Wiffle Waffle seems to be bugging out

I really don't think this is a discussion for all of tuscl.

I miss Eve.

I agree with loper and, suprisingly, Nina agrees with me. I don't know what Muddy is referring to, but it sucks that the lurkers and degenerate pervs (as opposed to us well-adjusted pervs) can run off the fun female contributors.

I agree with Nina. I hope Waffle is ok. If she’s leaving us, I wish her well.

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Never have and never will understand why any guy thinks its ok to be mean to girls.

Nothing says look at me im an autistic socially awkward loser like keeping tabs on someone's behavior on a forum then trying to out them for perceived personal problems.

But I bet he thinks he's really clever for this thread

Why do we care about WWaffle?

Where is WW's Adios Post????? I think I missed it..... Link please....

@dirtyburt: tuscl.net

Creepy tuscl'er scares off another one.

searching through the comments on her new pictures. Found this.

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She alluded to this in other threads, so I'm not giving up secrets. She had a negative interaction with a TUSCLer outside of TUSCL (but not in real life (IRL)). It got ugly and,no surprise, made her angry. There is a weird demographic on TUSCL that gets openly upset and aggressive when dancers show themselves to have more sharp edges and independent will than that TUSCLer's own on-spectrum fantasy image of dancers (or the personas that dancers adopt in the clubs).

There are guys on this site who appreciate the insight of the working dancers who post here. But, there's also a crowd here who is heavily, emotionally, and unreasonably invested in dancers fulfilling their fantasies 24/7. There was a user on here (seems to have gone dark) who spent a lot of time on the dancer photos asking them to post pictures of their pussy. When they refused, he'd have a temper tantrum and call them a string of nasty names. It was a weird and aggressive sense of entitlement. He was local to Rhode Island, so I was happy to see that he's stopped posting here.

GEE LOVE seems to fit into that fantasy-land demographic.

I find it interesting that one of the longer-lived dancers on here, LinzeeDet, seems to do well here because she never fully breaks character. She essentially uses TUSCL as a marketing platform (but not in a spammy way). In the past she has also provided her own genuine insights, but she glides over the creeps and drama.

Ishmael makes a very good point - and that could be one of the reasons behind Waffle’s departure.

Gee Love seems to post odd comments on many dancer photos. I simply thought that he’s a weird dude - and possibly English is not his primary language. But, it’s possible that he’s got more anger than I expected.

The other user you mentioned also had an odd manner of commenting on dancer photos. His comments always seemed to be requests to see pussy (or vag in keeping with his user name). My thought was he was a true pervert - looking to see some amateur pussy photos.

I guess there is a more sinister side to these members, that i glossed over. Those intrusions can make anyone uncomfortable. However, for a dancer who wishes to interact with customers, to learn how to better market herself in the club, it can take things to a personal and overly intrusive level.

I'm spitballing here, but I believe that Rhode Island TUSCLer got his "fix" from the act of convincing a dancer to post a picture of her pussy, and not so much from the image itself. It's a power/dominance thing, which is why they flame out when dancers say 'no' or tell them to fuck off. Again, I suspect that GEE LOVE has at least some of the same issues.

Muddy,

Seriously, why is it your business?

I really didn't want to log in here again ever and even considered asking Founder to erase my entire profile (is possible).

But since Muddy felt that my mental health should be a topic of PUBLIC discussion and I'm a public figure now because of porn, I feel like I have to say something (thanks, dick 🙄).

So, Muddy, since you're so concerned about my personal shit, I received a rape / death threat via my Snapchat from someone who referenced this site. I'm not afraid, but I don't want to deal with the bullshit. And I also don't need to deal with consistent negative commentary on photos I post - even if they are memes. The harassment is too much and all I ever wanted to do was have fun here and hopefully teach you guys a little about the dancer side of things (tip out break downs, etc). But instead of respecting that, people who rather make demands to see photos of me when I have a whole Only Fans and am in actual fucking porn. And then the photos I do post are just mocked by users named above. There's no point and there's so much more that's important right now in my life than wasting my time here when it isn't appreciated and I'm being threatened and condescended.

