Why do some women (5 to 6 or below attractiveness) strip?

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Owlyoung_ggofv
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Long title.

Basically why do women at the attraction level of 6 or below dance at strip clubs? I know men have different preferences which can skew the results. Typically Most men can agree with a 1 to 8 score and 9 or above typically devolves into preference (skinny, big butt, breast size, etc.)

It goes without saying I don't understand why a person would waste their time if they have a borderline obese or fatter than average body type. I know BBW is a thing, but outside of social media how many men actually pay for that.

The pornstar Lacey Duvalle (before turning 40) was my interpretation of a 10. Still is for the most part.

Is there a pornstar that you consider a 9 or 10/10?

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rickthelion
2 months ago
Young owl, you need to write more focused questions if you wish to become a wise owl. Let this rick enlighten you by rephrasing your questions in a manner that makes them intelligible and then answering them with rickish brilliance:

Q: Why do unattractive women strip?
A: Because they need money for drugs.

Q: Why do some males spend time with borderline obese strippers?
A: Leaving aside the possibility that a particular male is an actual chubby-chaser (and they do exist) you have to account for the “alcohol factor”. Everybody is attractive when you’re in an alcoholic fog.

Q: Is there a pornstar you consider a 9 or 10?
A: ricks don’t watch pornstars. We do all sorts of demented drunken pervert shit with actual living females. ROAR!!!
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shailynn
2 months ago
I can’t tell you how many times I’ve walked into a club and that “6” is the hottest girl working.

One of my former ATFs was a 6. On the street as a “civilian” you wouldn’t even look twice at her, but in the club all done up she became a 7 IMO. She was a good conversationalist, reliable for OTC (never cancelled on me), her rates were very reasonable, she was amazing in bed, and we had fun together outside of the bedroom. Probably the least attractive of all my steady OTC partners in the past but if I could revive any of those old OTC relationships today she’d probably be the one I’d pick.
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Puddy Tat
2 months ago
Dancing or extras? If we're horny enough, we can close our eyes for any woman giving a BJ. Even for dancing, because someone is paying.

9-10 porn stars? Prime Ariel Alexus, maybe...
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Dolfan
2 months ago
Tastes/preferences are probably the #1 reason, by a long shot. The dancer you mention is probably barely a 7 my book, if we're talking my personal tastes she's a 6 at best. I wouldn't buy a $5 dance from her. I'm not trying to be judgemental or anything, you probably feel the same about the girls I call a 9. I don't think one of our preferences is better or more correct.

It may be somewhat related, but after that it's probably a combo of desperation and the fact that they can be successful. At some of the lower tier clubs, I see women in their 50's who are way below what I'd consider fucking even with beer goggles on. And I probably couldn't get a shot with them at the club if I wanted to, they've got devoted followers. I'm not sure if they're undercutting market prices or doing things other girls don't, but I can tell ya there's some fat/old/ugly bitches that are pulling in serious cash.

Age is gonna be my number three. I don't see that many truly ugly strippers. I see a lot of fat ones, which I chalk up to taste. And I see a lot of old ones, which I guess is taste too. But during day shift particularly, those older strippers tend to be popular with the older crowd. I can't speak to it and I'm sure there are guys here who can, but I notice a good bit of the 70+ yr old customers spending time with the 40+ yr old dancers. Maybe that comes back to taste again, but I can totally see how a 70 something may prefer a 40 something over a 20 something, even if I find the 40 something one unattractive.


As far as pornstars go, a Racquel Darrian in her prime is more my speed. I'm sure there's a more recent example but I never really remember those porn chicks names these days.
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Context21
2 months ago
@dolfan I’m younger and I happen to like older dancers, they suck and fuck better.
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shailynn
2 months ago
This is all relative- keep in mind.

Dolfans “6” in Miami metro is probably a “9” in a Midwest club. Better talent pull.

Also like Dolfan said, a lot of older divorced or widowed PLs will take an average looking stripper that’s an engaging conversationalist over a hot one that can’t string a sentence together. There’s a reason those older strippers are still working and having success and the main reason has nothing to do with their looks. They found a niche, something many of us look for our entire life while at work.

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motorhead
2 months ago
The one truth I’ve learned from years on TUSCL is the wide range in tastes of what men find attractive.

The “smash or pass threads” are a good example. Some of those women, you couldn’t pay ME to fuck them, and invariably someone will say she’s a “perfect 10”

So the women you rate as 5-6 could be an 8-10 in the eyes of others
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ilbbaicnl
2 months ago
+1 on Lacey Duvalle. But I have lots of porn favs, not really sure who I would say was #1.

