In my experience, nearly any stripper will eventually ask you to the VIP room if you show interest and money. Two choices need to be made, though, if the intent is to get as much mileage as possible out of the VIP trip:
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Do you ask to go to the VIP when you’ve decided you’re ready or do you play coy and make her feel like she’s got to convince you?
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How many table and private dances do you go through before you get to the VIP?
My take: I prefer to show some money and show that my eyes are open. Even if the first stripper is the one I want, I can trust that if I throw some dollars her way and tell her not to forget me tonight if/when she offers VIP, I can still end up with her. But seeing the field gives me at least a tiny amount of leverage on her.
For the same reason, I prefer to be asked to the VIP rather than doing the asking. The most I’ve gotten has always come when I have been most reticent to go. (Often when I’m tightest on money, for one reason or another, and that $400 is gonna be the end of my night.
But many of you have much more experience than me, so I’m curious for what you’ve seen work.
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I probably have less experience than you, but I prefer to just ask myself. Keep in mind that some clubs convince dancers not to ask for VIP so much as to not seem "too pushy". I appreciate the interaction of being seduced into getting a dance. It can become annoying if done a few too many times. I mentally pick out 2-3 dancers from the crowd and then ask myself how much I want to spend tonight (same reasons as you).
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Its true that theres a different psychology at play if shes trying to sell you a dance vs. you just asking to buy one.
But the problem is, if you didnt discuss things beforehand, once you agreed to the dance, all she has to do is dance.
You could get good mileage if she takes her work seriously, or if she wants you as a long term customer
But if you said yes to a dance that might be all she provides
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