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16 years ago
May *I* treat you to a complimentary drink?
Only use this approach if you see the customer's drink is getting low. If he asks why, then you make up a reason like he looks cute or interesting or well dressed or he looks like winner or etc. that fits him and then add well teasingly well I would expect a little conversation and company. Chat him up for a song or two and then say it is time for you to get back to work as you get up to leave and that he if wants anything else feel free to ask. And, then go. Hopefully, he will feel a sense of debt either immediately or at some later date or hour.
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16 years ago
Rolling Ball . . .
Dancer asks "So do you like women?" Hopefully the answer is YES. Dancer then slaps her forehead and while laughing says "Gee that was a really dumb question wasn't it?" Hopefully the answer is YES. Now in for the kill "You would like to get a dance wouldn't you?" Answer just has to be YES based on the concept of momentum. :)
A super pro gambling stripper related to me don't ever be surprised for what a person will fall for . . .
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16 years ago
Well, it is like I'm afraid of rats while snakes are nice. Meanwhile the neighbors are deathly afraid of snakes (repeatedly demanding I kill the snakes in my yard) and don't care about rats at all. Which fear is more rational? I assumed the fear of rats is due to disease, but I don't know. Now, when a snake tries to bite, that gives a pause to me.
Sports and permanent injury seems *far* more remote than getting an STD that gives endless suffering including the fear of spreading it to others. Still, I wouldn't be interested in mountain climbing or sky diving. Because of the moral issues for some people, I'm not very trusting of numbers regarding sex.
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16 years ago
Whiz or Whizz
5. intransitive verb offensive term: an offensive term meaning to urinate ( slang )
http://encarta.msn.com/encnet/features/dictionary/DictionaryResults.aspx?refid=1861713001
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16 years ago
Yes, I do and definitely prefer a simple wanna dance. I don't like the pressure (that I feel) when a dancer is hustling her butt off and she just isn't my type--personality counts for almost nothing if she isn't what I consider hot. One dancer fairly recently wouldn't leave even after 6 songs. Finally, I gave her a $5 which she seemed to appreciate and told her that she needed to get back to work and make some real money. Anyway, she hung on for another 4 songs and let me know that some of her best customers never buy a dance and all they want is for her to hang out with them. Fortunately, another customer came who she knew and off she went! :) I didn't mind her company at all except for the fact I felt guilty taking her time when she needed to be working. In fact, in the past she wasted time with me and I didn't tip her anything, but 6 songs seemed like a lot; not bad company, but I didn't want to buy her time or dances.
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16 years ago
Hi Bobbyl,
I don't know much about STDs despite doing research on the subject. Yes, I'm in panic mode because of pictures that I've seen in books and on the internet. And, I got to see what I believe were genital warts protruding out of a dancer's asshole which added an extra dose of fear. Very disgusting, imo, and she did her best to hide it. She was otherwise super attractive and extremely willing.
I've never experienced a cold sore on the lips, but I knew one man who had frequent outbreaks. He said he'd suffered with it since he was a young child and not only were the sores ugly, he said they were extremely painful. He went to different doctors and to them it was like well, cold sore aren't a big deal. He definitely disagreed, but for most people it is probably nothing.
It just amazes me that the men and women that I know don't seem to have any concern about STDs. A pharmacy buddy assured me these diseases are real and people do come in with prescriptions to treat the diseases.
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16 years ago
I usually smell like stale cigarettes after visiting a strip club. :( In fact, that is one of the turnoffs I've just learned to live. Furthermore, it seems like the hottest looking strippers like to smoke more than the fatties.
So my stereotype is that fatties are generally nicer and don't smell as much of cigarettes.
BTW, I should get a free pass on being harsh sounding towards fatties cause I'm regrettable overweight. Maybe I need to start smoking cigarettes. :)
Lastly, strip clubs may be gone by the time your boys are older. It wasn't that long ago that hookers--very hot, white and black--were pretty much allowed to work on Biscayne Blvd. Then the government started stealing motels and engaging in other criminalty all in the name of protecting the public or similar sounding shit.
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16 years ago
Well I admit it. I was too lazy. Anyway, I finally did the arduous task of cutting and pasting. A little shamed to say it was a workout. :(
Mary Ann is definitely hotter, imo. :)
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16 years ago
Sometimes that is very true MisterGuy and other times it is very far off the mark. With the right police officers a whole mess of laws just wont be enforced even with an admission as to the facts. Yeah, the normal laws involving "real" crimes still have razor teeth, but even there it is a very different perception. I'll be presumed innocent. :)
Even that being the case what I would like from this stinking vile government is the absolute right to a jury trial and all an black jury is fine or an all latin jury is fine or an all women jury is fine. IOWs, it don't even need to be a jury of my peers if'n it be a civil case. ;) Better yet just abolish the court system completely.
