At what point do you become too old for clubbing?
blockbird
Maryland
I just turned 73, and haven't been to more than a couple of places in the last year. There are several reasons.
1. The simplest reason: the equipment doesn't work so well any more. Even with Vitamin V.
2. The old B.B.King line comes to mind" "The Thrill is Gone." I've pretty much done everying available in strip clubs. What was fresh and arousing 20 years ago is now ho-hum.
3. My old haunt, Baltimore's Block, would now best be bulldozed away. It was once great for entertainment value of the kind most of us seek out. Now, it takes major desparation to go there.
Curious to hear other thoughts.....
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I feel your pain on the Block. I never saw it in it's hay day but I did visit about two years ago, and it's sketchy. The private room I did had video cameras watching the entrance, and the dancer told me to keep an eye on them as she was doing her business, in case they'd get raided. Almost entirely killed the buzz, not to mention the fear of getting mugged coming and going.
I wouldn't let THAT stop you though. There are other scenes that are excellent for mongering. Maybe a trip to Inskter, MI, Pompano, FL, or Tijuana would cure your blues?
I'm cutting out a big chunk of my mongering activities not because of age (though I'm getting up there) but because there is enough associated agita to counterbalance the fun. But it's not a one way door. You can chill out for a bit and you can always go back if you miss it, maybe with renewed enthusiasm. Change of locale can also help
That puts me at around 30 hours of clubbing, which equates to an average of 2.5 hours per month. By that last day though......I'm dragging ass and looking at the shattered dreams of my club budget.
i'm doubling up on the nugenix.
My equipment works well not the same but it’s still in good condition.
I’d say everyone is different, some folks that I’m friends with are still playing tennis and there’s a group at my club that plays basketball most of them are late seventies one is eightytwo
I’m seventy still walk 4-7 miles a day and swim an average of one hour daily play golf every Saturday with a group that I’m the oldest and I still win my share, my long game isn’t that bad, but my short game has improved with age.
Also with dance prices and VIP prices escalating, I have a hard time justifying the $10/ minute I am paying these girls. I am not wealthy, but can afford the $30 dances, it just seems like I realize how long it took to earn $30 and that decreases my desire to participate. I actually think most of these dancers would make as much or more money if lap dances returned to the $10 range. Seems like dancers in Atlanta at Vivide, Hip Hugger in Kokomo, and others are constantly busy with $10 dances while at other clubs, the dancers constantly complain about no one getting lap dances. It's pretty simple economics, but the strip club world seems to ignore it.
So in answer to the question posted, I have no plans to quit at 73, but certainly am much more selective about my strip club visits. As long as Shadowcat keeps going strong in his early 80's, I figure the rest of us can hang on for a while longer.
explains that you are too old.
So for the most part, I think it’s OP reason number 2.
Not being fun anymore which is a combination of not seeing the type of girl I want and not wanting to pay more than I think it should be. And when both those criteria are not met, my junk automatically doesn't work right.
I do think age factors in last cuz a chick that truly understands how a man's sex organ works can get a rise no matter what.
That is phenomenal. I'm impressed.
I do quit when it's not fun any more. I have done so, intermittently, several times over the years. I didn't really club much (or any) from about 2010 to about 2020, for example. I can't name the statistics specifically but I would say that the total number of times I attended a club in one year, say f.e. 2005, would probably be more than the number of times for the other entire decade from '10 to '20. I go through droughts and floods. Usually the thing that changes my approach is, that it becomes fun again. Ageing hasn't really changed that.
For a monger, we become too old when we no longer get any joy out of going to the club to spend time with young beautiful women who are getting naked for money. This too can happen at different times for different men. Some men with a bad heart may no longer be able to safely enjoy a strip club in their 50s, others may still be going strong well into their 90s. Some may even find such true love that they stop getting any enjoyment out of seeing random naked women in their 20s or 30s.
In the end, as long as we are enjoying ourselves and have the disposable income to be able to afford it age is just a number.
I suppose when it's no longer fun. I'll admit that I'm getting to a point where I need the payoff less than I used to. This doesn't just impact my interactions with strippers, but sugar babies as well.
The good news for me is that I'm still young enough to squirrel extra money aside for my kids, so there is a net benefit to my physical changes. If I can hold on for another decade or so, I will be able to leave a legacy behind now that I'm not spending a fortune on young females, lol.
As long as you can appreciate the beauty and company of women, have at it.
I suspect that will be sometime around my death.
slow rubbing her perfect ass
On me, as I think to ask
May the sweet nips I'm a twiddling
Be kissed while you start fiddling
With little Steph; look, I've got more cash
Never comes to me anymore 😪
Until then 🤪
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