THAT Girl

@rickdugan

“The heart wants what it wants—or else it does not care.”

the quality of attachment/infatuation you have for your ATF is guided by the neurotransmitter dopamine in the nucleus accumbens of your so-called brain.

The nucleus accumbens is a brain area that is involved in reward-seeking behavior.

Dopamine is involved in generating behavior that leads to something rewarding, and sometimes if it unexpected the effect is greater.

Your ATF is giving you “signals” (smiles, touches, tone of her voice etc, as part of her job of entertainment) that because YOU see her as too good to be true, “the full package” you perceive and interpret as unexpected-unexplainable rewarding that your brain is producing dopamine and makes you feel/fall in “love” with her.

It is sometimes very common we call it Regular In Love, and we all have seen or been the guy that is infatuated/in love.

Don’t worry, she will not fall in love with you, and you will grow out of it when you find a new ATF.

Just enjoy the “ride” and be careful out there.

Curious, rick. Do you think you'd have the same level of obsession if she ever finally consented?🤔

I dunno Mr. Dawg. Mr. Dugan might retain his interest.

It is my theory that this particular “that girl” reminds Mr. Dugan of his meemaw, Dixie Dugan.

Back in the day Ms. Dixie Dugan was such a freaky girl - the kind you don’t take home to mother as Mr. Rick James would say - that they mass produced pornographic tracts about her in Tijuana. You want evidence? Check it out:

https://tuscl.net/discussion.php?id=7682…

There is a tendency to regard all dancers as disposable tools that serve a single purpose (and, there's a tendency for dancers to regard customers the same way...). It's true that I've spent time with several dancers just because they're drop-dead gorgeous, even though it became quickly apparent that there was going to be no personal connection.

That said, even though a customer may never "fall in love" with a dancer, it's normal to like or even care about a dancer where there is a personal connection in addition to a physical attraction. I was actually PMing with a local PL about something along these lines. If you're a club regular and you've been seeing a particular dancer for years, then I think it's weird to not eventually truly like that person. I know that there are those who will say that it's all theater on the part of the dancer, and that may be true in some or many instances. But I don't think it's always true... case-by-case basis, really.

There are a few dancers at Desire who I visit with regularly, and in all cases I enjoy their company outside of VIP. But, I do have a favorite, and she is at least partly my favorite because she's smart, funny, and engaging. Do I think I'm going to ride off into the sunset with this dancer?... absolutely not. But I enjoy it for what it is.

This can happen to even the most jaded of mongers. If it’s happening to Rick Dugan then none of us are immune.

I always say, as long as I can get extras from a dancer, looks don’t matter. But there are those rare beauties who have the looks and charm to catch my interest (and retain my interest).

^ I’m not so sure about that buddy I fall in love quite often, usually it goes away $200- 500 dollars later.

^ agreed. It usually goes away for me as well. But it appears this is a rare beauty - with an enchanting presence - and even one of our top level suave and animalistic mongers is unable to resist her charms.

Although, once Dugan bangs her, I will be interested to hear if he remains under her charms…

^ I feel you but my contention is dependent upon her beauty and skills the hence the range of $200-$500 that’s my level of falling in love, but hey I’m not the dude lol

I agree. I’m happy to rent and move on.

Hopefully this doesn’t sound overly snarky, but this is not surprising at all. Rick is prone to wanting to feel strong emotions in many other aspects of his life—whether those feelings are positive or negative. (Which provides more than enough easy trolling material on this site over the years) Why wouldn’t it transfer over to this as well?

Whenever i get the feelz, i watch this to stay on the wagon:

https://m.worldstar.com/web/video.php?v=…

If it moves the needle, play on. I could use some inspiration like that in my local clubs.

SaltyNutz that’s a great video! It’s short and it makes an important point.

I respect the girl. The guy - sorry - but he won’t likely ever understand.

If anyone catches feelings - I suggest watching a few episodes of 90 day fiancé. This show provides a view of folks who live in America and who meet a partner online in another country. Many are already struggling to get by. But then you see how the partner lives in a third world country, without many of our American necessities. Then it’s easy to see how fucking an old sweaty guy isn’t that bad when you have air conditioning, clean running water, reliable sewers, electricity, and food! But, I’m sure she’s coming here because she fell in love with a whitty 50 year old McDonalds shift manager…

I'll gently suggest that you can like a dancer, and even care about her, without going "Full Gawker"...

Lulz, I can’t wait for 2ICEE to comment with his wisdom.

Could be part of your mid-life crisis Rickyboy. She probably takes you back to a time when you felt more youthful. It’s probably too good to last, so enjoy it while it’s around and keep your head on a swivel for other pretty women once this one fades.

Alas rick my friend, it happens to all of us.

Remember that time I was getting all in love with that super sexy hairless ape whore in Australia? I think she went on to star in some movies... Margot somethin’ or other. You talked me down. You told me that she was worth some time on my BSLC but wasn’t worth fallin’ in love. You were right bro!

Do you need me to motor on down to Florida. I was tryin’ to give some emotional support to my bud mikethetiger. Asshole hairless apes gave him a shot without his consent. Can you believe it?

We’re gonna take our frustration out on some LSU sorority apes later tonight. I’ll send pics. ROAR!!!

Was that shot possibly from a 30-30??

===> "Curious, rick. Do you think you'd have the same level of obsession if she ever finally consented?🤔"

I never really thought of it as "obsession" so much as a moderate "infatuation." But I guess the answer to that would depend entirely upon how the experience went. Sure I definitely enjoy the thrill of the hunt with some girls, but this is not that. In rare moments I meat girls who are unusual enough that I truly enjoy spending time with them, like my ATF, who lasted over a year.

She kinda' reminds me more of a girl named Daniela, who I posted about when I first joined the site, except that this one has all of Daniela's charms PLUS she's the hottest girl in the club on any night that she's there:

https://tuscl.net/article.php?id=1010

...that should be "meet girls" not "meat girls" lol. A Freudian slip for sure. ;)

@rickdugan

Pics if Daniela and THAT Girl or you are not a RIL.

:D

@rick: Thanks for the informative reply! I really wasn't trying to bust your chops.

CMI has created a term that I think should be entered into the TUSCL glossary as soon as possible: 'going full gawker'

Do you at least get a few dances with 'That girl' ?

You know, till she gives in or you give up?

Rick,

We are going to need updates on this “dream stripper” that you found.

Pics and Vids of the Dream Stripper/THAT Girl or it isn’t so.

:D

I second the motion to add “Going Full Gawker” to TUSCL’s glossary.

I hallucinate a "remember thou art PL" voice in my ear when I start getting feels. If she'll meet me for lunch, or come in to the club early to hang with me, I'll allow myself a little feels. But I keep in mind it may just be mileage points. Generally we stop crushing in high school, it leads to pain and disappointment, the aversion therapy works.

^^^ I crush way more than I ever did in high school every other month I’m crushing on a different coworker.

That girl

Okay, now that we’ve all given Dugan sufficient feedback aren’t we going to address the 800-lb gorilla in the room?

I’m speaking, of course, about the forced vaccination of Mike the Tiger that the other rick pointed out. Now, I don’t want to cause this thread to degenerate into more covid bullshit.

But I think we can all agree that having this thread descend into covid bullshit due to a fucking tiger has the potential to be funny as shit. MIKE HAS RIGHTS. MIKE HAS RIGHTS. MIKE HAS RIGHTS.

Say it loud and proud: MIKE HAS RIGHTS!!!!

That Girl!

MIKE HAS RIGHTS!!!!

^ fuck his rights vaccinate that tiger 😁

MIKE HAS RIGHTS!!!!

That Girl!