Having gone to strip clubs for fifteen years and having numerous regulars, I would say the thing that was most likely to lead to a early career end was a large weight gain. This was even more the case than drug or alcohol abuse.
When I left my wife many years ago, part of the reason was her becoming obese from a bad diet. Living with her was influencing me to gain weight also because I was adopting her health habits. My weight and health much improved after we broke up. I have dropped some stripper regulars because of extreme weight gain but I have kept seeing a few old favorites I liked. They had to quit pretty soon anyway, though, because they had trouble competing with the better looking strippers. They were also not living with me and preparing my meals so their bad diet was not having a negative influence on me.
Do you drop regulars when they put on a lot of weight and have lost their attractiveness or, like me, do you keep visiting a few dancers just because you have known them a long time and have formed some sort of attachment to them?
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last commentAs long as they still swallow at the same price, I stay loyal !!
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I still like fat girls if their face looks good. So it depends on whether they store a lot of fat in the face.
Some people can gain a lot of stomach fat but not gain much fat in their face.
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I had a gorgeous milf ATF who put on about 30lbs in a matter of months. It wasn’t like i dropped her to be mean, she was a sweet lady. I just wasn’t attracted to her anymore.
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Yeah, after covid I had to ask the DJ "is that the same 'Sunshine' that was here year and a half ago?"
Bummer, her tits were still great, not changed much, but there was just too much of the rest of her.
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;) Al Bundy and Barney “Barnacle” Stinson- No Fat Chicks!
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All my favorites left the club and moved on while I was still attracted to them.
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You're more forgiving than me, Doc. It doesn't take 30 lbs, either. Even 10 lbs of weight gain is enough to remove a girl from LD/VIP consideration.
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Even at my advanced age, I still see women (at least physically) through the eyes of 22 year old me. So when I see a woman who could be 10 or so years older than the 22 year old me, I'm not really interested. There are probably a few exceptions, but generally, age is the other boner killer for me.
That said, I have actually been with a couple of women in their mid-30's, but it was pretty hard to get or keep Junior excited about it.
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I haven’t encountered this, but I’m with Rod. I would drop a dancer in a heartbeat if she gained noticeable weight. I’m fit and hold women to the same standard. Get in the gym, eat decently and don’t rack disciprine
Hanna, what do you have to say about the personality and emotional differences between 20 something and 30 something dancers? Some guys don’t care about any of that, just curious since you brought up 20s > 30s
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Covid was an interesting experience, because I think 90 percent of strippers put on weight during covid visibly. Many never came back or tried and failed.
I'm a lot more tolerant of thickness than the average customer. I love big natural tits more than a slim build. But unfortunately a lot of girls who are soft and sexy at 21 are fat by 25.
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Yeah, I'll stop seeing a dancer if she gets fat. That said, I can't say I've ever really thought to myself "this chick is getting chunky, time to move on." It's usually a more gradual thing, the value proposition of seeing her degrades over time. She gain's a little weight, gets a little less enthusiastic in bed or starts showing up late for OTC, or has other issues.
I suppose maybe it's just me noticing those other flaws more once the shine of that perfect body isn't there, but in my head I'm not usually moving on cause she gained a few pounds, its cause she's just overall not worth it anymore.
The more singular and immediate thing to end our relationship is usually getting fake tits or bbl. I've absolutely told girls no thanks upon seeing that stuff. Not every girl who gets her tits done its immediately off my list, but more often than not.
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There are plenty of old and fat strippers and junkies can be highly functionable.
The biggest career enders Ive seen were girls who got married and started families. Girls who went to some kind of school and got a good job. Although some still dance occasionally. Some just picked up and moved to start a new life. The biggest one is girls who quit the clubs to work the blade.
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As for dumping girls who gained a lot of weight. I never thought I would. Never thought theu could gain so much. But there are 2 dancers i saw after a long time and dont want anything to do with them because of their weight.
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Once a hoe Always a hoe. Only thing that changes is the price.
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Chronic. Having spent much of my career working with and dealing with college age students (interns, athletes) I honestly prefer being around younger folks, as opposed to older folks who are 45+. The youngsters seem to have far more positive energy, hope, dreams and goal; and far less anger, cynicism, ect than older folks. Never hear them saying "been there, done that" which indicates inflexibility and resignation to me. Younger folks never seem to be upset about somebody getting and taking advantage of an opportunity that they never got. They seem very willing to work hard and take direction, at least in my experience. With very few exceptions, I would very much rather hang with the younger folks who seem to have more hope, positivity and openness to new, different ideas and experiences than folks my age, who often seem fatigued by life and a little put out by the perception that the younger generation has it easier than I did. There is a lot more "What I'm going to do" as opposed to "what I've done" in the younger person's conversations. When I find myself telling stories from the old days, I have to tell myself to knock it off. Nobody cares about what I used to do. What's important is what I'm doing now and what I plan to be doing tomorrow. That's just my experience with young people over the past 20 years.
When it comes to dancers in the club, I just find women in their 20's more attractive than women in their 30's. I'm not there for their brains or personality.
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Luna needs to hang up the heels
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The smart strippers strike while the iron is hot and know when to quit. They intuitively know it's a young woman's game and eventually they will lose a lot of their appeal, e.g., their cuteness wears off, etc. While they're young, they can be selective and fool around with PL's they find attractive, have some fun and make some money, too. The sex they experience during this time is rationalized as validating their desirability. All in an ultra safe environment. They know working at a club long term will cause them to become a worn out jaded hoe which they want to avoid. I find women in their 20's are prime stripper material and the most desirable have an exit plan.
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Regarding uncle wills point, even non hoes can be hoes with the right price. I mean how many guys would refuse a million bucks…
Regarding weight issues, more guys than ever are into fatter girls nowadays. Thicker girls are in, but so are fatter girls. Ive seen some indian, black, latino dudes with some extremely fat white chicas before…
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@wisetoo why is it that the most desirable have an exit plan? I dont think theres a correlation between looking better and being more likely to have an exit plan. The better looking ones could maybe get wifed up easier, more easily find a rich guy to take care of them, if those fall under exit plans
If anything the hotter ones can continue stripping for longer and not need to worry as much about an exit plan
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I like women for the entire portion of their lifecycle where they retain a nice feminine shape- well into what most of you would consider quite fat - but even I have limits. Honestly stripping and dancing in general is a sport for smaller women; everything from spinning on the pole to sitting on my lap is affected negatively by excess weight.
I disagree that most strippers give up when they "hit the wall" of looks- I think they usually retire to civilian relationships or remote sex work.
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I once had a fat dancer who wouldn't leave me alone. I was really direct with her but she wouldnt go and started demanding $100 to go away. I just ignored her like she wasnt there. She complained to the bouncer that I didnt tip her. And when I left actually followed me out to see what car I was getting into. She was shaped like an egg
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You might think there was some sort of correlation with BMI, but nope. Post covid it is astonishing how make certifiably obese (and I mean offensively fat not just a little thick) women are dancing in clubs.
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