Daddy

I treat it as an abbreviation of "sugar daddy". And I'm pretty sure that's how it is meant 99% of the time.

But I agree that it's a little odd. Of all the things a stripper might do to annoy me, this is far, far down on the list.

It's a gross boner-killer, but among young people, it's being used more like "papi" in Spanish. Unfortunately, many older men like being called daddy, so the girls are getting some positive reinforcement, evidently. I can't remember anyone calling me this, but if they did, I'd stop them. On SA, when someone messages me with a "Let's hang out daddy!" I shitcan their message.

I hate being called daddy. It's a huge turn off.

It's better than being called grandpa!

I don’t mind it at all, and over the years I have enjoyed exploiting those daddy issues;)

I recognize the daddy issues but I do not need to be called daddy on any level.

I was told "you remind me of my dad" by a dancer for the first time a couple of months ago and it was enough for me to end our conversation. I started to tell her that I wasn't old enough to be her dad and then I did some quick math, I'm 36 and she is 19, and realized that I am old enough. I just couldn't get past the creepy factor of an 19 year old telling me how horny I was making her as I ran my hand along her thigh and then less than a minute later saying that I reminded her of her dad.

Never been “daddy”ed, but if I was, it’d be a turn off. Not a deal breaker but she’d have to do a lot to get me back in the mood .....

Don't like it either. Apparently there is a whole genre of porn that plays off this.

What whodey describes would put me off entirely.

I know that "daddy" is just a term they use more as a matter of convenience. Bothersome but not meaningful. To actually tell a customer "Hey, you're just like my dad." is instant boner repellent.

Hopefully, the dancers reading this can spread the word. It's not like there are other terms they could use.

When they say that to me I turn them over my knee and beat their ass with a belt.... cause that is what their daddy should have done

It's not like there *aren't* other terms they could use, rather.

I don’t care when they call me daddy. They all have issues. It’s a fetish thing for some of them they like the dominant daddy role being filled

Not a fan, but its not as bad if a latina calls me papi for some reason

I had a latina call me El Jefe.... I thought she said Hefty and was calling me fat lol, So I don't mind Papi. I really don't mind Daddy either but that is certainly their kink not mine

I had a CF do it to me. She would do it in the throws of passion. " Give it to me Daddy ". At first I thought it was cute. Then after a while, I was weirded out by it. She was the same age as my son.

Jefe = boss in this instance. So that’s like saying you call the shots. It’s not a bad thing.

I don’t get ‘daddy’ a lot but when I do I don’t mind.

My interpretation is that use of daddy is their sneaky or maybe even subconscious way to figure out if you would wanna take care of her in a daddy / can you pay my cell phone bill kind of way.

DC.... do they say lick that pussy, momma... I imagine that would be more appropriate for you

DC, I don't know how young you are,but it comes across as relatively young to me
Between the ages of 18 and 25 I never paid for sex. I was in college, graduate school and then my 1st few years on the job, I would just fuck women all the time
Beautiful women who were way out of my league because you can when you're single. Why are you frequenting strip clubs at your age? I mean the occasional visit for a bachelor's party or something I guess I understand but you seem to be a regular and I find that interesting and potentially confusing.

DC, I don't know how young you are,but it comes across as relatively young to me
Between the ages of 18 and 25 I never paid for sex. I was in college, graduate school and then my 1st few years on the job, I would just fuck women all the time
Beautiful women who were way out of my league because you can when you're single. Why are you frequenting strip clubs at your age? I mean the occasional visit for a bachelor's party or something I guess I understand but you seem to be a regular and I find that interesting and potentially confusing.

Really interesting discussion and reactions . . .

In the throws of passion, I can't say I mind it, but certainly do not crave it. In a recent OTC, she called me "Daddy" and I responded by calling her "Baby" -- mindlessly, on my part -- I don't know, maybe it is HER fantasy."

It may just be her banter in place of your name (which she may not remember or you may not have given her) or some other colloquial expression that might be equally awkward (give it to me stud, give it to me big boy, give it to me jackhammer, whatever).

She could mean it a la Leonardo DiCaprio and Margot Robbie in Wolf of Wall Street calling each other Mommy and Daddy.

