Went into Lido's in Cocoa Beach in the afternoon. The DJ was a girl. It was kind of sad. She would call the dancers up onto the Stage and they would ignore her. It was like she had no respect at all.
> Is the DJ always male? Any of you guys go to clubs that have a female DJ? If so how do they compare?
The female DJ is hotter when I tip her in her pants. By far. They will have to put up a sign saying no customers in the DJ booth or there won't be any music when y'all are getting lapdances. I would definitely lick the underside of the male DJ's penis, but it's not my preference compared to a she. At least, this is my grayman strategy. I actually kind of like him maybe just a little. Don't tell the strippers, though. They talk between themselves and I fear they might judge me.
I have only seen a few. The last one I remember was at Vanity Factory in San Antonio, TX. I'm sure it's just a coincidence that club is now out of business.
Nope. The DJ I work with when I go to dance in Daytona Beach is a girl, and she's one of the best one I've worked with in terms of dancer requests/tip out/customer song requests/song length in VIP/not talking too much/overall awesomeness.
There was a club i used to go to hears ago that had a female dj, was in northestern PA about 20 yeats ago. She was a previous dancer at the place so knew "what went on in the back". If you were on your way to the back if you slipped her a few bucks she'd play really long songs. She was also known to give a handy in the restroom in between sets. Really miss that place.
I have never, ever seen a female DJ in a strip club. I have also clubbed a lot in regular dance clubs across the USA in large cities and it is extremely, and I mean extremely rare to even see a female DJ there.
It’s kinda like gender roles:
Men: bouncer, DJ, bar back, manager, stage MC
Women: stripper / dancer, waitress, person collecting money at the door
Long-time DJ at King of Diamonds in the Twin Cities is a woman. She has a sexy voice but it's hard to hear specifically what she's saying...it doesn't cut through the treble of the sound mix well.
There is a female DJ at hiliter in Phoenix. She does a really good job. Good music, very low key. The only reason you notice her initially is her voice. After that, you don't notice her which is good because it means she's not annoying you like so many other DJ's.
@shailynn Monroe’s in West Palm Beach had a female manager for a while when they opened, she quit after a dispute with the owner, and prior to her becoming a manager she was an extremely popular bartender.
When I lived in Dallas there was a popular FM-station called Jack-FM that had mo DJs other than some pre-recorded voice once in a while with some pre-recorded comments thay were actually pretty-funny - I liked that station and liked the lack of a DJ.
I like the no DJ idea also. If I want to know a girls name, I will go up and ask her. But someone would have to be responsible for getting the girls onstage. You could always have the club manager do that.
^^^ It shouldn’t be difficult to set up a rotation, and they could enforce it pretty easily with fines for missing a turn, it’s not like rocket science or anything.
I’ve heard a couple of female DJs over the years but can’t recall which clubs. I vaguely recall that they came across as a little less irritating than male DJs.
Tootsies has monitors with the stage lineup - as far as I can recall I don't think I've ever heard the DJ @ Tootsies call dancers to the stage - so it seems to be some type of passive/automated system. Next time @ Tootsies I'll have to ask a dancer how they know when they need to go on stage and how they don't miss their turn (never noticed the stage empty b/c of a late dancer).
This is a few years ago, but Tootsies used to have an electronic board that kept the dancer rotation on it. I don't know if that's how the girls kept track but if a RIL was there, he could know how many dancers before his heartthrob was due up.
I've only seen one female DJ but it looks like she also used to be a dancer there. She isn't a very good DJ as her voice doesn't seem to be at the standard and I found her often repeating the same things
Only ran into a female DJ once, at a Rhino club in the SFV here in LA. Never got to see what she looked like, tho. She was only a mysterious and sexy voice. It was interesting listening to her announce the dancers on stage, and she wasn't annoying and asking everyone to tip the girls all the time like some DJ's do. It also was a bit odd to hear a woman's voice over the PA announcing that my VIP was over. I liked it. It brought a different feel to the club. I haven't been there in a long time, so I wonder if she is still there.
I remember one years ago at Shakers in Waverly, NE outside Lincoln. I also remember one at one of the Quad Cities clubs in Iowa. Nothing spectacular about either of the two.
Ha! I’m surprised I hadn’t heard that one! Actually, our djs are pretty professional. I barely notice if there’s a female one announcing, and I’ve never even heard a customer remark when it’s a female.