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16 years ago
I was in the process of preparing to move. Yes, maybe from the frying pan into the fire. Got my government passport which I was loath and loathe to do--I don't like national identification even a little bit. Destination? Haiti. :) Does sound fairly crazy, but my long time neighbors are from Haiti and they think I'd be much happier there (they're in the U.S. solely for the $ they say). I also met a boat captain who was born and raised in America and he was fairly conservative in that he liked to be left alone. Anyway, he married a Haitian woman years earlier and spent most of his time in Haiti. For his needs, Haiti was a better fit. He wanted a family and more traditional values i.e. the government off his back and that is what he claims he found. It depends on what your needs are. A few months ago I helped a Haitian born man purchase a ticket back to Haiti. He says if I wanted modern conveniences or shopping malls or roads forget Haiti. He had lived for in the U.S. legally for over 6 years and he said he was much happier in Haiti, ***BUT his wife strongly prefers the U.S.*** so their marriage is over he says unless she is willing to join him in Haiti.
So how is that for travelling to find a better deal? :)
Actually, my health is very weak at times and I think leaving is probably a pipe dream. And, I've lived almost my entire life in one tiny area (mainly Miami).
Also, one of the main values to me of the strip clubs is getting to know the same women over a fairly long period of time. Well, the dancers from Angels are generally going to work at the nearby black clubs. The ones hot enough to work at Tootsies have told me they always get the REJECT stamp so they're forced to deal with expensive jerks (the clubs fees to work can be in the stratosphere; supposedly much more than Tootsies)---thanks to the government the clubs are free to screw the dancers and customers.
Other than leaving and that might be brain dead, I just don't see a real solution. My rights in this country are basically zero. I was denied a jury trial with the judicially invented scam of "summary judgement." Is this country better than elsewhere? Could definitely be. I think this is a very wealthy country so that is a strong positive--it is also a prison state and I happen to detest prison states. Anyway, I hope to be able to leave, but that takes health and money both are in short supply for me.
Anyway, I hope that this post hasn't offended you.
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16 years ago
Mary Ann in a landslide. Wouldn't even be interested in Ginger----personality or looks. Mary Ann has the looks and personality.
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16 years ago
Can You Help Me Win A Bet?
The dancer will chat you up a bit and then "confess" that she needs your help in winning a bet with another dancer. Her challenge is to do a dance for you. She'll promise to give a wonderful dance and since it is a favor to help her win the bet of course there will be NO CHARGE whatsoever. Usually, the dance will be nice to excellent and again there is NO pressure to get money out of you. Money won't be refused, but her main focus will appear to be winning the bet and thanking you for your help and understanding.
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16 years ago
Pro-active Reject:
You probably don't want a dance right now, but is it ok is I sit with you a little while? I really dislike sitting by all by myself and the other dancers can get to be same old after awhile. After chatting, she will then say well let me get back to work, but it was nice to chat with you and any time you might like to try a dance with me would be wonderful. I hope you an excellent time. Again the emphasis is on NO pressure while at the same time letting you get to know her a little.
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16 years ago
No Pressure Offer:
She'll sit down and chat you up with smiles and eye contact. Then she will get up and say it was nice meeting you with a request that if you would like to get a dance please consider her when you're ready. Then she'll wish you a good time and walk away without leaving any sense of you're being pressured into making a purchase.
(My favorite is the simple wanna dance? Yes, strip club customers have different needs.)
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16 years ago
Hi CarolinaWanderer,
I'm glad that I'm not pissing you off! :) Sometimes I think I get a little too out there: I get caught up in a convoluted story line (with long words), get into a stupid pissing match, take a position that is culturally extreme, or act too harsh.
