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2 years ago
Had dinner with a dancer last night. She's in the kitchen making us breakfast. It is after 12, maybe brunch is the better term.
We discussed where we would be going for dinner and drinks. She dressed appropriately. Sometimes "...dressed like a pole dancing whore" is appropriate. Last night it was not.
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2 years ago
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rickduganVerified and Certifiable Super-Reviewer
@Bharlem - awesome. I have no problem acknowledging who I am and what we are doing. Some of the ladies care. I see no harm in accommodating them.
maybe someday our paths will cross.
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2 years ago
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rickduganVerified and Certifiable Super-Reviewer
trying to get this back on track
meeting a dancer for dinner, show and then back to my place tonight. all so she can say she is my date. Hotels make her feel like a whore, taking money for sex does not
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2 years ago
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rickduganVerified and Certifiable Super-Reviewer
"Anyone else deal with this routinely with OTC girls?" - yes. more often than not in my decades of this hobby.
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2 years ago
"I wish there was some way to "pin" a thread to the top. That way I could remember to check this every day." - a recurring appointment or series of tasks on your phone's calendar?
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2 years ago
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MaxMaximaSeeking spinners without inhibitions
would a passport card be an option
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2 years ago
you need to go to the correct counter. not all counters do the interview. i went to the wrong counter. had to go wait in a different line. You need to bring proof of address. License should be fine. Answer a few questions and done. five to fifteen minutes depending on your answers, their mood and if you are in another program like TSA pre.
when i traveled in august, only participating international airports provided the interview on return.
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2 years ago
i've posted this one before.
One of the hotels i use for otc sessions has a bar. The bartender saw me with different young women, all dancers meeting me otc. Sometimes one, sometimes two. she started conversations with a couple of them. one night she asked my companion if she could join in. it sounded like fun. she was college student, and the extra money would be good. She wanted to go out on dates without the hassle of dating.
she came up to our room after work. that was a great night. not long after that she started dancing. More money, less time away from her studies.
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2 years ago
"Everyone getting caught up in another cacaplop thread lulz" neon has been around a while and we've chatted about some local dancers, bars and this topic before, here and on another board. He is legit.
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2 years ago
"I would of over overpaid her for the get together" did you tell her what you would pay? She might have assumed you weren't going to pay her for her time OTC
"She even hinted she would be open to going to my place or a hotel from more stuff." why leave it at a hint? that was the time to clarify what she meant and make her a solid offer.
i think we chatted about some of this years ago. am i recalling correctly?
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2 years ago
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MaxMaximaSeeking spinners without inhibitions
I'll cross a few off your list.
XXXV is closed down. Even when open, it was expensive IMO. Formerly Lust but now back to being called the Den is near by. I've not been in since the name change back to the Den. Rumor is this place is no low mileage.
GGR. high mileage dances, no dollar parade but nothing like follies.
DD Manville might be an option. Raritan valley line to Bridgewater, uber under five miles to DD manville. i've not been there enough to say when you can expect Latinas
PH would likely work but it would be a bitch of a commute. NJ transit Northeast corridor line or amtrak to Trenton, River line light rail to burlington, uber to PH. 2.5 to over 3 hours each way.
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2 years ago
"Is the stage still enclosed by plexiglass?" - No
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2 years ago
"@K I thought I was the only one with a Filipina fetish." That explains why you were surprised she is so popular. No, you are not. It is common.
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2 years ago
"How can Ashley be so popular in a club that is legit " - many guys have a fetish for Filipina dancers. She gives as good of a dance as she can without doing extras. No BS of talking your ear off instead of dancing.
Check the schedule and go get a dance.
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2 years ago
option one. Ask her. get an accurate answer and act on it.
option two. Ask a bunch of guys i've never met and be in the exact same situation of not knowing what to do.
My advice, option 2
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2 years ago
That is hard to say with Ashley. She sometimes has customers waiting at the door when they open. Go right to the DJ booth and tell him you want a dance with Ashley. He'll give you a number and wait to be called. if you go early, let's say between 4 and 5, you have a chance of no wait to maybe an hour.
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2 years ago
they finally updated IG
https://www.instagram.com/p/Cgh0P-wpECP/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link
she should be there tonight.
That's Phoenix picture in Today's IG post
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2 years ago
"@K I am off to GGR. Any idea what days Ashley works?" - they suck at keeping the schedule up to date.
Here is part of the weekly email. if accurate, she is there tonight and tomorrow.
W7/27 Leana, Camilla, Jennifer, Mya, Monica, Adriana, Bebe, Savannah, Phoenix, Ashley, Gaia, Nyla, Jordan, Olivia
T7/28 Yasmine, Leana, Camilla, Jennifer, Grace, Jane, Bebe, Stephanie, Alexa, Ashley, Gaia, CC, Dream, Diamond, Lucy, Valentina
They usually update IG with the schedule every day
https://www.instagram.com/thegogorama/
Call the hotline for who showed up. Typically updated about 330 PM but again, they suck at this so sometime sit never gets updated. I don't think there are any pictures of Ashley on the IG site. She is short. Thin. A cups. Usually has several people waiting for her
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2 years ago
Ashley at GGR is Filipina
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2 years ago
"Desert Scrub still sucks donkey dick" We all need a hobby, and no one is getting hurt
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2 years ago
"Place seemed to be swarming with attractive dancers." seriously?
"it's roomy and nicely appointed on the inside." - no it isn't
" Somebody is tracking the time, which seemed to be unrelated to the starting and ending of songs. " - true. they use a timer. amazing concept every club should do.
"Big bar with all the accoutrements of a full-service bar, even though it doesn't serve alcohol." what accoutrements?
"Place is a bit off the beaten path" it is on route 130 a few miles off the NJ turnpike. it is ON the beaten path.
new account with one review. Maybe scrub got this one right. Stopped clock ...
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2 years ago
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rickduganVerified and Certifiable Super-Reviewer
calls for their schedule and parties.
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2 years ago
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rickduganVerified and Certifiable Super-Reviewer
it wasn't an everyday thing, but it happened often in the 80s. the first few times I assumed it was a way for them to set up OTC. No. The women doing it thought they woudl get legitamate
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2 years ago
"just new here " your join date is 2012. You are not new here.
your only contribution was a single review a decade ago.
Your first post after a decade of nothing is asking for info on extras.
build some credibility first. Go to a few clubs, post reviews. Comment on other reviews. participate in some discussions.
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2 years ago
if only there was a site with reviews of clubs. Does anyone know of any such websites?