OTC Post Nut Clarity
Lone_Wolf
Arizona
Saturday, February 11, 2023 1:57 AM
Any of you comrades experience this type of post nut clarity?
Scenario: After running the System. OTC hotel time with new quality talent. $400 as p4p gift. $200 for the room at La Quinta. $150 for quality sex toy and lotions. $30 for snacks and cheap White Zinfandel. Hours spent arranging the logistics of the meet up and rearranging meeting schedules.
Main event is as good as can be expected with a beautiful young woman that would rather be anywhere else besides doing nakey time with my fugly ass.
Post Nut clarity: It's good... really good..but was it really worth all that cash and effort? Maybe.. maybe not.
Often this clarity caused me to not do repeat OTC until the next time I became enamored with new talent.
Scenario: After running the System. OTC hotel time with new quality talent. $400 as p4p gift. $200 for the room at La Quinta. $150 for quality sex toy and lotions. $30 for snacks and cheap White Zinfandel. Hours spent arranging the logistics of the meet up and rearranging meeting schedules.
Main event is as good as can be expected with a beautiful young woman that would rather be anywhere else besides doing nakey time with my fugly ass.
Post Nut clarity: It's good... really good..but was it really worth all that cash and effort? Maybe.. maybe not.
Often this clarity caused me to not do repeat OTC until the next time I became enamored with new talent.
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As someone who also wouldn't be mistaken for a model, chemistry is a thing. My body has vetoed a girl my brain decided was fuckable more than once. I think what you're really getting at is if it's worth the hassle to hook up with chicks who aren't that into you. I just lie to myself and say that all these chicks I hook up with are into me, but if you're not getting enough intrinsic value out of it then why do it? If it's just about getting my nut I have porn for that.
I will play along and comment on your discussion.
To answer your question:
Q: Any of you comrades experience this type of post nut clarity? (OTC Post Nut Clarity)
A: Who hasn’t? “buyer’s remorse” is familiar to most of us, regarding the pay-for-sex hobby in the adult industry.
Buyer’s remorse is a form of what’s called cognitive dissonance in our society and it is a feeling of discomfort caused by conflicting beliefs, was it a good deal? or it was not worth the effort, money, time.
However it is more common to regret missing out on an OTC opportunity/experience than to regret spending money on one.
You have to approach OTC as gambling, you will win some times and you will lose sometimes. That is why it important to use money, time and effort that you are comfortable “loosing”.
The “problem” you have with the buyers remorse is because our Over-Sexualized and at the same time Sexually-Repressed American culture/society men and women receive mixed messages about their sexuality.
We want women (and men) to be objects of sexual desire, yet we expect them to be pure, monogamous etc etc. to behave against their own natural instincts and desires.
These mixed contradictory messages are part of your problem in my opinion.
Just relax enjoy your adult hobby and you will be happier from the benefits of a healthy hobby experience, without guilt and remorse.
Let’s be careful out there.
And remember Pics and Vids or it didn’t happen.
:D
But putting that aside, the money obviously means different things to different people. In each area, the market is what it is. If you have a solid handle on the local market, which I assume you do, then either you can afford to play in it routinely or you can't.
Personally, after the bills are paid and contributions to certain accounts are made, if I have the money to play then I do. If I don't then I don't. But I also have a max % of my income I'm willing to spend on this thing, so I'll up my contributions to certain accounts before I burn it on strippers.
If the money means enough to you that you regret spending it, then don't. Maybe find cheaper outlets so that you don't kick yourself when it's over.
Anyway, I say all of this with nothing but the best intentions LW. I don't know your situation, but I would hate to be in a position where I feel regret over good p4p with a hot girl. Honestly I'd find other avenues, maybe including a serviceable civilian piece of ass to keep my going in between p4p events, before I let that happen.
Good luck with this.
I've found that regardless of the costs if you do this less "often" then it feels more like a "special event." I've found that if you do it too often then it becomes routine and less special. It's up to you to find out what your sweet spot it. Once a month, twice a year, every other week, we all are different regardless of how often we can afford it.
Once it starts feeling edgy and subversive again, I'll start doing it again.
I guess all one can do w.r.t. OTC is to “Subra it”; i.e. refine one’s game (whether ITC or OTC) to where one is getting the best bang-for-the-buck/experience possible and try not to burn money/time on subpar experiences.
It's the Pon Farr: https://youtu.be/r-LvMTdDR4k
And: https://youtu.be/itXRtEJUOPI?t=83
And lastly: https://youtu.be/lWfvBT4Uh3M?t=72
I felt like I was sitting in some meetup with one of the angry young woman in NYC rather than a pub in J'ville FL. Seriously. She also has the misfortune of living in a county that skews overwhelmingly Republican, which was one of the many topics she covered. Apparently white male Republicans are a source of many ills, notwithstanding that she was knowingly out on a date with one of the accused.
