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8 years ago
My thoughts exactly it was one of the weirdest nights ive had
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8 years ago
Tunnel of love, oyster, clam lol
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8 years ago
thanks cashman
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8 years ago
Thanks :)
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8 years ago
That is very true. Dirty means a girls that has some disease many non xtra girls are cock pincushions in there personal lives. The terms used do portray a certain image.
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8 years ago
That is true most of the time its not an issue but when it is it really sucks
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8 years ago
It worked for me just now
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8 years ago
I can see the non desirable job aspect however that can be twisted into the whole started with nothing and now im rich and famous or at least have a stable lifestyle. with dancing though there is always the risk of getting found out by someone. For example the doctor, lawyer etc that you hire and realize that she was your ATF 20 years ago. is she a professional or would you still judge her based on an ex dancing lifestyle
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8 years ago
yes I feel better now lol
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8 years ago
no I agree with the insurance bit. But why drug testing? Not saying that its a bad idea but if your a engineer or even if you work at a grocery story if the benefits are provided. those people don't get tested. As far as paying goes they already have some control over how dances go. Whether it be direct or indirectly they control at least some portion of how dances go. Most clubs at least the decent ones don't make a girl do private or VIP dances but at the same time if you wanna make money you have to, This isn't really the clubs fought because we need to appeal to the customer and that's by revealing more and doing the private and VIP dances. My thoughts are that the club makes a lot of money off of us that we don't see.
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8 years ago
I could see how it would be weird to show up on time and have set days etc but clubs still fine dancers for those things. Plus tip outs to bartenders and DJ. I actually like the contractor style but my only thing that I would like to see is insurance.
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8 years ago
That is true retaliation is a concern.
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9 years ago
thanks :)
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9 years ago
nope not leaving yet. just thinking out loud I guess.
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9 years ago
good morning yes me
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9 years ago
It is a fucked up economy and it is def. tough. its scary even with dancing the money is not consitant but the bills are. And the sad part is someone like me that doesn't really like school cant find a job without some sort of degree. Also investing is a good idea too.
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9 years ago
Great points 69 problem is figuring out what I would like to do. I haven't really had experience in anything but dancing. I thought about make up artist or something like that could be fun and at least I have some experience doing my own but the money is not going to be good. that's the only bad part about dancing at 19 I didn't have time to figure out what type of things I could be good at.
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9 years ago
yeah that is true and its part of the lifestyle as far as not planning anything because you don't really have to until you get fired.
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9 years ago
I hate them. I guess everyone has a preference but not for me.
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9 years ago
Some of them do talk well about there wives. I have even made friends with a few couples over the years that come in to see me either together of one at a time. its nice to hear sometimes for a man to up talk his wife or gf. The biggest thing I see is both men and women need to step up the game esp. as the marriage gets more years behind it to keep everyone happy.
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9 years ago
He can be a very happy man lol
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9 years ago
Thanks everyone :) making me blush
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9 years ago
well thank you
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9 years ago
Yeah Ive only worked a fully nude clubs with the exception of one club for a short while. That is an interesting concept though walk through dressing rooms
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9 years ago
No problem I love playing along