How does 'it' happen?

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• Jascoi

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  7 years ago

  mine favored are pretty and naturally beautiful... figure, face, hair. i prefer no tats and piercings...but it isn’t a deal breaker. likewise on good looking enhancements. and attitude is important for my favorite ‘type’ of dancer.
• shadowcat

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  7 years ago

  I don't know but I suspect that all of the guys that are obsessed with BIG tits were not breast fed when they were infants. :)
• lotsoffun201

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  7 years ago

  I prefer the older MILF type dancers. Somehow or another the 20 somethings just don't do it for me. Great legs and a set of stripper heels always do it for me and even more so when they are attached to a MILF dancer.
• magicrat

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  7 years ago

  One of those existential questons Clubber! I generally like small boobed women but my atf had pierced store bought ones. The Dr did a great job on them I have to admit but it was her personality and looks that got me interested.
• twentyfive

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  7 years ago

  I like tits, therefore I am.
• Huntsman

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  7 years ago

  I like a lot of types and a good personality suddenly makes any type look much better. And vice versa. But all things being equal, I like a lean, well proportioned, athletic type. Why? I have no idea.
• TFP

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  7 years ago

  Lol Shadowcat also! So both Subra and Shadowcat have the notion that those of us who like big boobs weren't breastfed as kids. Lol where do you get this stuff? Funny thing is, because of your comments I did a Google search about that same topic. The funny thing is, most of the results suggest the opposite: men who are enamored with big boobs, or boobs in general, are that way because OF being breastfed as a child. If they really did do a scientific study on that it certainly explains a lot in my case, since as I revealed in the other thread I was breastfed for two years straight.
  
  Anyhow, like the OP states, I don't exactly know how my preferences came about. I know starting in 3rd grade I liked girls who had pretty faces and nice butts. Back in that age it was always popular for boys to take girls behind the bungalow and hump them. That's something yours supposed to grow out of I guess. But with my assjob fetish tells me I never did grow out of it. Big boobs became a thing for me in 7th grade. Don't know why but I had some sudden awaken urge to want to feel them. Luckily girls around that age had no problem letting you do so once they were your girlfriend. And it was very stimulating. From then on out I preferred girls with big boobs and big asses.
• MackTruck

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  7 years ago

  Good question clubber. I like boobs
• docsavage

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  7 years ago

  I think my type isn't the girl who is the best in the club but the girl I like more than the other customers. For example, there is a club I go to where one girl is extremely popular. A lot of times I would go there and couldn't spend time with her because she was being monopolized by the big spenders. If she was available, I was just another in a line of guys wanting to do lap dances and she was only moderately friendly. There's another girl at the same club who is very appealing to me but the other customers mostly ignore her. I like it that she is always available and I always pick her. Me always picking her has caused her to be very friendly to me and acting like I'm someone special when I go see her and I like that too. So it's not always the dancer at the club I and the other customers like most but the girl I like more than the other customers who is my "type".
• chessmaster

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  7 years ago

  Docsavage +1
• Dolfan

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  7 years ago

  We all have our type both in terms of looks and personality. I'm not really sure where mine came from. I do know it's changed over the years though. The importance of either one varies pretty wildly, at least in terms of stripper selection. Some days I'd rather spend with a decent looking girl with a great personality, other days I just want a hot piece of ass and as long as she's not a raving bitch I'm good.
  
  The wild variation in taste really do amaze me. Some days I see popular girls in strip clubs that I wouldn't fuck if they paid me, while girls I think are easily 9's are sitting there all alone. Other days, its the opposite. The club is packed with a bunch of dudes all wanting the same girl I do, while all the other girls sit around bored. The same thing on here, guys asking if some random Instragram model or porn star is hot & no one ever gets universal approval.
• rh48hr

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  7 years ago

  I have no idea why. I've always liked thick girls with dark hair the most but my longest relationship girlfriend and my ex-wife were blond. My first crush in high school was a dark haired thick Italian girl with real and spectacular knockers. But I also went out with a skinny black girl with small tits.
  
  Since my divorce, I've mainly dated and/or gotten dances with dark haired and/or more olive or dark skinned type girls with decent sized breasts. But I've made exceptions. Beauty is beauty and personality plus being extras friendly can win the day.
• Huntsman

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  7 years ago

  I notice who is the most popular stripper in the club because she is most popular for a reason. It might be looks, personality or she puts out the most. But it can also be that she has a bad case of GPS or milks the RIL thing. So I make note of the most popular stripper and make my best guess as to why. But I’m there for my enjoyment, not to follow the herd. Often, I have a better time with the first or second runner up. But I won’t write off the most popular if I think it might result in my best experience.
  
  Sometimes I luck out and the athletic type I like is not as popular if the biggest tits/ass girl who is sometimes most popular. But fun and naughty trumps just about any type for me. GPS, ROB, uninspired dances or too much stripper shit has ruined “my type” a lot of times.
• gawker

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  7 years ago

  I’m a fairly big guy and tend to gravitate towards little spinners; not exclusively by any means, but going into a new club knowing nothing about the dancers, it’s usually the smaller dancers who catch my eye. I’ve often wondered why and have questioned myself repeatedly about why this is. Do I subconsciously want to dominate? Are their narrow hips akin to a boy’s indicating homosexual tendencies? I don’t dislike larger firm boobs, however I was recently with a BIG woman who was tit-fucking me with her huge ponderous saggy breasts and it was a mood killer for me. I had to ask her to stop and just suck me off. Then she started licking my ass. Not my thing. Which leads me to think I like it neat and clean - not sweaty and sloppy.
• Clubber

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  7 years ago

  sc,
  
  I wasn't and I'm not.
• Clubber

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  7 years ago

  Interestingly, most didn't respond to my question. Wasn't anything about your type rather how you believe that became your type. Like, when I was a young boy an older girl next door showed me her tits and let me touch them. So I became a big tit guy. That sort of thing. Like I said for me...
  
