Pay attention to what day it is?
DH721
Indiana
So does anyone else pay attention to what day of the week or month it is when they go to clubs?
Let me start by saying I'm an older guy and while no one runs away screaming from my looks, I don't have Ryan Gosling's looks or body. I'm not rich but I have a few hundred I can blow each month on "entertainment".
Sundays,Mondays, Tuesdays and Wednesdays have usually given me the best choice of the dancers - I'm not competing with younger or richer guys.
The other thing I look at is what day of the month is it. Non-weekend nights that are near the end of the month have also been good to me. Maybe it's just my imagination, but I think you have a good chance of finding the girl that is trying to get the last $200 - $300 to make her rent payment the next day. I have only had one girl admit that to me, but I was one of her regulars and we had pretty honest and open communications. In fact, she actually texted me on more than one occasion "I'm short on rent, come see me". If she wasn't so beautiful with a perfect body, I might have been offended, but hey at least she chose me over the other schmoes.
I also try to avoid special nights, like 2 for Tuesdays or 1/2 price buckets of beer, etc.
Anyone else have suggestions/comments?
Let me start by saying I'm an older guy and while no one runs away screaming from my looks, I don't have Ryan Gosling's looks or body. I'm not rich but I have a few hundred I can blow each month on "entertainment".
Sundays,Mondays, Tuesdays and Wednesdays have usually given me the best choice of the dancers - I'm not competing with younger or richer guys.
The other thing I look at is what day of the month is it. Non-weekend nights that are near the end of the month have also been good to me. Maybe it's just my imagination, but I think you have a good chance of finding the girl that is trying to get the last $200 - $300 to make her rent payment the next day. I have only had one girl admit that to me, but I was one of her regulars and we had pretty honest and open communications. In fact, she actually texted me on more than one occasion "I'm short on rent, come see me". If she wasn't so beautiful with a perfect body, I might have been offended, but hey at least she chose me over the other schmoes.
I also try to avoid special nights, like 2 for Tuesdays or 1/2 price buckets of beer, etc.
Anyone else have suggestions/comments?
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Rickyboy developed a system entirely devoted to preying on the weak needing a quick cash infusion. If you can’t learn from him then this isn’t the hobby for you.
Day of the week, end of month and upcoming holidays do seem to impact how motivated dancers are based on the volume of messages I get from dancers inviting me to the club or trying to set up something OTC. On the flip side, other times such as tax season (or stimulus check dates) make them less motivated. I'm surprised the recent child tax credit payments haven't had the same type of effect on dancers that have kids as the stimulus checks did.
what sucks the most about that is if there is a club i go to that's real far away and there is a girl on the club's website with a pic. i would have to take a day off on say a monday to meet her. not a chance in hell will i ever meet her during the weekend.
We are all adults, everyone knows what the rules are and why we are at the club.
By picking my times and dates to go to the clubs, I'm not trying to take advantage of the dancers, I have never asked or pushed anyone to do anything she didn't want to. I just find this makes it more likely they are willing to get off their phones and actually sit down and interact with me.
Also worth paying attention to the club promotions.
Cheap dance nights can be good, or they can bring way too many guys and not enough dancers of requisite hotness.
Amateur night contests can be good, but some of the regular girls will avoid working that night if they can. They bring in groups who come to cheer on their homegirl and act like drunk annoying groups of 21 year olds usually do.
I like going to a club at the slowest times. It's called market demand. Strippers are doing the same thing by wanting to dance at the times when they can make the most money. There's nothing "low" about any of this.
Doesn’t even have to be a “strategy” thing
And it's most definitely a strategy thing. 😁
On the rare occasion, clubs that I thought I was pretty familiar with turned from nice slow comfortable spots to giant festivals, and instead of trying to decide on a seat with a good view that wasn't too close to anyone else, there just weren't any open, not even a free stool at the bar.
