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6 years ago
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steeldog65I swear, it's just shrinkage due the cold
-->"What else are dealmakers or breakers"
Note that it wasn't my impression that nipple piercings were dealmakers or dealbreakers -- we just don't like them. Same, for me, with tats -- I mean certain tats tend to be dealbreakers for me, but if she's hot enough, I'll ignore them. It's an important distinction -- I don't think girls getting nipple piercings are driving away customers, necessarily
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6 years ago
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Fake ass is automatic pass for me, even if it's a "good" one
JamesSD's "asymmetrical haircuts" is a good one. I'm assuming he's talking about girls who look like Skrillex? If so, that's a monster turnoff if it's obvious; if it's subtle, and the girl can cover the shaved part with the rest of her hair, I'm a'ight
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6 years ago
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First trip, Friday & Saturday. Definitely Friday day, possibly friday night, possibly Saturday day (we have something else to do during one of those timeslots)
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6 years ago
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Thanks guys.. several of my buddies have moved into the area, so if it turns out fun, we might get together there every few months. Thinking we'll all head out there in March. Will absorb what you've all recommended and reflect back what I think the plan will be
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6 years ago
You're insane if you think there's something magical about tequila that it won't give you a hangover willy! I've had a LOT of tequilas. My fave under $35 is, IMO, Centenario Anejo; it is good enough to sip. Dipping into more craft tequilas, my fave recently might be Tierra Sagrada Extra Anejo, which is still under $100.
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6 years ago
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steeldog65I swear, it's just shrinkage due the cold
I mostly don't give a fuck about breasts in general, but to the extent I care, I'd prefer without nipple piercings -- don't like the way they look, sometimes they make the girl's nipples overly sensitive (or give them an excuse to claim so)
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6 years ago
The first thing I looked up after reading Papi's response was, the 15 things to never do in a hotel room. I am relieved to report that "Bang your CF" is not on the list.
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6 years ago
Ha, rick and I totally part there -- I love talking and drinking with strippers, and given the opportunity, I always choose to buy them drinks or dinner if offered, provided they don't want to charge me extra $ just for the honor of buying them dinner.
I've said this before: I think our analysis of strippers is far too one-dimension -- underneath all that maybelline, they are people, kinda sorta, and will often have multiple reasons for doing something, just like other people. They can accomplish multiple things at once, for example:
- She can give the illusion of closeness and romance, since obviously people with a REAL CONNECTION are who go to dinner together. This is an extension of her hustle, and makes you more loyal to her without her doing anything sexual. It's a pretty brilliant, low-risk investment for her
- She can get you to buy her a fancy dinner she wouldn't have otherwise bought herself. If she's not revolted by you, this is no-lose for her. I've met any number of strippers through the years who are happy to go to dinner with any regular that doesn't creep her out. In her low 20s, my ATATF had already been to Nobu and other high-end restaurants, probably as many times as I have in my life. This isn't romantic interest, but you had to pass some (minimal) bar for the invitation to be there
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6 years ago
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Well that was fun, but to get back on topic: I was reading some of the reviews today, and there's reports of the same thing: lots of new girls on shifts due to so many girls leaving, etc. Note that these are all DejaVu clubs, and due to DejaVu's monopoly here, it could be they are more heavy-handed than elsewhere in CA, where only some of you are seeing similar things. Please keep checking in as you get a feel for things.
I, too, had heard the dancers are organization against the re-classification, or at least for choice; interesting to see if that leads anywhere
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6 years ago
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Spill: We tend to be dayshifters, but for this trip, there's a chance we'll hit nightshift also.
All, thanks for the g2 so far....
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6 years ago
Heh, can't see him either, obviously. Paying dividends already :)
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6 years ago
For those of you saying "no", is it because:
1. I don't want my girl grinding on strange men, and doing who-knows-what in the VIP and on OTCs
2. The toxic environment and the impact it might have on her
When people mention reasons at all, reason #1 is what's being mentioned, directly or obliquely. I would argue that reason #2 is far more of a concern, although I certainly don't ignore reason #1.
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It's a gross boner-killer, but among young people, it's being used more like "papi" in Spanish. Unfortunately, many older men like being called daddy, so the girls are getting some positive reinforcement, evidently. I can't remember anyone calling me this, but if they did, I'd stop them. On SA, when someone messages me with a "Let's hang out daddy!" I shitcan their message.
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6 years ago
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san_jose_guymoney was invented for handing to women, but buying dances is a chump's game
#Imwithfounder
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6 years ago
Agree, there's no "let" about it. I would, and have, casually dated -- more like FWB -- a stripper. Would not seriously date a stripper.
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6 years ago
I accidentally just figured out that if you start a thread, then a troll comes in and takes it off track, and you ignore that thread --wham, all their "contributions" disappear from the thread. If you do want to post in the front room, founder has given us a powerful tool.
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6 years ago
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501: I hate to say the name of lord maldevort, but dougster used to do the same thing: stake out some odd position that he was, for some reason, incredibly invested in, and then ignore any factual arguments against while dismissing them for increasingly delusion reasons and theories. It reminds me a bit of this pattern, as does the pattern of writing lots of threads about people you don't like
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6 years ago
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25: well, at least now if you want to create a thread here that actually has more signal than noise, you know you can insta-remove anyone
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6 years ago
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Remind me, at the end of Avengers: Infinity War, do a bunch of guys who are socially isolated and in their low-rent apartments alone, trolling the internet, disappear? Because that's a pretty righteous ending
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6 years ago
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I was conflicted over the fact that he wouldn't see my Pimps Up Hoes Down zinger, but there it is.
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6 years ago
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I ignored him -- still kicking myself for being an idiot and letting him bait me into trolling my own thread. I didn't realize that would erase his comments for everyone. Do you want me to un-ignore him?
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6 years ago
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Pistola: have you explored crazy horse III dayshift (assuming it's still there, and has one?). That was our place 20 years ago, wondered whether it's still any good. Obviously, no use mourning OG
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Oh interesting... one of the girls was very careful to say, "no touching up top downstairs ... it's a CLUB RULE!! not mine"
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6 years ago
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Calling me a trick because you learned the word "trick" when you watched Pimps Up Hoes Down doesn't change you from being a clueless troll
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And you sound like a troll persona being an animated, badly and in a cringeworthy manner, by a truly terrible, miserable person. So we both have things to improve on