Even been called gay at the club?
Just wondering if that’s happened. If it did, how did it happen and how did you react?
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Recently. I was at a club and there were two patrons sitting together—one was older (I’ll call him O) and one was younger (I’ll call him Y). Y works for O, and they do business travel together. I mostly chatted with O and did a couple of dances, then went back to the bar area. O wanted to take a break, so I asked Y if it was his turn for some fun.
Y: I don’t do dances.
Me: Ah yeah, not feeling it tonight?”
Y: I don’t like this place.
Me: Ah, where do you like? Miami? Tampa?
Y: Haven’t liked it anywhere.
Me: Have you tried the Hunk-O-Mania?
Y: Huh?
Me: Ah, nothing. I’m just joking.
Y: wait, are you saying I’m gay? I’m not gay 😩😡
O: He’s married to a beautiful girl, he’s not gay.
Me: I believe it. Don’t mind me. I’m just being a goof ball.
Y: I am NOT gay. 😡
Me *turns to O* well I’ll leave you be for now. If you guys are still here, I’ll say hi again.
O: Sounds great. Please do.
I go out and about for another hour or two or so. And go back. O is sitting alone. I greet him again and there’s brief chat.
Me: where did Y go?
O: He’s off getting a dance.
Me: Ah, nice. Shall we go too?
O: Of course.
I do two songs with O. Head to stage. Return and do five more. Y had gotten dances that whole time or at least most of it. I saw Y glaring at me from the corner of my eye when I hugged O goodnight
I’m almost certain I gay shamed him into being another girl’s easy sale for the night. 😇 I guess that’s some good team player stuff right there. Mwahaha
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Recently. I was at a club and there were two patrons sitting together—one was older (I’ll call him O) and one was younger (I’ll call him Y). Y works for O, and they do business travel together. I mostly chatted with O and did a couple of dances, then went back to the bar area. O wanted to take a break, so I asked Y if it was his turn for some fun.
Y: I don’t do dances.
Me: Ah yeah, not feeling it tonight?”
Y: I don’t like this place.
Me: Ah, where do you like? Miami? Tampa?
Y: Haven’t liked it anywhere.
Me: Have you tried the Hunk-O-Mania?
Y: Huh?
Me: Ah, nothing. I’m just joking.
Y: wait, are you saying I’m gay? I’m not gay 😩😡
O: He’s married to a beautiful girl, he’s not gay.
Me: I believe it. Don’t mind me. I’m just being a goof ball.
Y: I am NOT gay. 😡
Me *turns to O* well I’ll leave you be for now. If you guys are still here, I’ll say hi again.
O: Sounds great. Please do.
I go out and about for another hour or two or so. And go back. O is sitting alone. I greet him again and there’s brief chat.
Me: where did Y go?
O: He’s off getting a dance.
Me: Ah, nice. Shall we go too?
O: Of course.
I do two songs with O. Head to stage. Return and do five more. Y had gotten dances that whole time or at least most of it. I saw Y glaring at me from the corner of my eye when I hugged O goodnight
I’m almost certain I gay shamed him into being another girl’s easy sale for the night. 😇 I guess that’s some good team player stuff right there. Mwahaha
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This reminds me of a time when a buddy came to visit and we planned to go to some strip clubs. He brought a friend. When I met the friend my gaydar went off. We all go to Spyce in downtown Portland and after about 10 min and getting hounded by strippers, the friend said he was "sick" and took off back to his hotel room.
But on that note I have heard from girls it's actually pretty common to see gay guys hit the female stripper clubs. I dunno what they do? Maybe they are recruiting for the mandatory dancer GBF.
Makes no sense to me.
She was going after a guy sitting next to me at the bar. I mean, she would not let up, but he was having none of it. Eventually, she let loose with the "What're you, fuckin' gay?" line.
He replied "No. But I can't prove it because you don't make me hard."
She lost her mind in a spectacular fashion. A bouncer had to pull her away.
Apart from the real thing unless their penis flops out.
Cream: do you want a dance?
Me: No thanks
Cream: do you want a dance
My buddy: No thanks
Cream: .... are you guys gay?
My buddy and I look at each other and start busting up -- literally laughing out loud. An annoyed look comes over her face, she definitely did not anticipate this reaction, and she storms off.
