Gag Me With A Spoon

So dude at your job do you figure they don't need to be polite to you just cause they're paying you?

I have just resigned myself that this is how P4P is. The first time you have a date with a P4P chick, it's going to be a disappointment more than half the time. Sometimes it's a straight-up rip off. Sometimes it's cause what they do has been fine with other guys, so they don't feel like they're ripping you off.

At $1500 I think she probably does dates at a relatively low rate, under 10 per month. Unless you live in a place where there's a lot of higher income PLs, who don't think that's a high rate.

I've never done it personally, as I've almost always done P4P with escorts, but seems like a lot of guys on here discuss the specifics of what they want beforehand.

Actually I'm kinda curious about these $ numbers, too.

I'm not a P4P guy. I've had plenty of fun inside and outside of the clubs, but never on a $ transactional basis.

But yesterday was a bit different. I was at Hi-Liter in Phx, and after dance # 1, the girl just asked if I wanted to "play" and said it would be $160 extra. I didn't ask what that actually meant. But told her nah, not really my thing...and I wasn't looking to blast all over myself. Was she trying to get me to pay her $160 for an HJ?!?

I assume you don't mean fun like playing board games with the strippers. How do you have boot knocking type fun ITC without $?

I'm sure there's some sex worker somewhere who'd do pretty much any sex act you can think of for $160. Or maybe she was just planning to make you the proud owner of the Brooklyn Bridge.

Not into p4p but never had a girl ask me to shower.

There were times like after a gym date or a day at the beach we'd shower together but that's different.

I actually get compliments bon my hygiene

@ilbbaicnl -- as much as I liked Stratego, Scrabble, and Battleship, nah, no board games. I've just been lucky, I guess. Not every time, of course. But how? Honestly? I dunno. I get better treatment than I think I ought to... but it keeps happening, with different girls, at different clubs, over the last couple years since I started going again. I don't go in expecting extra stuff, but am not gonna complain when it happens.

I'm not "hot", but a relatively good-looking 40 year old guy, make them laugh, and when it comes to lapdance time, sometimes they just seem to really enjoy themselves (I've come home with teeth marks in my shoulder because they had to kinda muffle their moans).

When I’m in tijuana and take up a girl Arriba i usually offer to shower with the girl right at the first…

and yes. “So on an OTC encounter is it reasonable to expect a BJ for $1500?”… on Annie in counter. ( thanks siri.)

Based on your previous posts, and this one, I suspect that the problems you have and the prices you pay for them have more to do with you and not the woman.

Also, this is the closest I've had to this type of interaction from a pre-COVID OTC...

DANCER: "Did you see this shower? It's huge!"

ISHMAEL (wondering if that's a hint): "Should I take a shower before the fun starts?

DANCER: "Did you mean 'Should *we* take a shower before the fun starts'?"

ISHMAEL: "Yes ... that's exactly what I meant."

Aside from that, I've never had this request from dancers on OTC. Going back years to when I saw escorts on occasion, many of them did ask that their customers take a shower first.

A lot of hookers ask customers to take a shower so they can go through their shit. Rob them. Run off....

This sounds like some giant "look how much money I have" flex.

If you're paying $1,500 for a BJ, that just makes you a mark.

Op is the problem. He agreed to the price. Agreed to shower.. He said it was okay if she stop. Then comes on here to bitch about it.

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