  "I know I damn well don't know my reasons." I suspect most of us have no real idea WHY.
  
  
• Cashman1234

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  7 years ago

  I’m not sure why I like what I like. I’m partial to dancers who border on being whores. The body isn’t that much of a thing - as the personality - and the knowledge that the dancer is an openly extras type.
  
  To provide a little introspection, I found dating to be a very long winded approach to getting some pussy. I found that “good” girls were too much effort. I like the lack of pretense with whores and extras strippers. They know what I really want, and it’s not like they will want dinner and flowers before they get fucked. Obviously - it’s P4P - and non-civilian - but that might explain part of my attraction to the girls I prefer. In real life - I will only approach girls who have a well used appearance now.
• Clubber

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  7 years ago

  Cash,
  
  Now that's the kind of answer I was expecting and interested in hearing.
• SirLapdancealot

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  7 years ago

  I like the corn-fed, blonde, all natural 8+ white girls with hourglass figures. The reasons are that I grew up in the Midwest, read Playboy, and watched 80s porn.
• Clubber

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  7 years ago

  Sir,
  
  If it was the porn I watch as a youth, my fave would be a grainy, ragged looking, B&W dancer. :)
• SirLapdancealot

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  7 years ago

  LOL Clubber that was when they called it a 'blue movie' instead of 'porn'. LOL does this mean you like your strippers in bloomers too?
• Call.Me.Ishmael

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  7 years ago

  No idea. For some guys, it might be heavily influenced by their first crush, and/or the first girl who let them touch their tits, and/or the first porn they ever watched.
  
  Time and age factors in, as well. My preferred "type" when I was in my late teens / 20s is pretty different from my "type" today.
• wildbourbon

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  7 years ago

  I have a strong preference for fit women with firm, shaped asses. This body type often excludes large-breasted women unless they've had work done. Ass comes before tits for me.
  
  I played sports growing up so I imagine a large part of this preference came from spending many hours working out with fit female athletes in skimpy outfits (track, tennis) in high school.
  
  I have wondered, at times, if my preference is linked to the women in my family and extended family...all of whom are close to land whales...I have absolutely no interest in overweight/obese women. Is there some sort of evolutionary instinct at play?
• wildbourbon

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  7 years ago

  For reference I generally find myself with women who have Racquel Darrian and Heather Vandeven's type of bodies without the bolt ons.
• Papi_Chulo

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  7 years ago

  Perhaps it's the way nature intended it to be that we all like different things for their to be balance per se - would probably be problematic if we all like the same-thing.
• Papi_Chulo

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  7 years ago

  I've always been attracted to voluptuous women w/ large natural-breasts; large-butts; wide-hips; thick-thighs - aka brickhouses.
  
  In school,most of my friends would like the girl w/ the prettiest-face - I was always hard-up for the one w/ the most-developed body.
  
  For me, the bod does a lot more than the face - thus since I'm into bods and curves/voluptuousness, IMO black women are at the top of the food-chain when it comes to built/voluptuous bods and why I'm most physically attracted to them.
  
  There can also be a cultural-slant per se - seems to me that black and Latino men seem to like curvy voluptuous women and probably why it's common to see lots of big fake-booties in black and Latina clubs - seems Anglos and those of European descent prefer slim women with smallish breasts and asses (at least smallish asses).
• Clubber

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  7 years ago

  As I said before, no idea where my type comes from. Even as a youngster, my first two crushes were Gloria Winters about '55 and Yvette Mimieux in '60.
• twentyfive

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  7 years ago

  @Clubber mine was Jackie Bisset, funny but I still find that type hot as fuck.
• flagooner

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  7 years ago

  My preferences have changed many times through the years. I can't explain why I gravitate towards specific dancers.
• Clubber

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  7 years ago

  25,
  
  Man, when she comes out of the water on to the boat, HOT! She has a lot of what I like.
  
  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GCVv9rgV…
• DandyDan

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  7 years ago

  I have several types I like. The only one I can pin down is redheads, because the girl across the street from where I lived in high school was one. The voluptuous blondes certainly came about during my college years, but I don't really remember how that started for sure. Probably after seeing porn that wasn't Playboy.
• Cashman1234

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  7 years ago

  Twentyfive - Jackie Bisset was hot as fuck! That body type still does it for me. I think she was very hot in The Deep?
• GoVikings

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  7 years ago

  “There can also be a cultural-slant per se - seems to me that black and Latino men seem to like curvy voluptuous women and probably why it's common to see lots of big fake-booties in black and Latina clubs - seems Anglos and those of European descent prefer slim women with smallish breasts and asses (at least smallish asses).“
  
  Agreed
• Clubber

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  7 years ago

  Go,
  
  I guess I fit the Anglo part, but I still can't figure the Asian part.