Does this public explanation satisfy you, Muddy? I hope so, because I'm leaving again. ✌️

I’d quit social media, as you suggest, as that does clear a person’s mind and focus on your good aspects. I do not consider TUSCL as social media, more like anti-social media. This site’s uncensored format gives a wide spectrum of opinions, but the majority of it is balanced. In this world where we have the First Ammendment as a right to free speech, sometimes you have to apply the freedom to ignore, too. I’m sure most of your angst is from a select few. Those people come and go from this site a lot. You just got to ride them out and they’ll leave.

And here I was thinking that Ricky might have again started blaming that one thread I made about tiny penises for chasing out dancers.

—>“ I’m sure most of your angst is from a select few. Those people come and go from this site a lot. You just got to ride them out and they’ll leave.”

Completely agree.

Meat, it’s hard to ignore someone who threatens rape and death. That’s a crime and not a petty one. I don’t think you intended to blame the victim, but there’s a limit to being thick skinned, taking what you dish out, etc.

An awful lot of folks, especially here seem to have no filter between their thoughts and typing, but that’s par for this website It wasn’t always like this. There were occasional flame outs but nothing like the last 3-4 years.

If it’s on Snapchat, then at least there is the silver lining of reporting somebody through that medium and Snapchat will very likely deal with that account.

Whereas the time somebody publicly on this site outright posted mocking me that I was stupid for posting my club location on this site, and someday somebody was going to spike my drink with ghb. (Maybe nobody batted an eye because they figured I had a comment like that coming?) Certainly this site isn’t going to do anything.

That same individual who said that hasn’t come after me in a while, even after I threw some troll bait out once or twice. Based on my personal experience, I largely agree about riding it out. Shit talkers are more than likely just going to remain shit talkers, no matter how disgusting what they type is.

This is a long winded way to say I still concur with Meat, nothing wrong with choosing to disengage, however. I’ve met some cool individuals from this site who keep their involvement on this site to a minimum, and their posts on the discussion board is less than 50 comments cumulatively. Probably pretty smart of them to spend time elsewhere lol.

Not enough time in the day to think about every angle in this, but as each Person has to fight their own battles, in the end it’s hard to stay in the moment when there’s a ton of shit thrown at you that there’ll be a need to shutdown. The summer will provide a respite since post pandemic openings and more outdoor activities as better options.

That’s all fair and reasonable. The big difference between the dancers who post on here and the dudes is that the dancers don’t have their anonymity to protect themselves if they want to give their club locations. As a group, we should actively discourage anything threatening and speak up when someone is out of line. Being captain save-a-ho is frowned upon, but staying silent indicates we condone threatening comments. There has to be a better way.

I’m way too involved into this story the way it is, but what infractions were done on this site? I knew the Snapchat thing, and no psychotic behavior should be tolerated. I thought Muddy was just trying to clear the waters.

^^^That’s all really Meat. Waffle you kind of put it out there is wrong to just wonder? And I would wonder for a lot of members on here aswell. A lot of people on here I still haven’t met but believe it or not I still consider a lot of these people my homies. And I’m not privy to everything that goes on maybe I missed something. If you’d rather not spill it’s all good idgaf just trying see what went down that’s it.

JFC. 🤦 Here I am, once again, to confirm a few things that apparently weren't clear.

"Obviously I don't know what she's going through, I hope she'll handle it." I don't mean to gaslight you with this statement and I do know you said that with good intentions, but I'm also sorry you have been mislead into thinking I'm going through something. I'm not though? Can a person just take time away after being threatened and catch up on life? Or does that insinuate that shit is going on with them? My mental health is fine. I just get easily annoyed with some of the pure ignorance I see on here. And admittedly, I do feel I am more intelligent and a little above some of the trolls and a small handful of others on here (most are ignored by me though). For example, the people who sent me the messages I posted (and others I didn't post) have mostly been ignored. What kind of desperate loser does that with their time? There are so many more productive things to do with one's day than to harass random women in a forum online because you have your own insecurities leading you to send said messages. There is nothing I'm going through for me to handle. I do apologize because this paragraph was part answering your question and part going off on a rant.