Of course, these places were also full of girls I'd never seen before. The average usually went up at least 1 or 2 on a scale to 10. A few girls I've talked with recently told me they usually only work Friday - Sunday, claimed they were working the odd weekday when I met them they don't usually because it's too slow (though I know one of them was making money, was busy the entire time, hottest girl in the club that night).
I’m an old regular guy - and I love to switch up the time and day of my club trips - as I enjoy variety. I only go clubbing for extras - so I find the Sun-Wed days to offer more - and easier availability of extras.
Day of the week really varies by club. Around here Sunday and Mondays are dead. The dancers know they are dead. So your selection of dancers on those days are smaller but they may provide more service as well. I met my ATF on a Sunday dayshift.
Seasons matter too although they are obviously harder to plan visits and budgets around.
Also, these super dead shifts are the perfect time to make an appointment with your ATF. "I'm heading in Monday at 1, can you add on?" Then you have your hot ATF, relatively dead club, and IME the manager is happy to have business and possibly less likely to patrol the VIP room too tightly
As far as the time of month, as much as I've joked about Rent Day, it doesn't really influence my actions. These girls have a variety of cash needs throughout the month and you never know when a girl is going to have a breakthrough moment, like a kid's birthday coming up, or a court fine that has to be paid, or...
My feeling about seasons is the same as the time of month - doesn't really matter so much. The one exception is the week leading up to Christmas. I love this week so much that I allocate extra cash and time for stripper action. Last Christmas season was like a buffet sampler. It's classic - so many girls wait until the last week, just assuming that they can make it in the clubs, to learn the hard way that guys club less that week due to their own cash and time constraints. I always count on this time of year to make new OTC friends, including girls who were previously on the fence but now feel pressure to give their kids those expensive electronics from "Santa.". I feel like Ricky Claus, spreading good cheer each Christmas season to so many deserving families.
When I want to go, I go.
When I want extras, I get extras.
Only things I work around are my work/social schedule and when a fave is likely to be working.
I typically don't care to be one of multi-dozens and multi-dozens of citizens going out for Friday or Saturday night, even if there are more women also working those nights. An unfavorable great-dancer--to--paying-customers ratio means I have less likelihood of spending more and better time with the desirable dancers.
Many places, I've seen that going too early in the week, or too early in the evening, means fewer of the hottest women will be there. Sure, there are some really amazing women who go in 6x a week, so take your pick on the calendar.
But I want to be there with enough of a crowd to enhance the atmosphere (even 95% of a hottie's attention in a nearly-dead club isn't usually the best) but without 67% capacity or wall-to-wall patrons like the weekends and some late nights have.
Depending on the club and the local culture, give me a Wednesday or Thursday evening ... if I don't have localized exceptions because I have a prior texting connection with a dancer, or quality intel from Tuscl about this one place's most likely time slots, calendar columns, or days until rent payment defaults.
For the last 5-years-or-so most of my SCing has been dayshift since I feel I get better QoS and the clubs I hit have pretty-good dayshifts – but I mostly hit small dives that don’t have a lot of room thus even on dayshift I try to get there b/f 5:30pm b/f it gets too-crowed – b/w 4:00 and 5:30 pm is a sweetspot for me at these dives since there are a fair # of dancers but not as many custies yet.
Being a middle-aged guy I’m not into the party-scene thus try to avoid certain clubs at certain times – I feel a club w/ a party-scene often gets in the way of serious SCing.
I’d say if one is the type that looks for just one dancer to spend the visit with (or a fave), then makes sense to pick a slow-time b/c one usually gets better service/attention – even as a variety-guy I *have* had some very-good visits on Monday or Tuesday nights w/ a slow(ish) club – in the back of my PL-mind I’ve thought of mainly sticking/switching to slower days (early-week) since one will usually have better QoS but I still haven't convinced myself to make the switch since I want there to be as many dancers to choose from as possible.
For myself I don't really do many night shifts any more and whatever day I head in I usually have a fave already expecting me.