I don't know why anyone would want pineapple or anchovies on their pizza.

In the US, the median hourly wage for women in their 20s is under $20 an hour. You have to deal with a lot of contempt when you strip. How willing/able you are to deal with that is a more significant filter than looks in determining who strips. If you're a bar fly anyway, why not be a stripper?
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Owlyoung_ggofv
2 months ago
@RicktheLion, in hindsight I should have had a simple opening and put the detailed question in the first line of the paragraph. Thanks.

@PuddyTat, I was not thinking about extras, just the normal business routine. For extras, the uglier crowd typically is more willing to put out. Depending on the club competition, they will put in more effort. I have met my best lays like that.

@Dolfan, The less attractive women provide a floor of quality. This is usually the hunting ground for extras because the 8 and above want to do the least work as possible. I still get caught up with the more attractive strippers (sometimes I'm just trying to get good dances). I notice a consistent pattern of pretty girls putting in less effort. I find the 5 to 7 range the most optimal for extras. My scale for tipping on stage and VIP sessions is higher, and I'm sure most casual strip club goes have certain expectations.

Age is a factor as well, it can be a hard sell because if your not into MILFs, then it's not really for you. And yes I have seen older gentlemen (60+) be generous with MILFs but at that age most people are younger than you .
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Dolfan
2 months ago
@Context, how young and how old? I can see guys in their 20's liking women in their 30's for that reason. But I don't see a lot of guys in their 30's or 40's being into chicks in their 40's or 50's, that's usually the realm of guys in their 60's and 70's.

Again, not being judgemental, it's perfectly fine if you're in your 20's and into chicks 20-30yrs older than you. But I think that's a small enough minority where there aren't enough of you to support many older strippers. While around here there's enough of a seniors market that I think a club could only admit 55 and over and only hire 40 and over. They could be open only 7am to 7pm or something. Hell, I might have just stumbled onto a winning business idea.
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Puddy Tat
2 months ago
^ It seems like a lot of "niche" strippers can make bank. Pregnant, lactating, "mature"... one man's trash is another man's treasure.

PS I'm in my mid 40s and I'd like a club with those hours.
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Dolfan
2 months ago
^ You're not allowed into my hypothetical club. You're too young. Don't feel bad, I'm not allowed in either.
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twentyfive
2 months ago
^ @Dolfan you just hit the motherlode, at the same time you made me laugh so hard I coughed up my Geritol.
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Context21
2 months ago
@dolfan I’m just under 40 and the cut off age for me is right around 50.
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Icey
2 months ago
Looks are subjective.

Who is more apt to allow themselves to be sexually exploited depends more on circumstance and desperation than anything.

As far as pornstars go. I don't keep up enough with them to be able to talk about them much.

The way I rate dancers. Personality can make anyone ugly real quick. At the same time, im not going to spend money on one I dont find physically attractive. I guess its why i havent had luck at clubs for a while. Most of the strippers here act like hardened hookers or live by City Girl lyrics
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Owlyoung_ggofv
2 months ago
@Icey, I agree with the "circumstance and desperation" reasoning.

The best sex I have had are the ones who proposition sex to me (unless I've had bad experiences in the past) or the ones who agree quickly when asked. Internally, I know dancers only sleep with guys when bills or obligations are due.

It may not just be you Icey, typically the hotter dancers intentionally make themselves exclusive to all but guaranteed money PL. I would rather have nice 6 or 7 than a ROB 9 that has no intention on delivering promises.
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skibum609
2 months ago
I was at a club chatting with a dude who was younger than me as it turns out but looked my age. He was amazed I was spending time with a 19-year-old. His choice was 40. His reasoning? At 57 she was in his dating "wheelhouse" so women closer to him in age made it more "real" for him. His exact question? What the fuck would you have in common with a kid? My response? "She has a sexy naked body. I have a hard on and money. Thats a lot in common imo." We're all different. We all want different things.
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Hank Moody
2 months ago
We often have to recover old ground on this board. This is one of those times to be reminded that strip clubs are a job for strippers. Why is she there? She’s working. What is she doing making money.

It’s as simple as that. It doesn’t matter if you like her. Not every girl can be the hottest girl in the club. Someone is tipping her enough so that she doesn’t quit. If she’s not making money she will have to quit. It’s not difficult.
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Icey
2 months ago
Owlyoung_ggofv

I dont go to clubs looking for extras. But from what I see. Its almost always girls needing drug money.