I've gone to clubs a couple times that had a female DJ. One was at one of the lower end Providence clubs, Club Fantasies. She was a huge, huge woman, maybe 500 pounds. So I doubt she was a former stripper.
The other was at the Fantasy Ranch out in Missouri. Now this one was definitely a dancer. She was *constantly* on the mic telling the customers to tip. It was a slow day shift with only 3 or 4 people, and she would single out customers and tell them to give a dollar to the girl on stage. "Yes, you, give her a dollar" "Ok, hi e another one", etc. Super annoying so I didn't stay long.
Papi, the daytime dj at the Body Club would probably not play it so fucking loud if he was a female! That guy is balling at the booth and hitting up all the thick dancers asking them what songs they want him to play. You can’t even tell which song is different from the others because they all run together.
I remember someone debating with a dancer over song counts. The PL just told me he tipped her less to settle the argument. At $5/song, why not? That place is unique (Body Club).
A lot of our local clubs don't announce the dancer. Sometimes the girls just program their music, from what is available on a CD Juke Box. It works out.
Some others do have a female DJ, sometimes also the bar tender and shift manager.
For the OP -- you have a few dozen it *should* always be a dude. But clearly, Strip Club Emcee is one of the first jobs which will be lost to robotics and automation.
@Warrior15 -- this is hilarious and I can totally see it!
@Digitech -- that reminds me of one of my first awkward, confusion strip club experiences in North Beach San Francisco (the worst part of town for SCs) where there was this huge fat woman emcee cackling away talking call me out saying she was going to take me into the backroom. That was a different strip club culture, which was probably the norm up to the 1990s (deprecation of the audience and negatively focused with a lot of "come on you cheapskates" rather than trying to bolster the girls for why you might actually WANT to tip them)
Most djs at clubs are clowns! If they would keep their mouths closed and just play music would be better for everyone! Its all about the strippers! Nobody wants to hear some dude constantly running off with the mouth when you got a face full of titties!
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We've also had one of the most off the hook dancers around, Latina, who became a DJ.
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The female DJ is hotter when I tip her in her pants. By far. They will have to put up a sign saying no customers in the DJ booth or there won't be any music when y'all are getting lapdances. I would definitely lick the underside of the male DJ's penis, but it's not my preference compared to a she. At least, this is my grayman strategy. I actually kind of like him maybe just a little. Don't tell the strippers, though. They talk between themselves and I fear they might judge me.
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That is kinda amusing. The cat fights. LOL
It’s kinda like gender roles:
Men: bouncer, DJ, bar back, manager, stage MC
Women: stripper / dancer, waitress, person collecting money at the door
About the only unisex job is the bartender.
Does she have nice tits?
I'd bury my face in them.
When I lived in Dallas there was a popular FM-station called Jack-FM that had mo DJs other than some pre-recorded voice once in a while with some pre-recorded comments thay were actually pretty-funny - I liked that station and liked the lack of a DJ.
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DJ - in larger clubs they are needed, without them I have no idea how you’d get a group of strippers to remember to go on stage in a specific order.
Obviously.
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You don't have to demonstrate your knowledge of Ke$ha to be hot, though.
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The other was at the Fantasy Ranch out in Missouri. Now this one was definitely a dancer. She was *constantly* on the mic telling the customers to tip. It was a slow day shift with only 3 or 4 people, and she would single out customers and tell them to give a dollar to the girl on stage. "Yes, you, give her a dollar" "Ok, hi e another one", etc. Super annoying so I didn't stay long.
Lol@BJ for preferring to fuck males. I can just see the other girls whispering "Now shes fucking her too!?!?" Such a dry wit...
I remember someone debating with a dancer over song counts. The PL just told me he tipped her less to settle the argument. At $5/song, why not? That place is unique (Body Club).
Some others do have a female DJ, sometimes also the bar tender and shift manager.
SJG
@Warrior15 -- this is hilarious and I can totally see it!
@Digitech -- that reminds me of one of my first awkward, confusion strip club experiences in North Beach San Francisco (the worst part of town for SCs) where there was this huge fat woman emcee cackling away talking call me out saying she was going to take me into the backroom. That was a different strip club culture, which was probably the norm up to the 1990s (deprecation of the audience and negatively focused with a lot of "come on you cheapskates" rather than trying to bolster the girls for why you might actually WANT to tip them)