes fucked others that night. Very few girls love dancing and even fewer if any would do it for free so the theme is we go for money and if your spreading for it then it def isn't for love or even like. I've always found it funny that men think men are the only ones that can have meaningless sex. Big difference in sex and love making. sorry don't mean to burst any bubble just being honest
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8 years ago
thank you all!
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8 years ago
Thank you and it def has in respect to music. Its so easy for people to get hooked and dancing is a prime location for excuse drinking. thanks
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8 years ago
Thanks everyone :)
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8 years ago
you typed it wrong then dumb ass. I just clicked it and it went right to the video. Its not infected your just a dumbass
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8 years ago
Thanks
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8 years ago
I aim to please lol
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8 years ago
And usually they don't. This was just a weird ass night. Even private dances were few and far between.
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8 years ago
LOL thanks micro. And I always shave prior to work. That's part of the ritual