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2 years ago
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motorheadFat, drunk and stupid is no way to go through life
I recall when I started watching/understanding football back in the early-80s as a kid (not long after immigrating from Cuba) that I would often see signs in the crowd (often behind the endzone) that said "3:16"; but I never really paid much attention to it and didn't know what it meant - it wasn't till I was older that I learned 3:16 was the "John 3:16" bible-verse which is probably the most popular/important Bible-verse for many Christians.
I was thinking the other-day that it's been a long-time since I've seen that sign on a televised football-game.
Or maybe I just don't notice it?
Come to think of it I actually don't notice many signs in the crowd when I watch a football game these days. Perhaps I don't notice them like I used to or perhaps they purposely don't put the cameras on them?
discussion comment
2 years ago
When I lived/SCed in Dallas (2000 – 2009) Pandoras was part of my club-rotation – back then:
+ it was a BYOB dive
+ custies were mainly Mexican laborer-types that often came-in in-groups and mostly drank and just-watched
+ being BYOB it closed-late (most Dallas clubs served alcohol and closed at 2am) – back-then the club was mostly a weekend-night place (not much of a dayshift and pretty-slow on weeknights at least early-week) – being that it got busy on Fr/Sat eves; dancers kept fairl bus selling-dances on those 2-nights
+ back in the 2000s it was pre-Cubana-invasion and I’d guesstimate the dancer-makeup was approximately 50% Central-American (mainly Mexican w/ some Salvadorians/Honduran/Guatemalan); maybe 25% (white-trash) whitegirls; and 25% AA-girls; roughly speaking – the club was pretty-good-sized and on Fr/Sat eves probably had 30 to 40+ dancers
I briefly visited Pandoras in late-2018 on a Dallas-trip and it seemed the club’s M.O. had changed a bit mainly in the dancer-makeup – in my brief 2018-visit it seemed mainly Cubanas and there also seemed to be more Cuban-custies – I didn’t get any dances in my 2018-visit; from what I recall if was still a dive and BYOB – given what appeared to be a heavy-Cubana-presence per my 2018-visit, could be the club may be a bit busier on dayshift and weeknights now (?) – but this club seems to rarely get reviewed so I would “assume” it’s currently not-too-good (?).
There used to be an AA-dancer that occasionally posted on TUSCL that used to dance at Pandoras but her name/handle escapes me at the moment.
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2 years ago
“… Papi chulo "black" clubs on the west coast sometimes have more Latinas than blacks. Is it Luke that in Miami? …”
I haven’t clubbed since late-2021 but traditionally the SoFlo/Miami clubs have been pretty-segregated – i.e. IME it’s rare to vey-rare to find a non-black-dancer in a black Miami/SoFlo club – and w.r.t. the “mixed” Miami clubs, IME most of them either have very-few or none (black-dancers) – i.e. the SoFlo mixed-clubs; especially the top/popular ones; IME are not the clubs if someone is looking for ebony-dancers.
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2 years ago
As other SoFlo TUSCLers have mentioned, here in SoFlo there really aren’t different club-options - the SoFlo standard is that all clubs serve alcohol and the standard is full-nude on-stage, but lap-dances are topless/g-string-on.
When I lived/SCed in Dallas; there were BYOB-clubs and alcohol-clubs (alcohol clubs were topless-only and BYOB were full-nude-dances) - I’ve never been a big-drinker so when I lived/SCed in Dallas I chose clubs mainly based on them having the type of dancers I liked which for me was ebony-dancers – all things being equal I guess I’d prefer full-nude but the club having the type of dancer I like, and type of mileage I like, are the main-factors I’ve always used when SCing.
My SCing M.O. is that I’m a variety-guy and I’m not a big VIP/extras guy; thus I like getting lots of 2-way-contact-dances (grinding and groping) and when a dancer is grinding-on-me I really can’t see her puss so it’s not a big difference whether she’s full-nude or wearing-a-gstring (I prefer a good-grind w/ a g-string-on vs a full-nude mediocre-grind).
From my experience in Dallas (in the 2000s), the BYOB-clubs tended to be more dive/blue-collar and tended to have more dancer-variety which included the type of dancers I liked (mainly curvy and/or ebony dancers).
discussion comment
2 years ago
It’s been years since I’ve taken a wallet into the club – the less stuff I have on me, the less I can lose or have stolen (I’ve had both happen over-the-years).
