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17 years ago
Maybe some dancers need to learn how to seduce instead of argue.
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17 years ago
Out of hundreds of dancers, only 2 that I remember argued with me about it longer than 10 to 15 minutes. After 10 minutes of arguing, I'm wondering where I can go to get away. That's not the reason I go to strip clubs.
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17 years ago
By the way, arguing with a customer for 10 to 15 minutes certainly doesn't get one in the mood to get a lap dance from the girl you're arguing with. Unless you're a bit stranger than me. I was ready to walk away from her by that time since she wasn't leaving. I did that by tipping someone else. Meanwhile if she had just been nice or even a bit more seductive and left and come back later, I might have agreed. Not even getting a chance to see her on stage and she's all covered up in an evening gown doesn't let a guy get much idea of how she looks. Well I had one idea but I was nice and didn't say anything since I really hadn't seen her naked. Kind of like the way you feel about dancers sneaking up from behind you and then without even seeing them at all, they ask right in your face "wanna dance?" I'll always say no to that if I never saw them before.
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17 years ago
Being a customer who said no I can give a slightly different scenario than the one FONDL described more from a dancer point of view. I almost didn't even go out to any strip club. Recovering from an illness and finishing up some medicine so I couldn't relax as much by drinking anything. Just arrived at a club since I decided that would be bettere than staying home. A dancer whom I never saw before and wasn't up on stage when I got there sat beside me. From my personal experience lap dances were way overpriced at the club costing $40 with no touching what so ever allowed. I always like to watch the dancers for a while to start with anyway even on most nights. I told her no thanks. She kept going on arguing with me instead of leaving or changing the subject. From there, things went downhill.
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17 years ago
I thought briefly about this. I enjoyed a lot of dancers. If I had to do it over again, I would rather spend it on the dancers again rather than save a little bit extra hoping the value of my investments goes up. Watching dancers is a lot more fun than looking at statistics or charts of stocks. Especially this past weekend when I got to a club early and the dancers surrounded me. Nice.
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17 years ago
I thought the site was down this evening. Couldn't even get to a log in screen. It's still very slow and it's after midnight.
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17 years ago
Sounds like shadowcat is da man. He didn't need beaver traps, he used his bare hands. Glad to hear you're hunting trip went well.
It sounds like you found plenty of beaver eager to eat some of the green leafy stuff you brought.
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17 years ago
harry, it was mainly with one dancer and perhaps the first one I saw outside the club that I had all the misunderstandings with. Well I did eventually have some issues with other strippers but at least I didn't have as many issues. I guess her boyfriend had issues with her too. He got her pregnant and then left her. I was curious about the time frame when she got pregnant. I think she called me up and suddenly wanted me to go visit her and maybe see a movie with her with no strings attached about the same time she must have gotten pregnant. I declined her invitation that night. She lived two hours away and that didn't work for me on a week night. She was wondering why I was saying no thanks. hmmm, someone better with math, 2 hours there, 2 hour movie, 2hrs back, already 8 PM and I have to get up at 7AM, doesn't count time spent talking to her. I didn't bother trying to explain if she didn't have enough sense to figure it out already. I was wondering if she had something else in mind but for some reason, I believed her when she asked if I wanted to go see one of the Batman movies. hmmm, maybe she had just broken up with her boyfriend. She never told me she had a boyfriend until later when she decided to tell me she was pregnant and that he left her. Sounds the life of a stripper doesn't it? I got a new job and left for another state before she was due. I had been job hunting long before.
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17 years ago
I did have a bouncer warn me. I didn't understand the warning or thought it was not true or something a dancer said to a bouncer because I didn't get out of my chair, walk up to the stage and tip a particular dancer so she made up something and told a bouncer that. I got warned by a bouncer while I was sitting at the very back of a club. Talk about saying something at the wrong time. It only ticked me off and I left the club to complain about it. I did return after 4 to 6 months. It was bullshit a bouncer made up to make him feel like a big man at my expense. Claimed I was leaning over the stage and he would have kicked me out for that. Meanwhile one dancer almost put her legs up over my shoulders and he wanted to complain about me leaning. I had enough and left. I thought maybe for good but I did return.
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17 years ago
I'm usually not too thrilled about this and usually turn down two dancers at the same time due to the higher cost in other clubs. I believe one of my favorites and then one of her friends wanted to do it with me at my regular favorites lap dance price. I remember it was fun but it's been a while. The only part I really remember now after a couple of years was the unusual 3 way kissing we did after the lap dance was over with. Kissing two dancers on the tongue and lips at the same time is something I really haven't done too much.
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17 years ago
I don't like dressing up that much so I picked a simple name. If I could just wear a dark colored t-shirt and shorts to all the clubs I visit I would except some may have a dress code requiring a shirt with a collar on it. They probably would make an exception due to temperatures in the 100's right now though during the afternoons. I don't remember a summer this hot in a long time.
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17 years ago
Not too sound too cheap, there are a few dancers I may tip a dollar on multiple stages sometimes twice on the same stage. I like to let them work for their money especially if the stage is pretty empty. A bit of bump and grind at the stage helps to get a tip from me.
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17 years ago
I might be willing to pay more to one or two dancers if I didn't have so many to choose from or had trouble spending my money. As it is, I just say no thanks to a vast majority of dancers and end up spending most of my limited funds on favorites who stick to the same price.