Thank you for the advice, but I don't believe in the ignore (might be wrong on that count, btw.) My feeling on this as best as I can express it is the "rose colored glasses" syndrum (sp?) and my loathing for it. A very happy friend (a pleasure to be around) took the unusual step for him of complaining about my unhappy perspective and state. I say you don't see all the misery and corruption? He surprised me greatly by going down the list in rapid fire; neat and concise. And, then adds that he has a brain and he has eyes and ears, but there is nothing he can really do to change the game in a meaningful manner and he wouldn't want to live his life trying. His solution for himself and *me* was just don the rose colored glasses or if necessary use as much drugs as necessary---just be happy regardless of the costs. Even if he was 100% correct, it just depressed me even more. :(
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16 years ago
NO!!! But, most of the guys and girls I know definitely would.
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16 years ago
For me it isn't part of the addiction. It is value. If the club actually doesn't want my business for whatever reason, then I will definitely go elsewhere (actually I wouldn't really have much real choice).
What is the alternative? At this point Coco's just down the road offers the next best value and has been PACKED!!! (PACKED is why I haven't been going there, btw.) The government has shut them a few times in the recent past and a new shut down could easily happen today--it's just part of the game. BTW, Tootsies despite the excellent reviews is a garbage club for my needs in that they're way out of my budget with short songs and a minimum dance price of $25 and a lack of black dancers. And, NO this isn't the free market at work even a little bit. I've seen the free market work and it is FANTASTIC (at least as far as strip clubs). The government, no if ands or buts is the problem unless you're one of these nuts that believes government should be your master.
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16 years ago
Hi quimby,
Well a few things to consider:
1. The dancer said the DJ wasn't normally like that.
2. The bartender probably recognized that I was agitated after witnessing the dancer screaming and the DJ threatening her. Nothing wrong with asking if I wanted a drink, but once I politely declined she should have at the very least waited until the storm had passed. Instead she decides to claim that because I'm white it was upsetting the other customers. Oh btw, 2 dancers including the original one told me that it wasn't normal for the bartender to get aggressive over drinks UNLESS the customer wasn't spending. If a customer buys even 1 dance, then he is supposed to be treated well according to the dancers.
3. It seems almost by design. The DJ was really going out of his way to make a show and the dancer said he wasn't normally like that. Next the bartender looks to push my buttons? (Too coincidental, imho.) I was expecting and *waiting* for more than a show down with "security" in the form of a tough dancer. Actually, I was surprised they couldn't find someone to play the part of "security" (they definitely do have security, btw, I just wanted to see who was involved).
4. Management may have already decided that whites aren't wanted or if neutral may be disgusted by me not standing up for myself (if I went running to management) to a woman bartender and a noisy DJ who didn't even have the gumption to spit at me hisself.
5. It isn't like there is a "free market" in strip clubs. I'm not allowed to just open my dream strip club across the street. Therefore, the strip club has a very strong hand if it offers value. RolLexx offers me a lot of value: 1. hot dancers (some from Angels, which is a definite bonus) and 2.cheap prices and 3. high mileage and 4. good location. The bottom line is that white customers may be seen as a negative at the top of the club so that the whole point is they may not want my business. It is just a question of pushing me hard enough so that I'll take the hint. Or, it might just be the DJ and bartender. BTW, if there was a free market in strip clubs, then I think they should be free to discriminate against customers for any reason they so desire.
6. Angels is under government attack/heavy pressure and the owner has made moves to slow the club. It has been too effective, imho. Remember the government was able to shut one club after another along W. Dixie Hwy--there is a history here. ***Angels is the last survivor of cornucopia of clubs.*** With the successful government attacks the choice of clubs available is nothing like it was. Each little club had its unique culture. You're not wanted at Angels? In the past you had a bunch of other little clubs to choose from nearby. Customers could find clubs that wanted their business and offered the right value. I would like a quiet slow little cheap club; under the current government framework that is no longer available.
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16 years ago
Yikes, that is a good question, imho. A little too deep for me at the moment.
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16 years ago
Hi MisterGuy,
Yes, you pretty much proved my point. Why would I heed "Earth to jablake" if simple analogies leave you mocking and or blank? It is very possible you actually believe one man's terrorist is another man's terrorist. If that is the case it wouldn't make a dimes worth of difference even if I thought you were a brainiac because that is just too stupid, imo, so there isn't much point getting too concise or clear or caring. Better to just have a little fun and work on using some more sesquipedalians. :)
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16 years ago
Don't worry there has been an absolute run on the word mereticulate. I'm 100% confident that assuming it isn't already securely listed in the complete OED that within the next 3 - 5 years it will be. :) You know how it is? Words can supposedly die and then spring back to life like in a terminator movie; yeah they might have a slightly different spelling or meaning, but they're still terminator. :)
Heaven forbid TheFreeDictionary doesn't have every word in the English language!
