What does it take for you to remember a dancer?

Hi Book Guy,

I'm probably on a much tighter budget or am just a lot cheaper. :) The dancer with the boyfriend issue really convinced by actions. She would just stop counting dances and let herself go.

I concur with the first characteristics, but for me the home-run wouldn't be that she doesn't overcharge, etc. Rather, for me, the home-run is that she convinces me that she "really wants" to spend time in my company and kind of "regrets" taking my money after it's all over. I know, it's just a fantasy. That's why I said, "she convinces me" ...

I don't see the need for a spreadsheet, because by the time I got it down, I probably forgot half the stuff anyway. I always remember girls by their look. Of course, that becomes a problem if they change it, but some things, like height or skin color, can't change. I usually have their name down by the third visit. Then again, if they got an interesting name, it might be less than that.

fortunately I still have a memory like a steel trap!

I remember a stripper more by her face than her stage name. I don't usually bother trying to remember stripper names, because A) They're fake, and often sound fake, B) Chances are I'll never see her again, and C) If I do, I'll know it's her by her face, not her name.

As for what makes me remember a stripper, it's usually a memorable experience I've had with her, and I don't mean a nice chat.

I have a very good memory, so I remember them all...it's nothing personal about the dancer, just one of my little idiocyncracies.

She has to be nice to me and she has to be attractive. What's so hard about that?

If she looks very pretty, I might remember her longer than many others. The more time I spent with her especially outside of any busy club, the better the odds are I'll remember her. Maybe I should start taking pics so my mind will be like a steel trap. If it's not, I could just pull out the pic. :)

I don't even bother trying to remember stage names unless they're one of my favorites. I've had a few dancers tell me both their stage name and their real name as they introduced themselves to me. If a dancer tells me her real name, she should also tell me if she's minds me using her real name in the club. Perhaps her first name is ok. Not that I would remember it longer than an hour or two. Maybe less if I was drinking and 20 more dancers told me their names.

Like most of you, I don't try to remember strippers' names (except to post a review). Their physical make up and my experience with them are more important, and will tell me if I want another round with them. And......... no, I ain't going into that either!!!! :-( LOL

"What does it take for you to remember a dancer?" I'm not sure. I forgot already.

One good trick at least to make me remember for at least a day or two is too wear a top where your nipples keep popping out without any effort. That was a neat trick. Maybe her breasts were too big for the outfit. I keep remembering she would adjust herself and then her nipples would suddenly pop back out after about 30 seconds. I didn't say much since I was so distracted.

Her being Asian is always a plus for me! You know, the beautiful, long, straight, jet black, hair and the perfect skin. Friendly and pleasant to be around.

Ah, I remember her well!

It is a combination of looks--near perfection (short, no fat, skin not marred by scars or tats, good teeth, etc.) and sensitivity--her heart races, breasts harden. Innocence also would count for a lot in a slow club where you can get to know her.

The homerun is if she doesn't overcharge and throws in an extra dance or a little more heat than normal.

All of this can go down the drain with inconsistency--level of contact, appreciation of business, difference in personality, etc. Unless there is a good reason. One dancer would only ask me for dances when there was a gap in her serious dating--boyfriend cheated, boyfriend took off, boyfriend is too new, etc.