"Waffle you kind of put it out there is wrong to just wonder?" I will first address your statement and then the question. Do I put it ALL out there? Are you absolutely certain I do? You may perceive that I do, but I definitely don't. All that I have commented or posted are things I want people to know or topics/questions posed in hopes to create a fruitful discussion with. If I were going to put it ALL out there, then I'd be another Nicole all up in this bitch flooding the forum with senseless bullshit in a way that it would look like my personal online LiveJournal. The only time I actually opened up on here with (pressing) personal issues is when I was looking for help or advice in getting out of the domestic violence situation I stupidly got myself into when I had moved to Pensacola in 2019. That isn't something I wanted to the world to know about, but I was looking for help literally everywhere. I was scared for my life and had nobody there for me in Pcola (other than my ex) and utilized the online resources I had for advice on how to escape that situation. My links were recently in my profile as a suggestion by my PR to potentially drive traffic and interest to my other social media platforms. And that is how, or so I believe, whomever the fuck got my Snapchat (and of course they chose the only platform I don't full understand how to use). (rant) And for the record, I'm not afraid of said threat. If anything, just annoyed. What is some little pansy ass bitch on an online strip club forum really going to do? I can handle myself and I don't mind using my self defense training. So if someone wants to threaten me, then fucking bring it because I'm not a fan of idle threats and empty promises. It's just somebody being a crybaby little bitch trying to intimidate me because I shared something he wrote to me in a moment of pathetic desperation in that discussion thread. (/rant)

"is wrong to just wonder?" While I do sincerely appreciate your curiosity and concern, was this public post absolutely necessary? A lot of other forum members follow me on other social media platforms and my Only Fans. Any of them could have let you know where to find me or how to contact me, but instead, you created a thread accusing me of having "emotional problems" aka mental health issues. 1. Why is it yours or anybody else's business? And 2. I hope you would share the same concern for other forum members who take a LOA for a few days instead of singling me out. There are no mental health issues or personal struggles involved. I just want to use the time I would spend here doing more productive things that may lead me to the success I'm seeking. Was a whole thread tarnishing me absolutely necessary to get that answer? A simple post expressing concern and asking if anybody could reach out to me on my other platforms would have sufficed. Not a whole attempted discussion on Waffle's "emotional problems". So, honestly, shame on you.

"If you’d rather not spill it’s all good idgaf just trying see what went down that’s it." Well, because you made this whole ass PUBLIC discussion post about me, I kind felt backed into a corner to have to give some kind of an explanation to make people stop making assumptions and accusations. Do you want to know what went down out of genuine concern or to be nosy? Fellow site members are accountable for me wanting to take time away. Some of the people here are absolutely psychotic and worthless and have zero respect for women. And my eyes hurt from rolling in my head so much with a lot of the stuff I read from those few I feel are slightly below me. There are so many other things I can do with my time than 1.) fend for myself in this discussion and 2.) educate and/or correct misconceptions about dancers and sex workers only to be rewarded with harassment and threats. I'm over it and I have shit to do other than visiting and participating in this forum (at least right now anyway).

And has anybody asked the question of who is Waffle even talking to or about in her profile? No. Only assumptions were made that I am speaking to the forum as a whole. Perhaps I got fed up with select previously named in prior comments psychotic site members being absolute condescending trash? 🤷‍♀️

Also, Desertscrub, I have had you ignored since the time you thought it would be cute to tell me what to do regarding my career (when I clearly never asked). I did see what you said in comments to the memes I posted when I was logged out. And I also saw what you said in a now deleted screenshot of a private message from me someone had posted to where you said "she's got issues." No, I don't. I just don't tolerate pieces of shit like yourself and see myself as better than you. You don't see me commenting condescending and rude things on photos others post, nor do you see me shoving unsolicited advice in peoples' faces. So, who here really has issues, bro? And with that fuck you and your stupid ass troll personalities (seriously, get a fucking life).