Yes, I agree with you about The Miami Herald. Exceedingly low standards.
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16 years ago
Alcohol isn't addictive to everyone. Not by a long shot. It is like if the nit wit government propagandizes that peanuts (collective noun) is deadly. Yes, sure they might be deadly to a certain portion of the population, but it ain't a general truth.
I got what may be real shocking news for you MisterGuy. Cocaine ain't addictive to everyone. Alcohol ain't addictive to everyone. Some of the "best" drugs are just boring for one person while another is not only addicted but they have a freaking orgasm over a drug that is imo about as exciting as taking a shit. Is gambling addictive? To *some* people. It sure as hell don't get my dick up even a little bit. Are hot girls addictive? YES, that is an absolute truth. You kiss a hot girl and I don't give a fuck who you are. YOU will be addicted. How do I know this absolute truth? I've experienced it first hand. You deny this absolute proof and you know what that makes you? An addict in denial. Only an addict will deny the truth of addiction.
O and you know why men pay for prostitutes? Don't be stupid and say for sex. The absolute truth is that all men pay for sex in order to oppress women. That is the absolute truth and if you want to get out of one of governments' "education" camps you better learn that idiocy and quick.
You do know what drug abuse is right? It is whatever the stinking goverment says it is. O no. Heaven forbid I'm "raging against the machine." :) I had a doctor tell me alcohol is addictive, no if ands or buts. I asked if he drank. He says sure. I say and you have to fight those urges to drink more and more right? It is just sooooo addictive. He looks shocked and says No, he can take it or leave it. I say, yeah but you're the exception; everyone is just clamoring for a drink, right? Suddenly he work up. I have a good portion of my family on my mother's side that is definitely addicted. They're the minority. Not as extreme as the peanut minority (which is supposedly becoming more common), but a minority nonetheless. I drank, and drank, and drank, and nothing. No cravings for alcohol. Nothing. I don't understand why they loved alcohol. I very much wanted to. Alcohol is a big nothing. I crave chocolate 100 times more than alcohol and supposedly chocolate isn't addictive. Isn't addictive to who?
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16 years ago
Hi MisterGuy,
Who has the idea that the use of "big words" is a sign of real intelligence and/or thoughtful argument? The reverse could definitely be true. Exhibit A in my opinion would be the U.S. Supreme Court or even the legislatures. I do say I loved the word prenumbra, however. I think that was the word, but heck me spelling or memory may b off.
My humble opinion is that highly developed language skills are mainly tools of fraud and force. Now, I may be dead wrong in that opinion. And, it really don't make a damn bit o difference. The solution really isn't to whimper about the big words, imo. The solution is to learn about the big words and dishonest arguments. For anyone to be impressed by a Bork is in my opinion disgusting---yes, yes, I could be wrong. What was it that he was complaining about loss of freedom for slave owners if they couldn't own slaves? Do you remember that or is my memory that far off. Or, maybe I just misunderstood.
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16 years ago
word (wûrd)
n.
1. A sound or a combination of sounds, or its representation in writing or printing, that symbolizes and communicates a meaning and may consist of a single morpheme or of a combination of morphemes.
http://www.thefreedictionary.com/word
One of definition from the "machine." LOL! New words are created all the time. And, the dictionary may lag for years before it even discovers the new word. Some times the word wouldn't even appear in a dictionary if it was considered "obscene." With the thought police running rampant, I wonder if "racist" words can appear freely all over the world. Oops!!! Not in a "real" dictionary thus the racist or obscene words aren't "real" words according to the all knowing authoritarian MisterGuy. :)
Tell you what. President Clinton or some authority figure uses mereticulate and boy I's bet you be jumping on de bandwagon lickey split! You impressed by sports heroes? Maybe I can slip a $5 to one of them to use the term mereticulate and then presto in your mind it may magically morph into a so called "real" word. :)
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16 years ago
Well, in this instance the "machine" agrees with me. There is no requirement according the "machine" that a "real" word be listed in a dictionary. :) I mean you make this nonsense up. Truly. My neologism that was used in The Miami Herald sure as hell wasn't listed in any dictionary and it is doubtful it ever will be; but you never know! :) It was a damn good word for the situation and conflict of the moment. Now somewhere you invented some nonsense that a "real" word has to be listed in a dictionary! Absurd. Totally, 100% absurd. And, the "machine" doesn't even pretend to claim ownership of "real" words.