I mostly hit $5/dance small-black-clubs in Miami; and at times the $25/dance mixed-clubs – so having smaller denominations helps – my M.O. is similar to others in that I’ll put smaller denominations ($1s/$5s) in my right-pocket and $20s in my left and that’s pretty-much-it – since I mostly hit low-cost-clubs, and I’m not a big VIP/extras guy; I’ve never taken $50s or $100s into the club.
I bank w/ Wells-Fargo and their ATMs as far as I can recall only dispense $20s and $50s – but many Wells Fargo branches near-me will have a separate ATM inside that will dispense $1s and $5s (in addition to $20s and $50s) and I often will use that inside-ATM for my small SCing-denominations (assuming I can hit a branch b/f closing time) – I once used a Chase Bank ATM near my house and noticed it had options for denominations smaller than $20s.
review comment
2 years ago
I haven't been to this place in a while but would not be surprised if it's changed as @Dolfan posted given this club had changed ownership pre-Covid
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2 years ago
This has traditionally been a bit of a party-club and is usually slow on weeknights particularly early-in-the-week and also slow on dayshift.
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2 years ago
It's likely the drink-hustle is being pushed by management/ownership and not much the waitresses can do about it - certain-clubs have certain annoying-things custies just gotta learn how to deal with (a "no thanks we're good" should suffice).
You f'ed up taking a girl for dances that still-tried to order a drink on your dime after u had said no; that is often a red-flag to not deal with a dancer like that especially if one is not an experienced-SCer that knows how to deal with pushy staff and dancers - and u compounded the problem by giving her a tip after she cut ur dance short.
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2 years ago
You keep saying "we" in ur reviews of SoFlo clubs - AFAIK ur from out-of-town - are u hitting the SoFlo clubs with a stripper-friend-in-tow?
w.r.t. early-closing - only the clubs in Pompano close at 2am - all other non-Pompano clubs usually close at 5am or sometimes later.
w.r.t. extras at this club - neither of the 2 Hallandale clubs offer them due to Hallandale-specific-ordinances (Vixens in Davie is another SoFlo outlier that does not offer extras) - Cheetah Hallandale actually doesn't even have private-VIP-rooms although some dancers in the past still pitched "VIP" but they didn't tell custies it was an open-area just a little-more-out-of-the-way so not worth it.
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2 years ago
^ FYI Latinos did not come up with that stupid woke-term and most Latinos find it offensive to our culture.
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2 years ago
Stop using that stupid LatinX shit - do you even know what it means.
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2 years ago
TUSCL M.O. is to avoid identifying dancers-in-detail in the context of extras
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2 years ago
Dance costs?
Dance area privacy/ comfort?
Describe the typical dancer-crew (looks; ages; builds; ethnicities; natural vs enhanced; etc).
discussion comment
2 years ago
As I’ve often posted I’m not into faves so not that hard for me to blacklist a dancer that’s done-me-wrong and move-on to w/e else the dancer-crew has to offer – given my strong like for variety means I rarely sweat/lust after any one particular-dancer.
I find it important to not take advantage of a dancer as IMO their job is hard enough already; but I expect the same in return and for most of my SCing-career it would def really-piss-me-off when a dancer would try to pull one over on me and in the past that would often mean a lifetime-ban from my wallet.
As I got a bit older and more-and-more exposed to strip-club bizarro-world, I became slightly more-flexible and would at times give a ROB a 2nd-chance with varying-degrees-of-success (most would play it straight after they realized they couldn’t play me and that I was fair w/ dancers and spent well).
I’ve also noticed that dancers can change w/ time/experience (sometimes for the worse; but sometimes for the better) – some dancers that end-up as dancers as a career/longer-time clean-up-their-act – I’ve also been in situations where dancers’ attitudes have done almost a 180 – many of these girls often have serious drama in their personal-lives (often due to a POS S.O./babydaddy; etc) that can often affect how they act in the club; but they can become better dancers when/if they get that drama behind them.
In summary – I’ve gone from a lifetime-ban for most of my PL-career, to giving 2nd-chances w/ varying degrees-of-success depending on the dancer (i.e. how long she sticks w/ dancing; how her personal life/situation is; etc).
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2 years ago
I originally didn’t know what “AR” meant in your original post – now I see it means ur looking for clubs in Arkansas - good strip-club-locations are def more the exception than the norm and Arkansas is def not considered a good strip-clubbing area – AFAIK no-one that posts on the board regularly is from AK nor hardcore SCers for the most part bother to club there so kinda hard to make a recommendation of a good-club (although I recall a club in AK that if I remember correctly had a good #, if not mostly, AA-dancers but I can’t remember the name).
