How do dancers think of you...
Call.Me.Ishmael
Rhode Island
... as a customer?
Not sure how this will go as a discussion topic. I'm not asking what they tell you they think about you (with your chiseled good looks and massive cock...).
But rather, when you walk in the door and they see you, do they think 'dependable', 'funny', 'fun drunk', 'not-fun drunk', 'cheapskate', 'whale', etc.
To some degree, I know that a lot of guys here don't care, but I suspect that we all think about it at times.
This will be easier to answer if you are a regular at a particular club.
For the dancers... do you categorize customers? If you do, then how?
Not sure how this will go as a discussion topic. I'm not asking what they tell you they think about you (with your chiseled good looks and massive cock...).
But rather, when you walk in the door and they see you, do they think 'dependable', 'funny', 'fun drunk', 'not-fun drunk', 'cheapskate', 'whale', etc.
To some degree, I know that a lot of guys here don't care, but I suspect that we all think about it at times.
This will be easier to answer if you are a regular at a particular club.
For the dancers... do you categorize customers? If you do, then how?
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I’m pretty sure the dancers that I know like me, some more,some less, now saying that this is my qualifying remarks, I generally spend between $2-300.00 each visit, so I’m sure I’m not cheap, in the clubs I visit regularly I usually have a few girls join me within minutes of my arrival, I don’t always do dances, and even though I have some favorites, there is never a bunch of drama, when I drink with the girls, and usually the bartender joins our group as best as she is able to in between service to other customers.
One thing I never do is talk about any other girls and if the convo becomes gossipy I listen but don’t comment. I get comped drinks regular and don’t remember the last time I was asked to pay the entrance charge in my regular hangout clubs, so yes I believe that I am well enough liked
The small black clubs I hit most people don't spend much if anything on the dancers - I'm not too picky w.r.t. dancers, like variety, and I'm not a hardsell in that I don't need nor necessarily want a lot of attention/time in order to get me to buy dances and actually don't mind the wanna dance line.
Other than that, I get the "you're pretty smart" line.
I've had a few instances come up over the past few years which allow me to believe in some cases they do like me for me. Feedback of sorts and two instances where other clients have come up to me and basically asked me what is it I have going for me
And I agree with twentyfive never talk about any of the other girls regardless if they become gossipy or not.
Like it when I perform magic for the bar. They like my laugh. The bartender always buys me a drink or two. The owner of a couple sell me my top shelf LIT for $6. But, I am a good tipper, I get customers and staff laughing, I cause no trouble, I tip the front door crowd and I have a damn good time. All the bartenders call me their favorite bitch, whatever that means. Lol.
First and foremost, what I hear that I'm easy to talk to. I'm calm and relaxed, make direct eye contact and have a no BS attitude. I've also been told that I'm funny. However, these same girls have also seen me send other girls away and poke fun when I hear some goofy SS. Girls who sits with me for a while almost inevitably come back the next time, which helps a lot when I'm trying to land a tough one for OTC. The girls who do go OTC with me are usually eager to repeat (and I won't credit my hug cock for that, lol). So what I'm doing works for me and seems to work for them too.
My ATF once said to a club bartender that I don't seem to give a shit about anything. This was in response to the bartender telling her that I'd be happy to see her after she had been gone for so long. For the most part she is right, but not completely. However, when they are convinced that this is all shits and grins for me, it makes it easier for them to relax. At the same time, they also quickly learn that I'll treat them with dignity and casual kindness and won't be a source of drama.
On the f;lip side, the girls who I don't like probably think of me as a rude asshole. Good as this means they won't further bother me with their unattractive asses, painful SS or whatever else got them sent away so fast in the first place.
Again though, as far as what any of these girls really thinks in her heart of hearts, I neither know nor ponder for any length of time. At the end of the day, we all go home to others. The people who need to chew on this are, I suppose, those who seem to have trouble dealing with strippers. As long as I'm not having that problem, i'm good to go.
Is that because you actually are because they dumped a load in your basement?
In general I guess its just common sense stuff.
Younger guys usually don't spend much unless they're drug dealers lol and most will just try to waste your time.
Middle aged white men make the easiest marks.
Blue collar guys coming in during the afternoon will spend more cos they usually get paid daily. I mean guys like construction workers, gardeners and stuff.
Regular customers tend to be weird and demanding but its good to always greet them and make some small talk just cos its always a guaranteed tip at least. This is especially true of the guys who just sit at the bar drinking all the time. If a club has a few, its an easy $100 by just being nice to them for a few minutes.
I always look for wedding rings or wedding ring marks. Married men tend to be more drama and have guilt issues. They're also the ones most likely to complain to management about "ROBs" get too drunk and throw fits about how much they spent.
What men wear has nothing to do with how much they'll spend. But you can tell a bit about their personality.
What do they THINK of me ???? Why wouldn't it be the same thing they tell me ?
Reality: I finish too quickly and don't tip enough.
