Comments by lexus300

I am older also and have been a regular at a number of clubs for many years now. I only recently joined this site but don't hold that against me.When I was in my 20's I worked at a club as a bartender and got to know quite a few of the dancers. Back then it was mostly girls whose bf's where in motorcycle gangs or girls who only liked girls.The women who danced did it for $ to buy drugs and for the most part were , obviously, not the type of girl you would bring home to mom, Today, things have changed and so have I-Ienjoy every second I spend in the clubs and I have met some wonderful and beautiful women.One girl asked me why I frequent her club and my response was simple and true. Where else can I go and have a beautiful 22 year old sit on my lap for such a reasonable rate? She has been my friend and more for the last 4 years.

I have been asked that question by a few dancers i.e. what if your daughter was a striper ( I have 2 )? My response is simple -I would be disappointed since I have spent/invested so much in their educations.

What is the pink site? Sorry if this is a novice question.

I agree with Yoda. In New Jersey whether a club is topless or not is governed by the ABC-if you serve liquor you cannot be a topless club or you run the risk of lpsing your license. If it is a juice bar or byob you can be or rather topless is tolerated. CD"s etc. seem to vary from town to town as to how much is allowed. The whole point of this is that it is not so much a conservative/liberal issue but rather how the local polticols are feeling the heat. If the press wants to make an issue of it then all of a sudden our hobby feels the heat. If the local polizza and politicols frequent the place( and this shockingly does occur) then all is well. Both liberals and conservatives are always fond of naked ladies dancing.

I would agree with you. FONDL-we gotta get a life !

Because 90% of us-I hope -are gentemen.

To RL - I think you need to calm down a bit. This is a hobby-a means of living out a fantasy-on occasion a true/real relationship can develop but the odds are against us. Take it for what it is-a brief respite from a very mundane existence. Enjoy the beautiful women that you meet and enjoy their conversation, if you come across one that has a bad attitude or whatever -just pass them by.

Damn girl--you summed it all up--great post and I mean great post--I have loved a few dancers and they told me they loved me--but Jeez if I had read this before, I would have been a smarter man. Thanks.

To FONDL--we have got to meet for lunch sometime ! I have read a lot of your posts over the last few months and I feel like I am reading my life story when it comes to this hobby. My ATF called me Easter night and (the usual) said she missed me -loved me--wanted to see me etc. She BTW has stopped dancing. Anyhow asked for my schedule the upcoming week and wanted to get together. Like an asshole I called several times with no call back--this has happened numeruos times over the last few months. I have lost patience and got some balls to tell her to f*** off but I am sooo weak when it comes to her that when she calls again I will probably accept any lame excuse.

To FONDL--Jersey