But I think men prefer women who arent 10s. Theres a difference between attractive and beautiful. And a part of attraction is attainability.
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gammanu95
2 months ago
The question is not "why do fat, ugly, grossly unattractive women work as strippers?" The question is "Why do they get hired to work as strippers?"
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shadowcat
2 months ago
^ Most do not get hired. They are independent contractors and club owners let them work there for a fee.
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Owlyoung_ggofv
2 months ago
@ Shadowcat, that does explain a lot. My only concern is that technically a manager would want to hire for a few reasons:

1. Quality Control, this matters more at more prominent clubs than others.

2. Legal Protection, To make sure they aren't a murderer or thief to the business (ROB behavior to patrons not withstanding)

3. Age Rules and other County restrictions, This is entirely dependent on the state or country if a license is required to do the job.
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Owlyoung_ggofv
2 months ago
@ Icey, I can believe that type of psychology. If a woman looks like the type of high school crushes I had, I will make a concentrated effort to spend time with her.

One of the reasons I prefer urban clubs is because most of the women are attainable. I once spoke to a dancer from the Midwest who said that in many counties, you have women with professional jobs who dance out of state for extra income or sugaring. Its a contrast to poorer counties where most of women stripping are as you say "desperate for money".
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blahblahblahs
2 months ago
Two separate questions, but for #1, they are stripping because they think it is the best option for them. As to how they are making money, it could be because they provide a better service than other dancers. That could be conversation, extras, pushing drugs, a more naughty stage show, etc. Perhaps they have hooked regulars from earlier in their career.

With regards to ratings, we definitely don't all agree. Importantly, I think not only do we have different preferences, but we are inconsistent in how we give our ratings. Some of you think of 9s as the top 10%, and some of us grade on a log scale (like how earthquakes are scored) and would only consider 1 in 100,000 girls to be 9s. We also center our scales in different places. This is why I always try to explain my tastes in the Dancers section of my reviews as well as breakdowns/counts of how many girls I find very hot, somewhat hot, and not at all hot.
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chiefwiggum
2 months ago
I like to think I'm pretty objective in my ratings and that my ratings conform to generally accepted principles of beauty in america. My one friend is all about small waist and big booty and dark skin, I get the appeal and i will try to factor that in when I review.

Girls who are 5-6s dance because they still make more money doing very little effort. Yes, they can make more money at a real job but if you're good at hanging out, you will get free drinks and probably one or two pity dances an hour which is like probably equates to $50-60k a year for much less hours actually worked.

A 5-6 in my book isn't necessarily ugly or not easy on the eyes. She could have a pretty face, just her body is out of shape and overall and stated above, you wouldn't know she was a dancer, but for the club.

In the Chicago area, it was common (when girls actually worked the room, pre-Covid) that girls did this part-time to supplement income, maybe drug habit. A legit 7+ could make really good money at a no-extras, less gropey clubs like Polekatz. But these 5/6 and under need these hotter girls around to draw the crowd in.
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Puddy Tat
2 months ago
@OP - the short answer is "because they make money doing it."
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Muddy
2 months ago
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Muddy
2 months ago
Christy Canyon in her prime is a 10. I don't know if I would ever get tired of fucking that.
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Muddy
2 months ago
New image upload is pretty cool.
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nicespice
2 months ago
They strip because, somewhere out there, a club manager let her get up on stage.
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stainglass
2 months ago
If a PL 5 or 6 below can go to a SC, why can't a dancer?

This discussion itself is pointless, and I hate to admit: so is all of the responses, mine included.
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Owlyoung_ggofv
2 months ago
@stainglass, it's just a thought experiment. I appreciate all of the feedback. I just wanted to see different perspectives on a very common occurrence in strip clubs.

The difference is that clubs aren't rated by the quality of their patrons (those tend to be very high end establishments). Clubs are rated by the dancer quality. I don't care if a stripper is super hot but some club manager would only because they want the "atmosphere" to be a certain way.

Some clubs care about more than just getting the initial payment from dancers. I understand your point however.
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DandyDan
2 months ago
Because they can?

One of my former faves, who probably wasn't more than a 5, loved the entertainment aspect of stripping, even more than one of her other jobs, which was singer in a punk rock band.
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blahblahblahs
2 months ago
^ someone at Mary's?
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georgmicrodong
2 months ago
Looks aren't everything. My ATF would probably have been considered a 6 or 7 by many here, but for me, her personality and attitude made her irresistible. My current SB is better looking, but still not uber hot, but is hot to *me* because of her personality.

On the other hand, one of what most of you here would consider a certifiable 10, and one hottest dancers I've seen anywhere, turned into such a huge bitch after a while that my dick wouldn't get hard if she were a vacuum.
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