What does it take for you to remember a dancer?

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• jablake

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  17 years ago

  Hi Book Guy,
  
  I'm probably on a much tighter budget or am just a lot cheaper. :) The dancer with the boyfriend issue really convinced by actions. She would just stop counting dances and let herself go.
  
  
• Book Guy

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  17 years ago

  I concur with the first characteristics, but for me the home-run wouldn't be that she doesn't overcharge, etc. Rather, for me, the home-run is that she convinces me that she "really wants" to spend time in my company and kind of "regrets" taking my money after it's all over. I know, it's just a fantasy. That's why I said, "she convinces me" ...
  
• DandyDan

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  17 years ago

  I don't see the need for a spreadsheet, because by the time I got it down, I probably forgot half the stuff anyway. I always remember girls by their look. Of course, that becomes a problem if they change it, but some things, like height or skin color, can't change. I usually have their name down by the third visit. Then again, if they got an interesting name, it might be less than that.
• lotsoffun201

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  17 years ago

  fortunately I still have a memory like a steel trap!
• chandler

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  17 years ago

  I remember a stripper more by her face than her stage name. I don't usually bother trying to remember stripper names, because A) They're fake, and often sound fake, B) Chances are I'll never see her again, and C) If I do, I'll know it's her by her face, not her name.
  
  As for what makes me remember a stripper, it's usually a memorable experience I've had with her, and I don't mean a nice chat.
• chitownlawyer

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  17 years ago

  I have a very good memory, so I remember them all...it's nothing personal about the dancer, just one of my little idiocyncracies.
• FONDL

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  17 years ago

  She has to be nice to me and she has to be attractive. What's so hard about that?
• casualguy

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  17 years ago

  If she looks very pretty, I might remember her longer than many others. The more time I spent with her especially outside of any busy club, the better the odds are I'll remember her. Maybe I should start taking pics so my mind will be like a steel trap. If it's not, I could just pull out the pic. :)
  
• casualguy

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  17 years ago

  I don't even bother trying to remember stage names unless they're one of my favorites. I've had a few dancers tell me both their stage name and their real name as they introduced themselves to me. If a dancer tells me her real name, she should also tell me if she's minds me using her real name in the club. Perhaps her first name is ok. Not that I would remember it longer than an hour or two. Maybe less if I was drinking and 20 more dancers told me their names.
• ThisOldManPlayed1

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  17 years ago

  Like most of you, I don't try to remember strippers' names (except to post a review). Their physical make up and my experience with them are more important, and will tell me if I want another round with them. And......... no, I ain't going into that either!!!! :-( LOL
• casualguy

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  17 years ago

  "What does it take for you to remember a dancer?"
  I'm not sure. I forgot already.
  
  One good trick at least to make me remember for at least a day or two is too wear a top where your nipples keep popping out without any effort. That was a neat trick. Maybe her breasts were too big for the outfit. I keep remembering she would adjust herself and then her nipples would suddenly pop back out after about 30 seconds. I didn't say much since I was so distracted.
• Clubber

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  17 years ago

  Her being Asian is always a plus for me! You know, the beautiful, long, straight, jet black, hair and the perfect skin. Friendly and pleasant to be around.
  
  Ah, I remember her well!
• jablake

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  17 years ago

  It is a combination of looks--near perfection (short, no fat, skin not marred by scars or tats, good teeth, etc.) and sensitivity--her heart races, breasts harden. Innocence also would count for a lot in a slow club where you can get to know her.
  
  The homerun is if she doesn't overcharge and throws in an extra dance or a little more heat than normal.
  
  All of this can go down the drain with inconsistency--level of contact, appreciation of business, difference in personality, etc. Unless there is a good reason. One dancer would only ask me for dances when there was a gap in her serious dating--boyfriend cheated, boyfriend took off, boyfriend is too new, etc.