One of them seems to think of me as a sort of friend. She tells me all kinds of stuff that a couple of the other girls say she doesn’t tell anyone else. She doesn’t hustle me like
She does some others, and she’ll get naked and fuck me fairly regularly O or ITC.
For another, I am apparently one of only three or four regulars she has, and the only one that comes in virtually every week and never fails to buy her a drink or a dance. She claims that I’m fairly atypical, because I don’t get butt hurt when she says she won’t fuck me, I still buy her drinks and dances even after she’s says she won’t fuck me, and that I am the only one who’s ever asked her more than once.
The MILF just keeps me around for my tongue.
The ATF seems to like me for me.
But most of them are right.
i do wonder what they think of me in the initial size up when theyre on stage eyeballing the crowd. i would guess: "nerd, nice guy, hes having fun, chill, does he even have money? (i do otherwise i wouldnt be there but i never throw it around), def an assman, hmm the bartender likes him, ??" but who knows. That information would be an absolute goldmine, for real life too. I know IM sizing THEM up for a target for the night and have similar thoughts in between thinking about how id fuck and/or lick them in half lol "hot but lazy, low mileage, high mileage, hardworker, sultry as fuck, no soul, she def likes me, she def hates me, "thats like one finger of ass cleavage"...next, not my type, exactly my type, everythings fake...pass, flat stomach and everything else jiggles...did she just wink at me?!!? target acquired!"
Your business is appreciated but you aren't "liked" as a person. No dancer goes home to her man and says "honey you wouldn't believe how nice the custies were today!" LMFAO
Wallanon, when dancers think about guys who go to VIP, we dont think of it as being picked, we think of it as us finessing the guy.
A lot of them also tell me afterwards that because of my large size (overweight not dick size) that they thought I wouldn't last long. A few have even complained about being tired from riding me the entire length of time.
When I did have regulars in the past they saw me as easy reliable money. They knew that I would just tip each of the dancers at the stage for a while to get worked up and then call them over, buy them a quick drink, go to VIP to fuck and then leave and then I'd be back in 3-4 weeks to repeat.
... that's sums it up. Generally.
^^ this sums it up. I don't need to rewrite it
I've had a lot of different reactions. Been called several names. Some good, some not so good. Of course not all dancers know me and some have attitude problems. I don't want to be their friend if they have a bad attitude. I'd rather be known as a trouble maker than a clueless guy by some dancer used to taking advantage of customers in a club. One time dancers thought I was undercover ALE. I thought it was funny for a while. One or two dancers asked me if I was a professional masseuse. One asked me if I was an artist. I do have an interest in some art. One dancer whom I got along with was a painter. She actually had paintings at the club and showed me one night. I didn't realize until later she wanted to date me. One of the oldest dancers in the club at the time, same age as me. This was a long time ago. About 7 years ago. Both the dancer and myself looked like we were in our 30's at the time. She told me one guy asked if it was ok with her BF referring to me if she danced for him. I guess she spent so much time with me, somone assumed I must be a BF. I don't have any dancers spending that much time with me but it always seems to be raining and I hate traveling at night in the rain.
On my best *and* worst shifts money-wise, my thinking was mostly emotion based and I think of a customer in terms of how relatable he is for me.
I’m sure it’s the same in every industry, you meet enough folks over a long period of time, you find some you like some you dislike and the rest are somewhere in between.
Cardi B - Washpoppin
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-39SFNDi…
Now give me all that money you be spending on your chick
Now give me all that money you be spending on your kid
Now give me all that money you been stacking for your rent nigga
I'm just into making money I ain't into making love"
ROTFLMFAO
I tip well, I’m respectful of the dancers, I tell the dancers what I want before I agree to any dances. Most dancers are from a different culture - and I’m not sure how I am perceived.
Hopefully I’m not the creepy old guy!
Anyone saying anything different is full of shit and you can tell them I said so.
Employees always vent about their employers and customers that means nothing, it’s just venting.
When I posted this thread last August, I didn't intend it to be a PL Rorschach test, but it sort of turned into that:
https://www.tuscl.net/app/discussion.php…
With this topic, sort of the same thing. I didn't ask if anyone cared what they thought of you, and I didn't ask about what they tell you they think (I actually suggested avoiding that entirely...). I asked what opinion do you think dancers have of you, regardless of whether or not you care or that opinion can be confirmed.
I mean, it's logical to assume that dancers have different opinions of different customers, without even getting into whether or not they "like" us. We certainly have a range of opinions about dancers, and express them here broadly and in reviews specifically.
It's interesting how people read the question they'd rather answer, as opposed to the one that was asked.
; )
I'm not sure they do
If you want to test the "like" factor out. Ask them to hangout on their days off, for free.
I think that's the crux of it 99% of the time - IMO many SCers confuse dancer appreciation w/ something more - not uncommon for salespeople to act all lovey-dovey towards their clients, or anyone that works with customers, you will treat them a certain way and put your best face forward and try to make them feel special