Hopefully this has been the amazing and wonderful conclusion people were seeking as I'm over defending and explaining myself. I feel I have fully and thoroughly explained these perceived "emotional problems" as me just wanting to utilize my time for other things that are currently more important to me. And any rebuttals or replies aren't going to be read by me. I have no desire to check this again, nor do I care to. And if anybody wants to keep in touch, plenty here have my social media information and they would probably have zero problems in sharing that in private messages (so long as it is not my private and personal Instagram). I'll still participate in reviews and whatnot, but as for the forum, for now,... deuces.

I think that Nina's initial post remains the most succinct and valid.

I'm also on board with Jimmy McNulty's line of reasoning.

Far be it from this rick to be the voice of reason, but maybe the muddy ape should focus on important things rather than continuing to poke WWaffle who clearly needs a break for the various perverts, weirdos, deviants, and zebras who post here.

For example, muddy ape could be thanking the members of the council who post on TUSCL for their insights, which I am sure he has tried to implement in his own life. Keep tryin’ buddy. A lil’ rickness will rub off on you some day!

In fact, can start thanking the ricks by thinking me for this very post. ROAR!!!

She’s back on her angry kick. She should be back in her meds. That’s an angry dancer. Blah blah blah and her could share notes.

I have always enjoyed Wiffle and the people giving her shit her are "men" in the same way that Islam is the religion of peace. Being mean to a girl on line how fucking wicked youth of you impotent repressed homos.

I agree with skibum609.

I just read Waffle's response to Muddy's Detroit inquiry. Great insight and info. Why on earth would you give a bunch of shit to and try to chase off a member like that? I really don't get the guys that target the women on this board. smh

"She’s back on her angry kick. She should be back in her meds. That’s an angry dancer. Blah blah blah and her could share notes."

Go stfu.

This thread started out lacquered in dumb sauce. Let it die.

Thus thread will live on as a demonstration of an angry stripper, and if you don’t like it, go STFU!

Bacon!!

Is it a rule you have to be a pussy to be a liberal male? Is it a rule that if you're a liberal male you hate women because you really want to be one? Does anonymously raggin on women make a liberal male a man? Wah, said the bitch from oregon, wah.

^ Is it a rule that if you have to be pissed off about everything if you’re a homeless crab pretending to be a fourth rate attorney and ski enthusiast?

I bet that your anger would melt away if you watched some sexy hairless apes take off their clothing.

Lol@ scrub!

She’s mad because of her RBF!

They're trying to give shit to me and scare me off because they are clearly insecure and have issues themselves. There's a reason they're on this forum talking about paying for sex and where to get it from. They're so insecure and immature, that they can't stand to be told what to do and don't like it when a woman stands up for herself because they want to feel in control. I bet they were bullied and butt fucked in school by jocks. Poor wittle babies.

I am so sorry to everybody here that I have self respect and stand up for myself to the human excrement that wipes itself across these forums. Last I checked, I'm not the one creating threads about people to shit on them (Muddy) or creating multiple profiles to troll proving I have no life and need therapy (Desert). I'm so sorry to all the forum members on here that these little kids run rampant on here. Again, there's a very clear and loud reason they're on here creating these threads and making such comments. I shall remain unbothered because I am still better than and so much more above them.

And especially Jim, who is still ignored. I have no idea what he said, but I'm sure it was a lovely and eloquent compliment given he's such a kind hearted and polite human being. 😂

I uploaded photos of myself basically to troll the trash. I noticed "Gee Love" quickly changed his tune. He's still a piece of shit though, much like Jim is. And if Muddy would love to apologize for creating this thread, I think many of us would actually appreciate that. But until then, he can also fuck off. 😘🥰

And Desert, I strongly believe your compliments are sarcastic. Honestly, just don't from now on. Thanks.

....And void the RBF!