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12 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
@alucard
"The Hunter chooses her/his PRIZE. Not the reverse."
Isn't that one of the MAIN reasons we go to strip clubs. In normal social settings its the woman who controls the speed governor on a sexual relationship. In a strip club the customer is in control, right?
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12 years ago
I'm a moderator on a couple different forums. It is rarely approrpiate for banning to be the first club out of the bag. If two or more members are continuously endulging in flame wars, it's best to give them their own private playpen to argue away from the other serious members. Kind of like putting children in a playroom while the adults talk. It looks like whoever is in control has done that here. If they keep polluting new discussions with the same old tired flames than warnings should be issued. Once enough warnings have been ignored, then banning is the only logical next step.
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12 years ago
@alucard
Definitely Yes.
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12 years ago
@alucard
I'm ALWAYS a gentleman even when whoring. I've always assumed there is nothing to be gained by being borrish when you're trying to convience a woman to have sex with you; either by charm or by cash.
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12 years ago
@Papi_Chuto
"AS others have said in other threads – do you think this girl would be interested in you if you had not met her in a SC and were not paying her? If not, it means that this is just a business transaction."
Boy, two great thought provokers in less than 5 minutes. Thanks Papi. I think everyone needs to ask themselves this simple question when that beautiful 24 year old girl is stroking your 58 year old leg and giving you the come hither look with her eyes.
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12 years ago
@Papi_Chuto
"In fact, SCs being bizarro world that they are, often means that if you are “nice†that this will often work against you as one’s “niceness†can and often will be used againts you to try to bleed you dry."
Thanks Papi - that is an interesting comment that I'm going to really have to think about.
Maybe they expect a little "edge" or they think they can just run roughshod all over you? Gotta remember these girls are not looking for boyfriends from the customer ranks.
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12 years ago
@sclvr5005
If we had good looks and youth on our side we probably wouldn't need to frequest strip clubs very often would we?
You comment is a fair one. I have an annual income level that our President says needs to pay more taxes. It's broaching the topic and reaching the agreement to have OTC that I'm asking about.
@alucard
As usual, you comments are positive and helpful Thanks.
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12 years ago
I would. I always try to make sure the dancer gets at least some enjoyment out of the process - back rubbing, neck kissing, nipple squezzing, clitorial stimulation. Maybe that's my problem?
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12 years ago
@Papi_Chulo
I assume that if the girl at least likes you (thinks you are polite, kind, no danger to her), she'd be more responsive to OTC. Is that an errant assumption?
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12 years ago
@farmerart
I speak enough Russian to get by but not well enough that they don't laugh at my accent. I've made 35+ trips to Moscow since 1997. There is no "chit-chat" required. $300 will buy you a whole night in any orifice with a lady who looks like she's auditioning for the Dallas Cowboy cheerleaders or a Victoria Secrets catalog shoot. Back in 2000 you could do the same for $100.
Maybe I should organize a TUSCL "field trip" to Moscow. I guarantee you some guys would never come back.
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12 years ago
@stenton1
OK Coach. I'll buck the line again. She asked me to meet her at a different club tonight (regular club is closed Sundays). I think I'll grow a pair and just straight out ask her about OTC. Let you know if the trainers have to carry me out of the game later. ;-)
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12 years ago
@Dougster
Please . . . . I'm asking serious questions here and trying to foster serious discussion so I can learn something. Kindly do not crap up this thread by bringing your flame war with Dugan to this discussion. You have your own thread and the two of you can slug it out there to your hearts content. Just politely askin'
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12 years ago
@stenton1
Probably some fantasic advice there about moving on. Always been kind hard for me. As a salesman we never throw away qualified prospects. Once a girl whispers these words in my ear during a lapdance, "oh fuck me baby" I consider her a qualified prospect :-)
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12 years ago
@georgemicrodong
Not yet. Taking her to Applebee's would involve OTC contact. I've had zero OTC experience. That's why I'm asking the questions and soliciting suggestions.
For example, I had a dancer last night that I really kind of liked. I felt I was respectful (didn't try to shove my finger in her pussy during the first 2 dances) and that we had a nice 60 minute conversational exchange afterward in the smoking room. I went back for 5 more dances after the chat. All the dances were great. Plenty of nipple sucking, grinding, dirty talking. neck nibbling and quite a but of gear stick shifting if you catch my drift. I was really attracted to her physical appearance as well. I was building for the future.
Then I read reviews about the same club from guys who apparently have private dance experience with the same girl and they report that during the first song, she was so horny they basically had to beat her away with a pool cue to keep her from demanding that she have sex with them right on the spot. Are they lying or am I just completely clueless on how to conduct yourself in s strip bar?
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12 years ago
www.pornhub.com
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12 years ago
Sad part is, the girl is still swearing to me that she's never touched heroin in her life in spite of all the contrary evidence provided.
I'd agree 100%. In most cases stripping as a career widens the personality disorder cracks by huge proportions.
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12 years ago
What are those "common areas" georgmicrodong? Bend of the elbow? What others?
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12 years ago
Agree Alucard. Life is a learning experience. As usual, when "little head" starts taking over the thought process, bad decisions often result.
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12 years ago
Im with shadowcat. I use my real first name.
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12 years ago
My first internet fight on TUSCL. I expected it to happen sooner or later as I participate and even moderate other discussion groups and it always happens there are well. My advice, try not to take things too seriously. It's nothing but electrons floating in cyberspace.
We're here to help each other and learn a thing or two in the process.
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12 years ago
OK. Adding to my thread-starting post the following names:
Asia Carberra with long hair in her 1990's prime
Madelyn Marie
Paola Rey - for the Brazilian lovers
Jenna Haze - always a classic
Jennifer Stone
Cherokee
As for Playmates, hard to beat Playmate of the Year 1978 Debra Jo Fondren. If you haven't guessed, my fantasy is ladies with extremely long hair ;-)
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12 years ago
Dude, I was just in Charleston this weekend and found a really great club there. Try Jaguars at 2015 Pittsburgh Avenue. Ask for Craig Halford one of the Managers there. Tell him you are a friendof his friend in Dayton Ohio. He'll make sure you're taken care of properly. Ask for a dancer named "Heaven". Tell her the same thing. If she doesn't rock your world then you are just too picky to please!
I will agree that 1337 King is sub-par and Joe's is an absolute dump and should be removed from TUSCL.
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12 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
No, but I'm with you. Two-way body touching, grabbing, groping, hugging and body kissing with some appropriate friction is a huge turn on for me rather than senseless humping of her but on my crotch, or the girl attempting gymnastics to try to give me the best view of her cooter. The later often times is downright uncomfortable.
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12 years ago
Life is a learning experience. $150 is a cheap price to pay to learn a valuable lesson. I make too many stupid mistakes myself at strip bars to ridicule somebody else's mistake. Usually happens when the "little head" takes over the decision making process from the big head (brain). Chalk it up to a life lesson learned. She's not going to give you back her money. The bouncer did you a favor by giving you a free pass and advising you to back off. If she is Russian, as her stage name would indicate, trust me she knows people who can make life more difficult for you than you can for her.
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12 years ago
Interesting. The way you know you're going to score with a Russian babe is when she walks into your place, she asks if she can take a shower. If she asks you that, you KNOW its your lucky day.