I'm 34M. Sometimes I dread this hobby because I feel like I should be looking for a relationship. I actually do want relationship but I am not putting in the time to look for women. I know I should probably do some public events or join some type of coed group. I really want to get a woman in her early 20s, but I need to do it in a way that doesn't seem like I'm stalking a university.
Any advice from the married or divorced guys. I think most of you are above 50 years old.
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last commentGet out there. Enjoy life. Go to bars. Join clubs. Go to places women are. Museums. Concerts. Approach them. Ask to get to know them better. Walk away if they decline your invitation.
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When is this "Old enough to know better" supposed to kick in?
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Sadly prob gotta go with the apps (try hinge) or do speed dating or bar hoping.
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You are too young to be fucking hookers and strippers
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@shadowcat
It kicks in after you aren't young enough to do it anyway
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60s.
Why do you want a relationship? Will you still want your 22-year-old when she's 37, even if she has crows feet and has put on weight? Are you up for marriage and kids?
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Just walk up to a girl youre attracted to and talk to her. Girls in their 20s aren't that jard to get
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Theres nothing to overthink
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@Owlyoung_ggofv
I will play along and comment on your discussion.
Q: How old are you guys?
A: Old enough to know that:
“In this country, you gotta make the money first.
Then when you get the money, you get the power.
Then when you get the power, then you get the women.”
~ Cuban refugee Tony Montana (Al Pacino) in the movie Scarface (1983)
Q: Any advice
A: Prioritize your physical and mental well-being through regular exercise, healthy eating, and stress management.
Invest in your career by developing your skills, networking, and seeking opportunities for advancement.
Cultivate strong relationships with family and friends, and be open to new connections.
Finally, embrace continuous learning and personal growth to navigate the evolving landscape of life with resilience and purpose,
And make as much money as possible, and become as powerful as possible. Think wealthy businessman Edward Lewis (Richard Gear in Pretty Woman 1990 American movie)
And don’t forget to be careful out there.
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