If I was not already invested in seeing it through I would have bailed. But I had already paid for the hotel room and was footing the bill for dinner/drinks, so I rode it out. The fact that I was horny and she looked great may have also played a role.😉 Anyway the finale went quite well actually, which salvaged the night. But I definitely had a moment of post nut clarity once the event was over and steered clear of her thereafter. 😬
But lemme tell you something my bud…you need something more powerful than El Cheapo White Zin. Zounds…what kind of male drinks frickin’ white zin? Even to share with a sexy female? I mean really, if she wants pink champagne on ice or some fruity shit like that you’re being cool for providing it, but you should imbibe that wonderful elixir invented by a certain Mr. Jack Daniels.
And maybe follow it with Jack’s good bud Jim. And then the Mr. Walker: Blackie and Red. Just have the female tape a bottle to each of your front paws and pound away until it feels like somebody hit you in the head with a brick. But hit you in the head with a brick in a good way.
Take a page from the big book of rickvice and you will have no regrets. ROAR!!!
I tend to skew left, and probably even agree with some of what your AOCtype was saying, but anybody's rant is undesirable in a dinner / drinks / sex situation. That would have annoyed me too.
@mike: I would definitely want to fuck the real AOC. https://www.babepedia.com/user-uploads/A… She can even rant. But I want anal.
Yes, a 28 year old woman believed that.
Good lord that was one painful hour. All the vodka in Russia couldn't numb that away.
@drew, I lean right, yet I cringed at a dating profile whose every picture had an article of Trump or MAGA clothing, and all her prompts referenced a love for Trump. Wish I'd have saved pictures.
I'd want only head from AOC. Any minute with my dick in her mouth is a minute she can't spew nonsense.
Really Tetra Ape? Do you have any idea what the native culture is on Alpha Centauri or Tatooine or wherever the fuck Avatar is set?
I was thinking of tryin’ to find Elon Ape and convince him to fly me there. Some of those big blue chicks were frickin’ hot. I bet they’d dig the BSLC up the ass. Assuming they like getting fucked in the ass.
But I worry my lion claws would picture my spacesuit and I think that would be a bad time. Anyhoo… Imma keep my rickventures here on this planet. ROAR!!!
Actually I suspect that it was even worse, lol. AOC used to sling drinks for a living, so she undoubtedly knows that there is a time and place for it. This girl had no such awareness. At one point I even got up and sang karaoke to get some relief and to remind her of where we were (and also because I enjoy it), but she picked back up the second I sat back down.
If I wasn't so horny and if she wasn't so hot, I'd have bailed. The only upside is that she miraculously transformed into a kitten in bed. The only thing that was worse than listening to that shit for 2 solid hours would have been listening to that shit for 2 hours and then getting no payoff on the back-end. 😆
You are free to believe that any woman who has a financial need is utterly incapable of making her own informed decision, but I do not. We all work for money, whatever the job. Don't belittle or denigrate others (such as by calling them hookers) who are willing to make different choices than you by treating them as helpless victims. It's absurdly condescending and more than a little misogynistic, or at least it would be if you were actually a guy. Shame on you.
Btw this whole conversation is ludicrous given that you first came on here pretending to be a pimp who was selling his crack ho GF's ass out the back door. Seriously now honey. But I digress.
Papi, hard-up is a good way to describe it
Rick, PR girl means puerto rican?
You are free to believe that any woman who has a financial need is utterly incapable of making her own informed decision, but I do not. We all work for money, whatever the job. Don't belittle or denigrate others (such as by calling them hookers) who are willing to make different choices than you by treating them as helpless victims. It's absurdly condescending and more than a little misogynistic, or at least it would be if you were actually a guy. Shame on you.
Btw this whole conversation is ludicrous given that you first came on here pretending to be a pimp who was selling his crack ho GF's ass out the back door. Seriously now honey. But I digress.
You are free to believe that any woman who has a financial need is utterly incapable of making her own informed decision, but I do not. We all work for money, whatever the job. Don't belittle or denigrate others (such as by calling them hookers) who are willing to make different choices than you by treating them as helpless victims. It's absurdly condescending and more than a little misogynistic, or at least it would be if you were actually a guy. Shame on you.
Btw this whole conversation is ludicrous given that you first came on here pretending to be a pimp who was selling his crack ho GF's ass out the back door. Seriously now honey. But I digress.
You are free to believe that any woman who has a financial need is utterly incapable of making her own informed decision, but I do not. We all work for money, whatever the job. Don't belittle or denigrate others (such as by calling them hookers) who are willing to make different choices than you by treating them as helpless victims. It's absurdly condescending and more than a little misogynistic, or at least it would be if you were actually a guy. Shame on you.
Btw this whole conversation is ludicrous given that you first came on here pretending to be a pimp who was selling his crack ho GF's ass out the back door. Seriously now honey. But I digress.
Shame on you.