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3 years ago
"If you care about her ask her what's going on."
It sounds like that happened already.
Thanks to the op for sharing his story. Being frustrated is a natural thing if what you're getting isn't what you're looking for. The basic choices are to change the expectations, change the approach, or change the situation by moving on. To me the key is asking yourself if you're enjoying ITC time with her anymore.
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3 years ago
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loperjust looking for a little human contact along the way
Yeah, still can't think of one. I'm sure I've met one but none that jump out. Some guys have, so we've solved the mystery lol. Plus dancers don't always pick their names, so there's stuff to get in the way of stage names being a tell for behavior.
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3 years ago
What counts as "large" for a minority population? Some of those "most dangerous" cities don't strike the ear like places known for that.
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3 years ago
"Overall I'd take these lists with a grain of salt"
It looks like a stats list, so you could have issues like presence of gangs that don't show up in the numbers they're crunching.
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3 years ago
What's the opposite? Where a gal gave up sandwiches and lost a whole person's worth of weight?
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3 years ago
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loperjust looking for a little human contact along the way
I'm trying to think of whether or not I've ever gotten a lapdance I liked from a dancer named princess. None come to mind.
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3 years ago
Yeah, a bunch of those safe "cities" are just suburbs. It depends on how you draw the map I suppose. Surprised at some of the dangerous places on the list.
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3 years ago
If they had been smart enough to allow gift card charges like any other self-respecting smut peddler they'd have a lot more revenue.
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3 years ago
As a customer, in most clubs for me the main difference between the day and night shift is the attention paid by management and staff to what's happening on the floor. Some clubs go from somebody running the club as the manager and maybe a door girl and bartender, possibly a waitress, to multiple managers, security, waitresses and backstabbing dancer beefs at night.
Eyeballs go up and wiggle room goes down, no matter what a dancer is up for in back. If the night crew doesn't care about extras so long as they get their cut, then it's game on. To me that's the biggest factor. Then you get into mom strippers vs baby free, whether you smell like the trash bin at a dog park and all the rest.
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3 years ago
Capisce in San Antonio isn't scanning ids.
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3 years ago
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TetradonI'll act nicer if you'll act smarter.
"I don’t want someone to see that I’m checking this site"
I turn the screen brightness down at the club and don't hold the phone in front of my face like I'm taking a selfie. Once you're off the main page with all the t&a the site could be anything from a distance. But I don't check it in front of a dancer. The only phone stuff I'll do are text messages if a girl is there unless I'm getting her info.
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3 years ago
"Was that the place that was literally movie theater seating and there were VIP rooms backstage?"
That was the one. I doubled down on the bad decisioning at MSC by agreeing to a two-girl VIP.
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3 years ago
My biggest letdown with Wild Zebra in San Antonio is everytime it reopens under a new name it's worst than before.
Probably the biggest club disappointment against my expectations in the US was Market Street Cinema in San Francisco. But I hit that club way after its prime and hadn't perfected my club routine yet. Learned a lot from that misadventure. To me that's different than being overrated, which is a whole nother story.
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3 years ago
The last time I chatted with a customer who wasn't a TUSCLer was when a dancer drug me outside for a smoke. Her stripper BFF was sitting outside with a dude and kept yelling over to us.
Finally we move over there and the dancers start talking. The BFF starts going on about how the customers are cheap and she hasn't made hardly any money. The guy is sitting right there lol!
I suppose it was wasn't really a chat. It was more like I look over and the dude has that "this shit is awkward" look on his face. I just shrugged. To make it even funnier we were waiting on a VIP room to open up and the other dancer said those two had just done one so it should be free.
So I'm guessing she'd just gotten whatever money that guy brought. I think the BFF was still angling for a double VIP with me, but she'd just finished with annoyed dude and told me earlier she'd been out for weeks with a weird body rash. She said it wasn't contagious and just looked bad, but umm...no.
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3 years ago
I misread theeastcoast757 as EastCoaster at first and was wondering WTF that dude was up to lol.
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3 years ago
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TetradonI'll act nicer if you'll act smarter.
"Why would you be on a website when you are surrounded by beautiful women who are getting naked?"
That's assuming two things are true. If it's an off shift with a handful of girls that's not being surrounded, and they may not all be beautiful lol. The other week in a travel town I sent a PM to a TUSCLer who was local. I asked for his thoughts on which clubs were decent options since I was sitting in a dead club. He offered suggestions based on day, time, and traffic.
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3 years ago
Mark94, you seem like a reasonable fellow. Where are you getting your information from about the capabilities of US Forces at HKIA?
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3 years ago
"To be clear, I've never gone to a club wanting to banter with other customers."
I don't think your post was unclear. Generally speaking, I didn't care before about talking with other customers and don't care now. I'm breathing the same air whether I'm talking with them or not. To look at one of your examples, if the place I'd like to sit happens to be near another customer I'm not going to avoid the spot. Now I'm not going to sit at a table with another dude unless we know each other, but I'm not going to complicate my experience just to avoid being near someone.
For instance the other day I walked into a club and it looked like a table had another customer at it, so I passed over the seat I wanted so the guy wouldn't feel crowded. The next available table wasn't in a spot I liked, then I noticed the customer was sitting at a corner table and the dancer had put her purse and shit on the table I wanted. So I walked back over and rearranged a couple of chairs and sat down. The tables were spaced funny because someone had pushed the table over, but once the other customer went and got his dances I moved it back and went on about my business.
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3 years ago
I keep my distance from other customers and staff so they don't get uncomfortable, but if they approach me I just go with it unless they seem out of sorts. I've already checked off on the risk by walking in the door.
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3 years ago
Welcome to TUSCL. Check your PMs.
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3 years ago
"I doubt you could afford to spend a week on me even at TJ prices"
This won't get you very far. Just keep it on topic.
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3 years ago
Nothing personal. Here's the link you asked for to the thread you started. https://tuscl.net/discussion.php?id=76814
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3 years ago
That escalated quickly. Didn't we just spend a week on ilbbaicnl trying to sort out why video in TJ clubs might a thing?