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17 years ago
I have on a couple of occasions given a dancer two dollars for a stage tip but that was mainly because she spent almost the whole time on stage dancing in front of me. The cheapest tip I ever gave was a Cheeto. The dancer requested it as her tip. I think I tipped her again with another Cheeto a couple of minutes after that one. Too bad that club stopped giving away snack food. I seem to often give a one dollar tip to the bathroom attendent if a club has one. I heard one bathroom attendent say one guy wanted to leave a tip but only had 100 dollar bills in his pocket. The guy said he could give change and break it. The bathroom attendent said that was the biggest tip he ever got.
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17 years ago
I thought Tiping was a city in China. Lol, just joking.
I rarely tip dancers anything extra for a lap dance. If they do ask for more and I pay it or some of it, I usually don't ever get another dance from them. Some dancers ask for too much money to start with, if I agree to get a dance from them, I consider their tip already included in the dance price. I do occasionally tip the dancer on stage a dollar along with the waitress if she's bringing me beer.
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17 years ago
Another dancer didn't get fired, she quit a club I routinely visited for 2 or 3 months because she was ticked off at me. She wanted me to buy her something totally unrelated to getting dances. Maybe she was confused and mistook me being quiet when she said something about sugardaddy as accepting whatever she said. I was only quiet because I didn't have any clue what she was talking about. She was young and I was new to strip clubs so misunderstandings were bound to happen.
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17 years ago
I'm getting clumsy, was going to delete part of my post, oh well.
I remember I used to be told "don't do anything I wouldn't do, and if you do, don't get caught."
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17 years ago
I haven't seen a dancer get fired in several years. It was clubs I used to visit in NC many years ago. Maybe the dancers weren't fired but suspended, I just know they were immediately in street clothes after doing something no other dancer did. I have only seen two dancers so far show their pussy to me and everyone else on stage in a topless club. Maybe the manager thought they were asking for it. Maybe ALE was there and the manager wanted to be strict. Maybe the dancer decided to quit. Same result. A third dancer didn't get fired so to speak, she quit. That was a dancer that mysteriously wanted me to stay into the late hours on a weeknight and she wanted to leave with me. I had already been hanging out with her on the weekends. The manager told her if she left early, that was it, she was fired. She got mad and left 30 minutes before closing at 1:30AM. I heard her say she's worked there for 2 years and this is how she gets treated. I had probably told her every hour for the last 4 hours that I wanted to leave. She kept talking me into staying longer. Once again a dancer had made plans that involved me but didn't tell me what she had in mind. I was a little bit tired at work the next morning.
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17 years ago
I usually don't try to meet the manager of a club. I guess if I wanted something to change, I could make suggestions. I did talk to one manager before about an issue and he thanked me. When a manager is friendly with you along with the bouncers, it is nice but doesn't seem as anonymous. I have wondered if I'm really anonymous anymore though.
Lol, I met the manager's son once at PP in Greenville. The music was so loud that I couldn't understand a word he was shouting. Finally he asked me if I spoke English. He was passing out tickets to something. I wasn't paying attention to him at first. Then he wasn't speaking loud enough since my hearing had gone partially deaf already that night. I didn't have any desire to speak (or shout) to him any longer. Learn from this site? I'm wondering if they even heard about it.
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17 years ago
Most girls fake orgasms at some time. Strippers often lie in strip clubs. Using logic, it seems logical that strippers would use fake noises if she thinks that turns on a customer.
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17 years ago
I really don't care about a dancer moaning or breathing heavy during a lap dance. I just hope she's trying to please me since that is what I'm paying her for. Of course if I enjoy her dance and she is too so much that she wants to do another for free, I'm all for that.
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17 years ago
I usually can't tell anything. However I do remember one dancer acting a bit strange making some faint noises during the lap dances. Another dancer even asked her if she was ok and she just said a quick yes. Then instead of asking for another dance she kept going for a third dance no charge. I thought she might be enjoying the dance. She was doing a lot of grinding in one spot but I felt good too. Most of the loud moaning I've heard wasn't during a lap dance but dancers playing around while talking to me. It does get other people to look at her when a dancer suddenly starts making a loud moaning sound while you're talking to her sitting at your table.
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17 years ago
To explain the above, on 3 different occasions in topless clubs, dancers showed me everything on stage to me and 2 or 3 other tippers and everyone watching. Out the door they went shortly afterwards. It wasn't like a dancer was giving me a BBBJ or anything like that.
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17 years ago
I've seen a number of dancers get fired for something they did when I was around. However I haven't been kicked out. Knocking on wood now. It wasn't my fault, it was something they wanted to do every time.
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17 years ago
I think the movie Transformers had a line "never give your credit card to a woman". If it wasn't in that movie, it was in another. There were a couple of times when I got talked into letting a dancer I knew outside the clubs into driving my car. They liked the car I had at that time. They didn't leave my sight but letting a dancer drive your car requires some trust along with some personal information on their behalf. In hind site, I probably should have bargained some kind of deal out of it. Hopefully I won't be in that situation again. That feels like real risk taking even if you know the dancers name and you're at her house and know that she has a car that she drives ok. I don't remember how I got talked into that. Twice by two different dancers on two different occasions. I think it did 0 to 60 in about 7 or 8 seconds. I don't remember but my brother was in the car with me and he did the timing. I didn't do anything special to the car to try to improve that. I liked that car so letting an unknown driver take over seemed risky. I never did take it to a race track like someone suggested. My risk limit is over when you have to sign an insurance waiver so you're out of luck if the engine blows or any other problem.