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2 years ago
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motorheadFat, drunk and stupid is no way to go through life
Ever since 2020 I record prett-much w/e sporting-event I wanna watch – I’ll usually start watching the recorded-event from-the-beginning halfway thru while it’s playing live - i.e. for an NFL game I’ll start watching the recorded version ~2-hours after the game has started that way I can skip the commercials and I often skip halftime and I’ll usually finish watching the recorded-version around the same-time the live-version ends but in half-the-time and having skipped all commercials.
I mainly started doing this in 2020 to avoid all the aggravating woke-shit (I just heard a little while ago that they had played “the black national anthem” pre-game and as far as I’m concerned there is only one national-anthem (I’m Hispanic and I don’t expect nor want a “Hispanic National Anthem”).
Anyway – I skipped the pre-game and halftime festivities this year in part b/c I’m a child-of-the-80s and not that much into current music and I rarely listen to current-artists thus I don’t have too-big-a-desire to sit thru a halftime-show of artists I normally don’t follow (plus the risk of running into more woke-shit).
Having said this – I did enjoy the Bruno Mars halftime-show a-few-ears-ago – can’t say I was a follower-of-his-work at the time but I was def impressed when I saw him perform and was impressed by his talent both singing and dancing.
I don’t follow Rhiana but I’ve heard a few of her songs and she looks very-talented and has been popular for a good # of years vs just being a flash-in-the-pan – so I give her kudos w.r.t. her talent and longevity but I’m def turned-off b most of her political and social stands – after having read this thread it’s piqued my-interest a bit and I’ll probably go back and watch the pre and halftime shows.
discussion comment
2 years ago
The avg song-length in many clubs is ~3-minutes - that's ~20 songs per hour - if there are multiple dancers hitting u up every song; that's a good amount of overhead to be paying for something u don't want - a custy should be tipping judiciously; not constantly
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2 years ago
Was just looking at their Wikipedia-page and it says Trugoy's name is yogurt spelled-backwards bc he liked yogurt
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2 years ago
Never been a big-enough fan of rap to have fave artists but I do recall back-in-the-day De La Soul used to get a lot of play on MTv especially with their song "Me Myself and I" and I recall De La Soul being held in high-regard by other artists - I also appreciated they didn't come across as thugs nor try to act that way but just avg guys from the neighborhood.
Sad he went so young.
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2 years ago
Just go with the Rodney Dangerfield approach "no thanks just browsing":
https://youtu.be/xNotHLA8afU
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2 years ago
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drewcareypnwnot the real drew carey, but I play him at strip clubs...
When I was clubbing I was mostly a spur-of-the-moment/when-in-the-mood visitor (being single w/ no S.O./kids allowed for me to not have to pre-arrange my visits too-much).
Dancer roll-calls are not a thing in the clubs I hit AFAIK so it has never really occurred to me to check IG for stuff like that - I'm also not into faves so I'm usually ok with popping into the club and seeing what's available since I have a rotation of clubs that are somewhat consistent and at times will hit more than one club per outing if the intial club(s) weren't doing it for me or I just didn't get-my-fill for the day.
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2 years ago
It can be a bit harder for AA-women to get into certain-clubs particularly AA-women that are thick - if ur comfortable with it then specify what city/area ur in so u can get some recs on which clubs might be a better-fit - also; if ur comfortable with it post some body pics as certain clubs tend to hire/not-hire certain body-types.
Best of luck - the strip-club world can be a bit hard to navigate if one is a newbie and it takes some time to figure out.
discussion comment
2 years ago
This site is mostly a customer site - I think you would benefit more from a dancer-centric site - we have some dancers posting on here but they are a minority - StripperWeb.com used to be a dancer-site but that site recently closed.
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2 years ago
^ many black clubs are party-clubs and are treated like nightclubs - IME high-nightshift-covers (and often steep parking charges) are def not uncommon IME (and mileage can be suspect in many of them b/c of rain-making just-booty-shaking party-atmosphere)
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2 years ago
This club has traditionally been a lap-dance-factory and that is what the girls are interested in (selling dances) – the stage-action here has never been too-big-a-deal IME and most dancers usually seemed to not wanna be on there and preferred to be on the floor trying to sell dances – the way the stages are set-up are not that conducive to interactions w/ custies.