How far do you hide your club activities?
nicespice
Who is aware?
Absolutely nobody? A couple of selective guy friends? Most of your social circle? Family? Church social group?
Back when I was living in Austin, I dated this guy who there for work reasons. When we started dating, he took me around with him and I met some of his coworkers. Several months later, work brings him back to Austin and he’s temporarily there, and one of the guys he got along with well approached him during lunchtime and awkwardly tells him that I have a Plenty of Fish profile. The boyfriend at the time repeats that back to me and I was confused because I’ve never had an online dating profile ever. He rolls his eyes and says he’s almost certain the guy actually spotted me at the club and was trying to find a better story to cover his own tracks, and then makes fun of Texan culture for being so backwards that somebody can’t admit to being at a club. (He was from Portland where strip clubs are all over the place)…lol
Absolutely nobody? A couple of selective guy friends? Most of your social circle? Family? Church social group?
Back when I was living in Austin, I dated this guy who there for work reasons. When we started dating, he took me around with him and I met some of his coworkers. Several months later, work brings him back to Austin and he’s temporarily there, and one of the guys he got along with well approached him during lunchtime and awkwardly tells him that I have a Plenty of Fish profile. The boyfriend at the time repeats that back to me and I was confused because I’ve never had an online dating profile ever. He rolls his eyes and says he’s almost certain the guy actually spotted me at the club and was trying to find a better story to cover his own tracks, and then makes fun of Texan culture for being so backwards that somebody can’t admit to being at a club. (He was from Portland where strip clubs are all over the place)…lol
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Most of my friends and all of my family have no idea what I do. It's not that I'm ashamed of it. It's just none of their business.
Among the best difficult conversations I've had.
No one else; went a couple times with a brother decades ago, might share with him some day.
To answer your question:
Q: Who is aware?
A: Absolutely nobody
Because what I do, in private, is nobody else business and also three can keep a secret only if two of them are dead.
Also remember:
“Everything written on this site should be considered a work of fiction”
:D
It's not something I hide but not something I put out for just anyone to know.
My daughter and her husband met my ATF, but we didn’t say she was a stripper.
I discuss Strip club activities on TUSCL and with my TUSCL friends and with my stripper friends. The good thing about TUSCL is that you can brag about certain acts that would bring you shame in most circles.
I don't do church, so that's not an issue.
I have run into a few friends and coworkers at strip clubs over the years so they know that I go on occasion but none of them know how often or that I love extras ITC and OTC with dancers with the exception of one coworker that I ran into in the VIP at Greenlight in Louisville where the extras were pretty well visible to the other people in the vip room. We never discussed the incident but it was clear we were both there for the same reason.
I guess it could be awkward if some of my more religious family members or some of my uptight coworkers found out but it wouldn't be the end of the world. I may lose a friend or two over their moral objection but if I did I'd just move on.
"are you open about paying hookers to fuck?" - that would be illegal. I pay them for their time and companionship. Anything else that happens is something that occurs between mutually consenting adults
Hah! I forgot about the same thing happening to me. It wasn't GL, but another club. He was coming out of the then very private lap dance area with one of the dancers then known for extras, saw me at the bar, and left immediately. He never spoke to me at work again, and it was at least a couple years between then and when he left.
Amusing as hell.
I also ran into a coworker at the club (Foxy Lady). I had suspected that she'd look great without a lot of clothes on. Turns out I was correct.
She freaked out even more when a group of a half dozen of us went in to see her the following week. We had all lusted over her while she strutted around in her sexy office clothes. We kept it to a small group of coworkers that socialized in our free time. We didn't rat her out.
Also, @LDK, do you LDK while visiting with friends?
SJG
SJG
No, the men will not be recruited from strip clubs. They will be recruited in entirely different ways and from entirely different venues. We would not want the men from strip clubs.
SJG
Milk'n Blues
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ErHo_oCk…
The Muslims don’t recognize the Jews;
The Jews don’t recognize Christ; and
The Baptists don’t recognize each other at the strip club.
One night after work at Hi-Liter a couple years ago, suddenly a chair at my table pulled out and a dude sat down...a sober co-worker who lived an hour away....and who was wearing gym shorts. Hashtag SMH.
Finished my drink and bailed.
Actually it could double by adding one within that time frame, but he/she will drop out after going hungry and being drained dry 24/7 from SJG’s goat!