Will the stripper be replaced?
Just had a look at the top forty list and to my surprise the top 2 clubs were Hot Lap Dance and Adelita Bar neither of which actually has a stage where dancers get up and take their clothes off. My question is has the era where women actually performed some type of strip act/dance on stage become a thing of the past? I know that in most of the clubs I frequent the strippers typically just walk around on stage topless sometimes lying on their backs but generally they just walk around. A few can still work the pole but less and less all the time. With this trend do we conclude that the stripper is soon to be replaced by the lapper and should we lament such a thing?
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The problem is some of these clubs will soon risk being shutdown as whorehouses or sex shops if they don't at least make a pretense of having a stage show
The stage show with the well lit stage and names annnounced (e.g 1 or 2 girls on stage at a time) where the whole room can focus on that one girl, I believe offers a much classier environment and I think putting these women (in a sense) on a pedestal is helpful for both the dancers and the customers. There is something about being on a real stage that provides a mystique to these girls -something out of the ordinary - vs the dark-stage/pervert row cattle call stage situation. The private dance customer is going to remember and admire seeing the girl he is now with (or in his AFT deal) under the lights with everyone seeing her
I think you can group most clubs into three broad categories: those clubs that are catering to guys who are there for a private and physically-intimate encounter and are willing to pay for it; those that cater to guys who are there for a couple drinks and to watch girls dance on stage; and those clubs that try to do both but don't usually provide as much contact as the first category of places. There are clearly customers for all 3 types of places because there are many areas like Baltimore where all 3 types co-exist in close proximity to each other and all do pretty well. And there are clearly strippers who avoid the first type of place.
Ever notice a girl looks better with lipstick on? It's our male brain I believe confusing sexual signals making her look better to us because our male brain is reminded of those red sexual lips. Maybe most other guys haven't noticed but I thought they did. Maybe most guys don't realize it's their more primitive brain making her look better and increasing her attraction. Sorry for the rant. FONDL, you made your point that you disagree with what I was saying but I'm wondering if you got a different interpretation of what I was thinking. I believe if you lost all sexual desire, the female of concern wouldn't be the least bit attractive to you. Sorry for the rant if it seems like that. I might be slightly offended at being put into a brothel group when I didn't mean to imply someone actually wanted to have sex, I was merely talking about the fantasy of going all the way deep down in the primitive brain which I try to ignore but know it's still there and affects how attractive a girl looks to me. I type fast as I'm thinking and don't proofread so I may have said it wrong about wanting to go all the way. I meant going all the way in the primitive brains fantasy.
I personally would indeed want the full service on occasion, and I also very much enjoy those clubs which enable it, whether or not I'm getting it. There are darkened corners, women who pretend to be full-on girlfriends for longer, and a greater "excitement" in the chase. For me. I perfectly understand anyone who wouldn't want that for their own strip-clubbing experience. It's kind of too bad for those folks, since it's like allowing smoking -- the atmosphere of available full-service (or just HJ or BJ) charges the whole location with risk of vice trade, and must be tolerated by the whole population of performers and customers, even if a given individual is not partaking of it.
I'm not familiar with strip clubs where you can have sex with strippers either so that's another world for me that I don't know about. Unless you talking about the exception to the rule, the stripper who might do something in one dark corner of the strip club but get fired if she gets caught.
The girls make money off the dollar parade. And I guess sitting and talking to customers. I will know more in a few weeks when I start working downtown DC and start going to these SC more often.