WCG
:D :D :D
I've only been asked if gay by ugly women in Dallas that don't understand they are not attractive to every customer. Never in any other clubs/cities.
Also the quote about the rocket or cannon, at first glance I thought it said it was from Super Troopers and that changes EVERYTHING lol.
@nicespice. Sounds like he was visibly upset by your joking. You mentioned he was flaring at while you were saying goodbyes to boss man. You probably hit the nail on the head. He may not be gay, but he definitely sou ds like he is questioning his sexuality? Possibly his beautiful wife is a cover to make him appear straight? He may be bisexual or at least bi-curious?
Me (jokingly)... am I gay and trying to act like I am enjoying the club?
Her... hell no! You are as straight as a guy can be.
Then she paused.
Her... on the other hand your friend (a buddy of mine who also gets dances from her) I wonder about him.
Me... what? You don't think he is straight?
Her... well, not totally.
Me... what do you mean?
Her... I think he has aaah "tendencies".
This was an interesting conversation, because this buddy of mine kept mentioning he was pissed at her for not telling him what she and I talk about when I saw her. I got the idea he was asking her about me and she would not say anything. Smart on her part...
I was caught off guard the first few times it happened and tried to "prove" I wasn't, nowadays I just lean in. There's been a few funny incidents where I've been waiting for my fave, who is both female & black, and turn down a few girls who make that accusation only to later see me with her. Once a girl even pulled her aside on her way to me and told not to waste her time with that "broke ass racist faggot bitch"
Earlier you said this...
"I have been asked if I was gay once 😁. Below is how it happened.
I was there with a friend, we just wanted to hang out so not much was happening, then a dancer sat on my friend's lap, they started talking and I joined, it went on for a while and it was fun. Then at some point she asked "Wait, are you guys gay?" 😁, I think she asked that because I'm assuming they don't expect someone else from the same group to engage with a dancer who is already in conversation. We laughed quite a bit and corrected her by pointing out that we were just close friends 😁. We were not offended, and I don't think she had an underlying motive for asking it. After that, she complimented us for being nice and upbeat, I actually felt quite flattered because of her comments 😁."
Seems like you nor your friend were offended by the cancer suggesting you two were gay. In fact you found it funny. You seem to be a completely straight guy with no doubts as to your sexual preference for women. You seem comfortable with your orientation and don't seen to have any need to hide who you are so you felt okay with someone asking if you are gay. If you were gay and were comfortable with that, you would have owned that in that moment and admitted or even flaunted your gayness. However, if you were gay or having gay tendencies and have not come to terms with that yet you would have reason to hide the fact and would see questions as to your orientation as a threat and you would become mad and feel accused. Then you may feel a need to "prove" yourself and do anything possible to prove you are straight.
In nicespices scenario, the guy got visibly mad to the point that his friend had to stick up for him and say he had a beautiful wife. He carried that even farther by getting dances from another dancer, and not just one or two by the sounds of it. He got mad, then he tried to prove he was straight by going overboard with getting lots of dances. If he were really trying to play some sort of moral ground, he may have gotten mad, but he would not have tried to prove himself.
Dude was gay. and not willing to admit it yet.
The girls know that I really like them.
Calling someone gay could lead to a 2amer.
SJG
SJG
@PSD the very few times I’ve knowingly encountered gay customers, I’ve had a good experience too. Buying dances for friends and the like 😁
Good discussion heaving. I like your thought process. Keep up the great posts
I can't see any of them doing that.
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Like insulting me would make me want to give them money, SMH.
The second time, I was in the COI hanging out when another customer sits right next to me and makes conversation, because the music is loud he sits rather close and talks directly into my ear asking questions about the dancers and the VIP room, and then he offers to buy me a drink (I pass) and after 10 minutes, he comes in real close and says "I think you are attractive" I tell him thank you but I am here for the dancers.
I proceed to walk to the other side of the room where 10 minutes later I invite a milfy dancer to give me a few lap dances then we ended up in the VIP room and 15 minutes later I walked out a few dollars and ounces lighter.
That said I was just at a club in Dallas a couple of nights ago. Some guy was looking my way at the urinal for way too long. I figured he was trying to throw off a vibe. I finished and got the hell out. Creepy fuck.