Does it make a difference to you?
gawker
Older than dirt
When you're having sex with a dancer, either in the club or elsewhere, does it make a difference to you whether she cums? Can you tell when she fakes it? Over the years I've seen some talk about whether or not she gets off and once a poster had beeenn with a real squirted, but usually we write about our "conquests" but don't have much to say about her pleasure.
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There was this one dancer one time who started moaning even before I took my clothes off and it sounded so fake, she then squirted all over me 2 minutes later so I guess she wasn't faking it. BTW - that was easily top 5 best VIP sessions ever for me.
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The more you can really let go, the longer you last. When you try to control it, that is what makes you cum.
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+1. I also like it when it happens and I usually put a good faith effort into it, including what I think is some good oral. But the simple reality is that a % of these girls are not going to cum no matter what you do, for any number of emotional, physical or other reasons. So while I will give each girl the chance, I'm not going to twist myself in knots over it.
In fact, the needy fucks who think that they are doing these girls a favor by making it a big focus are actually making it harder for some of these girls. Because now not only do the girls need to make sure that these dudes enjoy the physical act, but they are also forced to put on an Oscar performance to manage these guys' emotional needs for masculine validation. Because without that validation, those same needy deluded fucks wouldn't be able to come on here to proudly exhort others to do the oh-so-wonderful things for the girls that they do. ;)
*drops mic*
If it's a civvie, then I make sure she's taken care of first before I get mine ;)
Which is exactly what RickyBoy is fishing for the 35% of the time his The System achieves the big non-accomplishment of find a hooker to pay for sex in a strip club.
Last night she came at least 4 times and I've got the scratch marks to prove it. She's been working at a no touch club and working hard at staying drug free so she's not been seeing her "posse" and has been hanging with a clean cut younger guy who she swears hasn't even put a move on her. He's got $$ so she's taking it real slow with him as she explains it. But last night she was dripping wet and more vocal than ever before during sex with me. I've been with many moaners in clubs and OTC and I hate the fake shit, but as she's said to me for years, " I don't fake it for anyone". What a strange fucking night all the way around.
Doesn't really matter to me. It would be nice I suppose. Like was mentioned, if I've paying for something, it's all about me.
If it's a girlfriend/date with no money involved/no P4P it's a whole different story. Then it's important.
Of course, clowns also make him cum. And the word "twink". And pictures of the Washington Monument.
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like to watch when they break out their toys to get an orgasm so I keep a couple toys at my place in case They forget their own.
It doesn't distress me when she doesn't cum, but it does disappoint me, because it's an added stimulus that is lacking.
Yeah, I'm selfish.
+ I don't go to SCs w/ the sole purpose of doing extras; lately they've been happening more often but it's usually a spur of the moment kinda thing - if extras happen great, if they don't then I can still have a good time (and sometimes I don't want extras either b/c not in that particular mood or not wanting to spend the extra cash)
+ when I partake in extras almost all my extras happen ITC where one is more compromised on time and privacy - thus ITC it often becomes more transactional b/c one needs to be cognizant of time and bouncers not intruding, etc - a dancer can still get off but it's harder especially since there isn't as much time or privacy for foreplay, taking one's time, etc
+ in the few occasions I do OTC, then I am more cognizant about her getting off if it seems that she's into it vs her just putting in time to get paid
In the last couple of years I've engaged very selectively in DATY, once with each of three strippers in the VIP room (either while or just before they blew me) and many *many* times with my ATF, both in the VIP room and in her apartment. I remember the first time I DATYed a stripper to orgasm a couple of years ago. I wasn't planning to, but there was this sweet pussy right in front of my face, and I knew she was about to blow me, so I went for it. Afterward she looked at me with a mixture of shock and pleasure and said "You made me cum!"
My ATF is mutli-orgasmic every single time we get together. During 69 she'll come 2-4 times in the time it takes me to cum once. On one overnight date last fall she came 8-10 times all together.
As strip club customers, we shouldn't always assume that strippers are simply whores whom we're paying to pleasure us. Some of them are actual people with their own sexual needs :)
Actually, for the ones actually providing sex, we we *should* assume that's the major factor in play. It *might* be more, and that's good, but assuming she just wants our money is the safest course. :)