"Men" whose only reason for buying dances is to get a stripper's PHONE NUMBER

RL you have to remember exactly what type of person you are asking to act reasonable. You are asking a guy with apparently money to burn in a strip club with tits in his face who is enjoying a fantasy to spoil it by acting reasonable. I guess if the girls kept their clothes on, then the guys might act more reasonable. There have been studies done to confirm that men act irrational when exposed to objects or people that appear to excite them.

There may be some "men" in strip clubs HOPING to BUY FRIENDSHIP and AFFECTION. They may want sex as well but if all they want is sex, it may be more logical for them to simply ASK the stripper how much she charges for SEX and HAGGLE from that price than to spend MONEY on lap dances while HOPING for sex.

To RL - I think you need to calm down a bit. This is a hobby-a means of living out a fantasy-on occasion a true/real relationship can develop but the odds are against us. Take it for what it is-a brief respite from a very mundane existence. Enjoy the beautiful women that you meet and enjoy their conversation, if you come across one that has a bad attitude or whatever -just pass them by.

well,i wouldnt call it friendship,i,d call it more of them wanting to get laid(sorry,lets call a spade a spade,shall we?)ditto that using dances to outright proposition her to do "extras" outside the club..if thats your thing,then calling an escort would be an easier and wiser choice,i would think.