How many "Free" songs do you give for lame dances?

18 comments

• Dominic77

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  6 years ago

  1. I used to give 2. But now it's 1.
• MrGreene

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  6 years ago

  That's reasonable. If the first dance is lame, chances are the rest will be as well.
• Huntsman

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  6 years ago

  Zero. If she’s not into it, that’s fine, but then I’m going to look elsewhere.
• rattdog

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  6 years ago

  yeah one is the magic number. sometimes the curiosity will be worth to see how it's going to be for a test run. some wind up to be real good while the others just suck real bad, makne me go "never ever again."
• PaulDrake

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  6 years ago

  First of all are you talking about it being a lame dance or a dance that just isn't to your liking? One thing I have learned from this forum is that guys preferences in lap dances vary massively. Some of us like a lot of position changing and some of us don't. Some of us like a intense porno style experience and some of us want a more affectionate romantic experience. For me my willingness varies depending on how interested I am in them. With a good candidate for ATF DS then I have spent hundreds of dollars on dances and slowly coached the dancer into the style I prefer. But other times I am 1 and done.
• theDirkDiggler

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  6 years ago

  If a dance is still bad after two minutes, i pretty much decide to call it one and done. It's the just okay dances that start getting just a little bit better toward the end that used to trick me into getting another dance just like that. I also might give a super hot dancer one more dance if the first one was just okay.
• MrGreene

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  6 years ago

  Judging by the responses, it seems I'll need to re-adjust my "free" song limit to just one lame song. I usually like to give them time to warm up but more often than not, the quality of their first song is a good indicator of the quality of the rest of the dances.
• rh48hr

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  6 years ago

  I think it depends on the cost of dances. At $10 you can afford to give them 2 dances to show what they have. At $20 per, its one and done on lame. Although I have cut dancers off after one even at $10 if they don't take their top off or if the dance is no contact.
• Jascoi

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  6 years ago

  if the first dance is lame... that’s it. finished.
• IHearVoices

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  6 years ago

  I used to give one song, but now I don't give any. I think someone above said two minutes, and that's about where I am now. I'll let the song finish because I paid for a whole song, but my mind is made up by that point: if she does that 'get good at the end' nonsense, it totally turns me off. This stuff can be found out before reaching an LD area, though. I think it was shadowcat who said once that a girl's sales pitch is indicative of her dancing style: one of the best tips I've learned on here.
• chessmaster

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  6 years ago

  1. Too many others that will give effort on the first song.
• chessmaster

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  6 years ago

  "At $20 per, its one and done on lame." Good point. The more expensive the dance the less leeway i give them for stuff like this.
• wallanon

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  6 years ago

  Half a song. It's rare I'll stop a dancer part way through the first song, but I did that a little ways back during a VIP. I'd paid the floor charge and wasn't going to waste another minute with that lemon. Walked her back downstairs then picked the girl I'd skipped over because she smelled like smoke and perfume. Had to work out the smelly clothes problem later but landed a much better VIP experience.
• flagooner

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  6 years ago

  If the first isn't good enough it's one and done. Too many play the game of increasing mileage through the first 3-4 songs. Fuck that. If im paying for a song I want my money's worth. It's the same as the dancers who go with the "Dances are $10, but for $20 I'll give you something to remember." That's crap. If the dances are really good i tip. I don't put up with girls who consciously hold back for reasons other than club rules.
• Smalltowncpl

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  6 years ago

  One and done. If I'm not impressed with the first one I'm sure she is not going to get any better.
• Subraman

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  6 years ago

  I don't understand why anyone would have any other answer than "one and done". Why in the world would you waste your money on a bad dance, and then buy another?
• SirLapdancealot

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  6 years ago

  One song max. If it really sucks I will even stop her before it ends.
• Dominic77

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  6 years ago

  @wallanon posted: "Half a song. It's rare I'll stop a dancer part way through the first song, but ..." ^^^ oooh. I like this answer better. Because I really decide halfway through the first dance. Thinks she does in the last 30 seconds just tell me she's holding back to sell more dancers versus trusting me and giving me the good dance to begin with. e.g., takes off her top the last 30 seconds of the first dance, on order to sell the second dance as topless. The slight exception would be nude dances, because it does take time to strip. versus just taking off her bra. But she better be full nude before the end of the first dance.