Choices

Me too

Of course, BBBJ

69

No options for me. It's safety first, and daty just isn't that safe. Ask Michael Douglas.

BBBJ!

BBBJ

PB&J

^^^ I thought juice would want chakken fangars

Nope. Saving money

M.O.B.

I've chosen the other way, but in the main, I'm selfish too. At least when I'm paying.

For me it's 69

Selfish

I tend not to do either of these in for-pay situations. Beyond that, the choice seems incredibly easy, and almost has nothing to do with the particular activites. Given the choice between cumming and not cumming, I'd guess 100% of us will choose the "Yes splooge" option, 100% of the time. Now, if I could finish in both scenarios, it'd be different. So, if the choice were BBBJ vs DATY+HJ, sometimes I would choose the latter (obviously, some days I would rather be serviced and just pick a BBBJ, but I'd fairly often choose to service her and finish with an HJ)

DATY. I'm a pleaser.

Depends upon the girl. One of mine is BBBJ & the other DATY. Either way BBBJ or DATY is just an appetizer for me before the main course.

I am selfish

If it is a P4P situation, BBBJ hands down. If it is for free or with a civilian woman, then I don't mind occasionally giving DATY without receiving.

Usually DATY. But there are occassions when I focus on my pleasure.

BBBJ

BBBJ

I wonder which lopaw will choose

^ lol haha

BBBJ

I agree with Morbuxxx.

DATY. I can make myself cum, but I luv to make a woman cum.

Lopaw could say if she prefers to give or receive?

Back to the original question, I'd prefer the BBBJ in most circumstances but depends on girl, if she was mega hot then I'd prefer to eat her pussy.

Okay, I'm going to cheat with qualifiers like we liberals tend to do. If it's just a typical bbbj, I'll go for the dinner because making women cum is really fun for me, but if she's one of maybe as few as 3 select women I've had the pleasure with, I want the BJ!

I like giving DATY. BBBJ is secondary to me, a special type of activity, not for general use, at least not BBBJ till completion.

SO best woud DATY / FIV , then preliminary BBBJ, then FS. If FS cannot occur, then the sexual tension is still there, and so the girl will be ready for it when it can happen. FS is so important because of the effect it has on both parties.

SJG

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BBBJ almost always, but with a current favorite I'm experiencing the pleasures of 69.

BBBJ

BBBJ. Then Daty.

I have never received a BJ that was worth anything so I can't see actually paying for one. Based on that I'll choose DATY and take one for the team. Maybe she will feel like she owes me one and it will work in my favor. If not it's no big deal. At least I hit to spend time with her and make her feel good.

Dominic....yeah that's often the case. Most BJs aren't that good. Obviously I wouldn't turn one down but it seems like unless the girl knows what she's doing or has a lot of experience.....more often than not they aren't that great

Yes, as I see it, if you give her good DATY, then she will open up to you, and if not right then, some time soon FS can occur. And she will see that you are more interested in she than in your own ejaculation.

And this is of course how when I first registered here I took exception to Mr. LDK. Better to leave the sexual tension, than to release it.

BBBJ is great because of getting off on the girl's face, and giving her a treat. But to do it 'till completion is a different matter. Usually girl's only want that when Aunt Flo is visiting, or it is near the time of her visit. Sometimes they do it as a kind of examination, and even ejaculation test.

Otherwise, they like to be fucked, and DATY is a preparation for this, even if it cannot happen immediately. Your learning the girl's arousal patterns and about how energy flows in her.

SJG

I've had a lot of ITC BJs the past three years. I suppose it's true by definition that some of them have been substandard . . . but even mediocre blowjobs are pretty outfuckingstanding!

As a variation on the old joke: "I didn't fuck a 10 last night, but I fucked five 2's!" there's this:

A 9 didn't blow me last night, but three 3's did!

One great BBBJ that I enjoyed was long ago, a very young girl, when I was the same age myself. We had met at a curious place, the Renaissance Pleasure Faire, the Kissing Booth.

So this was now our first date, we pulled up at a pizza place, parking right up at the building, within about 30' of the front door. So it was not really private. I gave her some DFKing, always finding that it works nice to keep girls kind of floating that way, makes them easier to talk with and all.

Then she surprised me, that in this not so private place and in a very small car she just leaned over and without any explanatory words helped herself to undoing my pants and masterfully administering a BBBJ TCIM WS. Afterwards she pulled her head back up and said, "I bet you don't know many ** year old girls who know how to do that." She was right.

Now, it turns out that this girl was really trying to make an impression on me. But, she was a virgin, and at least for the time, she intended to stay that way.

I tell this story because in my view, BBBJ TC is most of the time something the girl initiates because she does now want to do FS. So she is offering something as the alternative, but if she controls the timing and all, she is also preventing FS. Girls will do this, for their own reasons, and this is not wrong.

But in a P4P situation, and in the often highly regulated space of a strip club, and responding to our OP, I would see the choices as:

1. DATY, without my own ejaculation, but letting the sexual tension remain, showing her that I am saving it for future FS with her, even though this FS may not ever occur.

2. BBBJ, with me seeking my own ejaculation and showing that she is secondary.

So of course I would pick 1.

The only way I would go for #2 is maybe if it was like in that car in the parking lot where the girl, for her own reasons, just helped herself and did it, like maybe in the front room.

SJG

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