She might be making the assumption since she is young and I am old that being called Daddy is something I WANT (as if to play to my kink, which I don't have, by the way).

While I don't mind it, in some ways, it can kill the fantasy that young-she and older-me could possibly be physically attracted to each other in a sexual way. I know she turns me on (I can't fake it) and, in my fantasy, I am able to turn her on in some form or fashion.

PK I don't mind a little role play and that's fine. However when it's repeated at the club kind of freaks me out. I was talking to a very nice young lady about a month ago in Atlantis in Chicago Heights and the entire time she kept call me O daddy daddy do me daddy do me like usual I'm your little girl. Eventually it just got to me like don't call me that.

I remember the first time a hot waitress referred to me as "Sir." Didn't like that one bit!

Don't remind me -- I'm old -- I get it!

A few of the Spanish girls have called me "papi" but never have I heard "Daddy" from a stripper. The only places I've ever heard this being a thing is here and on SW from what I'm sure is a crossover poster.

I was like a father, in some respects, to my ATF. A large age difference and the only "family" she had. Often gave advice as any father would. Had she ever actually said that I was, I would have worried. I felt good that she would trust me with her innermost thoughts, feeling, joys and tribulations.

DC if I recall from what you told me you are south of DC....

http://rooseveltrva.com/

http://www.lopossum.com/

https://www.rroysters.com/restaurants/ra…

I've been in all three......all of them on a Thursday -Saturday have enough good looking women in them in groups of three or more unattached and willing to talk to even older guys ( like me)

There is nothing wrong with looking for a hot young stripper/dancer.....but if that is all you ever interact with your going to have a very slanted view on dating and relationships.....an unhealthy one.

got to love auto-correct ....your =you're

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Ok, so back to the daddy subject. One girl says this. The first time I ignored it. The second time I looked at her and asked what she said. There has not been a third time.

It seems like it must be something she has success with because she acted surprised at my response. I appreciate that she remembered not to use it on me. The first time it wasn’t really a mood killer. The second time it was just a minor distraction since I felt like I needed to put a stop to it before it became a common thing. I’ll have to think of what I’ll do if she does it again. I would assume it was an accident, and wouldn’t want to let it get in the way of a good time.

I always figured it would weird me out, but my ATF called me “daddy” one time, and for some reason, it sent an electric shock through my entire body. Maybe it was the look on her face when she said it.

Hey, if a girl mistakes me for Papi, I'm good with that!!!! ;-)

I’m ok with it. I’m in my 50’s - so age-wise it’s somewhat appropriate.

Oddly enough - I’ve recently been enjoying a dancer who is 41 - with the body of a 25 year old - and she doesn’t call me daddy!

Is it possible the use of daddy is almost a generic term for an adult male for some dancers? If so - it could be another figure of speech.

I like being called anything that seems intimate. Baby, Papi, Honey, Daddy, it's all good. Hate being called "sir" by any woman, esp. young, pretty ones.

I can’t help but remember Pedro Martinez, after a post season lose to the dreaded Yankees, standing at a mike saying the Yankees are my Daddy. Daddy is the master, the boss, the disciplinarian. Most dancers call me honey or Babe. I really don’t care what they call me.

^especially while fucking.

Don't remember any dancer calling me daddy, but will never forget a nice looking Latina at the Cabaret Club in El Paso sitting on my lap, and as she revealed her very nice, large tits, said: "Hi, Papi". We had a very memorable time that afternoon. Well, at least it was memorable for me.

And not to brag or anything, but I was also happy the 20 year old I took lingerie shopping, out to a nice dinner, and then spent a couple of hours in bed with this past weekend, not once called me daddy. Or Papi.

my comment should be to lopers comment. ^^^

It weirded me out but I had a civvy girl call me it once while I was pounding her and she's made it ok for me.

Is this common with strippers to get into the incest role play?

After an ITC FS with a 22 year old spinner, she comes cover to talk and tells me "it's such a turn on to fuck older guys, it's like fucking my dad's friends."

It was weird to hear but at least it was after we fucked.

Probably Referring To Them Wanting You To B Their Sugar Daddy, So They Butter You Up! Those Dancers Want That $$$ ✔️ 💲
Atleast A Good Sign U Can Score OTC ✔️