Splitting Favs Between Clubs?
Let's say you have two top faves at one club, which is becoming major pain in the ass since they both work a lot. One of them is looking at another club to dance at where you're also a regular, but many of the other regulars there are dicks and notorious lowballers.
If you were asked to give advice, would you set aside your own preference to give objective input or would you try to minimize the headache and lobby to split your favs regardless?
If you were asked to give advice, would you set aside your own preference to give objective input or would you try to minimize the headache and lobby to split your favs regardless?
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There is no reason she can't work both clubs.
She did en up moving, but not to that club, so at least I was happy. :/
I'd never give shitty advice to a dancer just for my own benefit.
So all of that is to say that your best interest and hers may not be as different as you believe. If she's seeking a change, it probably wouldn't hurt her to give it a shot. I'm guessing that you're not the only non-dick and non-lowballer visiting the place. For all you know, she may benefit from being a bigger fish in a smaller pond, or a hustle that works better in that second club, or...etc.,etc.
As far as two girls at the same club, I agree with the others. Get dances from who you want, where you want and when you want. As long as you’re politie about it, it’ll work out fine.
The question I posed was fairly simple. There might be more details to the move (featured girl, top earner, bigger pond, etc), but it was more of a conversation starter.
And it did indeed start the conversation, just not universally in the direction of the binary "yes" or "no" answers that you may have been seeking. My point was that maybe you're not in a position to give good advice on which club might be better for her, so maybe your best path is to encourage her to trust her own instincts instead. Just one opinion among many. :)
Actually I threw something out there because it seemed like something that would have a little more nuance than a yes or a no. I figured there'd be a variety of opinions. If I get asked for an opinion by a dancer on a topic that affects her earnings, I always answer those on the level just in case she may take the advice.
I'd personally be honest with her and tell her that the other club was full of dicks and low ballers if that was my honest view of it. At the same time I would tell her that I wouldn't have issue if she went over there, though. I other words, I would give her objective input first, then I'd give her my honest biased viewpoint too. I have a general rule of not doing a fave dirty. Also I'd only do this with faves I know I can trust, though. But usually I can or else she wouldn't be a fave.
I'm lost on this. Why is it a pain in the ass?
Does other fav get pissed off when you are with one?
If so - pick another fave.
Also - the other club - I have to assume you have a fave there too.
Why would someone assume that?
"If so - pick another fave."
Let's say for the sake of conversation these aren't just hypotheticals. As a person who clubs a lot in a lot of places, the bar to get to "favorite" is really high. Some dudes on here declare a favorite if she does the wrist flip across his pants while changing positions. But, yeah, point taken. All the decent backups in that club are aligned with one or the other, so that'll be interesting. I have one picked out to throw more money at, but already know where the problem lies there. On the pink site you get all these dancers talking about how it's all about dollars, but shit gets real when the dancers are actually friends (or more than friends) when the lights go up.
I did get banned for a while at one club, for truthfully telling another dancer how I thought she would do a lot better at several other clubs. They said it was because I asked for extras, however as I found out later that same day when I saw a dancer from there working at the now defunct Kahoots that she was fired because she had talked to a club recruiter, which for some reason they thought I was.
Dude. That's like getting called the poleece.
"so it doesn't really make much of difference which club a favorite of mine dances at."
If that's the case then you've got a good situation going in your town. My regular haunts are not set up that way. It makes a big difference which clubs the dancers can get hired into,